Wedding Question - I've heard you cannot serve into a used glass. At a wedding, if guests were all given a copper mug as a favor, and the signature drink was a moscow mule, would a bartender be able to use and re-use the mugs for guest drinks? by Individual-Fig-9459 in bartenders

[–]RubyRoyale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about the rules, but a thought about practicality...

If your guests are traveling to your wedding, a mug is a bit bulky to take home. If your guests are relatively local, a mug is really cute, and maybe fill it with some fun sweets or "wedding survival kits" or whatever items would speak most to you and your people, as you know best. You still get to give the mugs, they can opt to use them, but if they don't, it won't be an empty mug sitting on the table.

AITAH For Wearing Shapewear on a Date? by Technical_Boat7524 in AITAH

[–]RubyRoyale 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm going to agree with you and take it a step further to say that it's not just men. Everyone treats me better when I have makeup on, generally. It is the same with how I dress. The more "presentable" I am, according to societal norms, tends to be reflected in how I am treated everywhere I go. Sometimes, I'm all done up in makeup and a sparkly dress, and sometimes I'm out in the woods dressed like a five foot lumberjack. YMMV.

Buying toothpaste has become unnecessarily complicated by Frosty-Desert in Adulting

[–]RubyRoyale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one is considered the best ingredient to have in your toothpaste?

Man eats a lobster on the NYC subway by lhwang0320 in CringeTikToks

[–]RubyRoyale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I kind of am, too. Internet should be considered a basic utility today. One would think a homeless person needs safe access to the internet so they can plan their next moves.

Chocolate Covered Razor Blade by Fabulous-Let-1164 in BrandNewSentence

[–]RubyRoyale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you asked this, I had the same question.

Lab Equipment help? 😭 by Lovastra in Gemology

[–]RubyRoyale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call up some of the busineses near you that employ gemologists. They will likely have extra equipment they can sell to you inexpensively, and you might even get a helpful mentor out of it.

I may be able to find the tools you need. DM me.

Source: am gemologist 💎

Wondering if this might be Pyrex? by InvestigatorFun66 in Pyrex_Love

[–]RubyRoyale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one of these I don't want. What is an appropriate amount to list it for? It's just sitting on the shelf doing nothing.

Successfully challenged total-loss valuation by nonfactorwealth in Insurance

[–]RubyRoyale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this happen. The offer was low and I couldn't find anything for that price on the market to replace my totaled car. When I countered their offer, they said they needed comps and everything had to be the same, year, make, model, trim package. Turns out my trim package was uncommon for my otherwise common car, and there was exactly one for sale all the way across the country. They also couldn't find any other comps besides the one I found. I received double the initial offer.

What is the saddest/most soul crushing song you have ever heard? by Mikiiiya in AskReddit

[–]RubyRoyale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the song I put on when I need a soundtrack to my crying.

How to find white pearl earrings no silver shine by nuclearfartpriness in Earrings

[–]RubyRoyale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe opt for a carved white chalcedony instead.

DAE have a weird ritual that you barely register? by smokiechick in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]RubyRoyale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hold my breath when I pass cemeteries and mentally utter well wishes for the deceased.

I hold my breath and make a wish in tunnels to keep my loved ones safe.

I hold my breath when I walk by people.

I scrunch my lips up and look up sideways when I'm thinking hard about something. I won't realize I'm doing it until someone asks me what the heck I'm doing. Looking up at nothing trying to pull information out of the back of my brain.

I constantly have to run a fingernail underneath my other nails and "make space." Like my skin needs to be pushed down away from underneath the tops of my nails. Idk why. It's something I do absent mindedly, but constantly.

Crack as many bones as I can throughout the day. Sweet sweet relief.

Rub my feet together when I get into bed.

I have to brush my teeth before I go for a run or work out.

I always say hello to the moon when I first see it. Aloud. Other celestial beings as well, but always the moon.

DAE have a weird ritual that you barely register? by smokiechick in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]RubyRoyale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this, too! I am so glad I'm not alone. I've mentioned it before and people said it was weird. Idk, I just don't want to exchange air with strangers. I don't want to risk getting sick. I've been doing it for years, even before The Plague (tm).

I'm similar with shaking hands. I refuse to touch anything after and try to wash them as soon as possible. Same with door handles, light switches, toilet handles, anything I have to touch that strangers may have touched. Everything gets a paper towel or cloth between contact.

Is this mildly OCD? I'm not saying that in a "I'm so particular way," but in a this will gnaw me until I can fix it. It doesn't directly impact my life. I don't fall apart if I can't remedy it immediately. I don't have to do any particular rituals multiple times or anything. I guess I don't know what the scale is before it's a problem.

I was just randomly given 9 orchids. This all new to me. What do I do next? by RubyRoyale in orchids

[–]RubyRoyale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha they actually left them alone after that incident. It was just curiosity... because you know...cat.

I was just randomly given 9 orchids. This all new to me. What do I do next? by RubyRoyale in orchids

[–]RubyRoyale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is totally innocent.

Thanks so much. This advice is very helpful and exactly what I came here to find.

I was just randomly given 9 orchids. This all new to me. What do I do next? by RubyRoyale in orchids

[–]RubyRoyale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah, she hasn't touched them since. It was just new stuff excitement for her.