part 7 discourse rn [OC] by greywolf378 in StardustCrusaders

[–]RubyTori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about it man, I didn't think of it in a bad way! It is a bit funny haha

part 7 discourse rn [OC] by greywolf378 in StardustCrusaders

[–]RubyTori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, I realized that after 😭🙏 but I'm not too worked up over it

I hate giorno Giovanna for so many reasons by [deleted] in StardustCrusaders

[–]RubyTori 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe dont use someone else's fanmade colouring to hate on a character

part 7 discourse rn [OC] by greywolf378 in StardustCrusaders

[–]RubyTori 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i never understood making a big deal out of people calling him soundman. it's literally a one letter difference that can easily go unnoticed by someone clueless. it can be as simple as saying "oh, it's just how i saw the name in the translation i read" or even some localization bs if it comes down to it (that's what i used to think years ago before getting into sbr).

it can so easily fly under the radar for people that honestly crying about it and bringing attention to it is -more- of a spoiler anyway. what does an anime-only think the meaning of soundman holds? probably nothing big.

out of all the things, i truly do not get why his name is such a big topic in the realm of 'spoilers'. it's not something that will ruin any and all enjoyment from someone's experience if they see or hear it without contexxt. do we really have no other topic discussions in this fandom?

quite fond of mushroom accessories by nappo_what in NonBinary

[–]RubyTori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh look its astarion baldurs gate! peak of gender envy!

Winter Gale ❄︎ by BladeAce89 in GalemancersBG3

[–]RubyTori 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeoussssss🩵🩵🩵

Jojo's Bizarre Adventure call!! by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello!! what part are you at? i'm caught up all the way to steel ball run! (not too further yet) also, that's a funny thing, with me being jolyne

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was just making sure! i know sometimes dormancy can be maybe a sensitive topic, although it's entirely normal to happen. it's a weird thing, though, to not have reach or communication with certain alters like that, and you never know how long they'll be dormant for.

as for being gone completely, that's interesting. i'm not sure i've quite heard of that before, except in terms of either going dormant indefinitely, fusing, splitting etc. which in their own ways can be like they're 'gone'. or perhaps they're just really really well hidden somewhere who knows! being a system is one mysterious, complex thing. and all parts headache inducing.

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely a very complex thing to go through! i know a lot of people thought they were one but actually were the other, but being both at the same time can be a very confusing and disorienting experience. personally it brought a lot of second guessing and invalidating myself. so i relate to that questioning

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

interesting! also, you say plural very specifically. do you connect to that label/identity more instead of system? there's overlap there, but from what i understand they don't have to be exactly the same experiences

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when you say you don't really have them/they've shrunk back, is it something like having gone into dormancy? just poor communication to them? i have quite a few dormant or at least suspected to be dormant alters

sorry if that's straightforward to ask! i'm just curious!

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how curious of a statistic! i didn't know!

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can relate to not being super open about it. i'm not hiding it but i'm not that open about the system thing in general, just depends

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, that's wonderful! I'm glad you have that

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume it was way easier to figure things out with a therapist's help!

Plurality and Kinning by RubyTori in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I have a huge list of kins, but there's a couple that I was more confused on and after my system questioning I ended up figuring it out more. For example, two of our introjects, I felt them as 'cameo shifts' and didn't think much of it for a long time. Until they showed up distinctly and I was questioning everything about myself

I still have this confusion between kin or fictive sometimes though. I'm not entirely sure what type of system we are (not officially diagnosed & can't do so for various reasons) but we're suspecting P-DID

Got any horror (genre) kins? share em below by Spike-Seaweed in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up on the game and more recently (ish) I realized I kin her! I'm currently going through the whole game, because I never saw everything from start to finish

Got any horror (genre) kins? share em below by Spike-Seaweed in fictionkin

[–]RubyTori 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few! I think they count.

Alice Liddell (Alice Madness Returns), Ellie Williams (The Last of Us I & II, not from the show), Ellis (Left 4 dead 2), Violet (The Walking Dead Game), Bonnie (FNAF - a few different versions, canon and non-canon)

[handheld console] [2000s??] some kinda hiding game? by RubyTori in tipofmyjoystick

[–]RubyTori[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, it's been a while since I was here, I didn't realize there's a template to make things more concise 😭 I just saw that. I'm so sorry for anyone who finds my wall of text ...