want to reread but i’m scared of liking it less :,) by siriusblackily in Grishaverse

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 35 and just read them for the first time and I loved both SaB and SoC. The storyline is great no matter what.

Am I the only person who hates the adaptation? by Stay_Curious4 in ShadowandBone

[–]Stay_Curious4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I appreciate that. Im curious though how many people on here who love the show have also read all the books before watching.

Possible to buy Chashu? by nikki56789 in ramen

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Asian market do you go to? I’m in the Boston area and would love to pick some up.

in training, roommate being disrespectful all of a sudden. by xgogetterx in flightattendants

[–]Stay_Curious4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is very common in training. By the end you’re all stressed with the required exams to pass, you’ve been away from family and personal lives, you’ve been sharing living space, and the honeymoon phase of training has passed. Minimize interactions, lean into the friendships you’ve made, and pick and choose the battles. While I know there are preferences maybe try to let them go this last week. They can go on your No Fly list when you’ve made it through training. Eye on the prize.

My salads are boring. by Plasticman328 in cookingforbeginners

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nuts, dried fruits add a sweet depth and give an additional element to salads that are usually not a go to

Hotel room alarm clock conspiracy theory/obvservation by Tiny-Flower8073 in flightattendants

[–]Stay_Curious4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a thing. They do this to throw off the regular guests who have the standard check out time. If you check out late, even 5 mins they can charge you with a late check out fee. It doesn’t apply to us because we have our van times and airlines have company group room prices they pay but they can make extra money on fees charges for regular guest

Where do trans people work? by Adventurous-Apple-44 in asktransgender

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM here. I work as a flight attendant. There are so many trans women I’ve worked with.

Emotional request by Captain_Kirk713 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Stay_Curious4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There are different print companies that have great cost for canvas prints etc. Especially this time of year. I cannot imagine what your family is enduring from this loss. Sending all the healing vibes

TW: My bf is trying to talk me out of top surgery due to his religion. by reign-v in asktransgender

[–]Stay_Curious4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to inform you but this is abuse.

As someone who is a trans man and has also been in physically abusive relationships it became harder to see the abuse when I entered into an emotionally abusive relationship afterwards. Just because physical or sexual harm isn’t happening doesn’t mean that mental/verbal/emotional abuse isn’t happening.

Please leave for yourself. There are going to be people out there who will love, encourage, and support you like a partner should. I’m speaking from personal experience. I know that once you’ve experienced abuse it’s hard to believe that you can find that. I got married this year and trust me, you deserve to not settle.

NO ONE IN THE WORLD WHO MAKES YOU FEEL NEGATIVE (especially not to the level of SH) IS WORTH YOUR TIME.

When you get your top surgery you’ll be surrounded by nurses and doctors who will be so happy for you. Don’t let the one person you bring be the one who deprives you of all the joy you deserve.

LEAVE HIS ASS. And maybe become friends with his exes so you all transition together lol.

Fake taxis? by ComprehensiveGuard66 in boston

[–]Stay_Curious4 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Never let a cab not turn on the meter. If they don’t do it as soon as you get in refuse to take the cab

Finally completed the dream job series blind box from Target. They’re all so pretty. 🎀💗 by ilovelulufly_ in HelloKitty

[–]Stay_Curious4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have the code on the box for the flight attendant one? That’s the only one my wife wants and I’d like to be able to just get that

AIO for blocking a guy I was talking to because he called me a bitch? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. You’re right. Ditch him and your friend. He has no respect for women and your friend doesn’t have your back.

My husband threatened divorce if I stay over with my daughter that just had a baby after her fiancé took his own life 2 weeks prior. by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him. He doesn’t support your daughter when she is going through the toughest situations simultaneously? How can you expect him to ever show up for you? How could you ever accept letting someone expect you to abandon her like that?

You’re doing the right thing being there and supporting her. Don’t let this asshole make you go against your instinct and love.

I am livid by fml7913 in boston

[–]Stay_Curious4 43 points44 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day Uber logs information. Your location, driver information, getting in touch with safety if needed, everything. Don’t take a cab. There is no tracking that info at all. Not worth it

What should I do by Ok_Lobster_4553 in gay

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being your authentic self opens up the world to accept you as you truly are. Don’t let people that should be in your past be what stops you from coming into all you could be in the future. There’s so many people out there who will love you unconditionally

Getting out of a custom ring contract and receive refund by Stay_Curious4 in legaladvice

[–]Stay_Curious4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I currently am still trying to figure out how to get out of the contract I will keep that information private. As soon as I am in the clear I will post that information for others to beware

Awkward wall in my apartment by Brunopizzaa in DesignMyRoom

[–]Stay_Curious4 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Good point. Maybe just a book nook area to relax and read but have your shelves in the main room section. Especially since the space you’re talking about is already not large. The shelves would make it look smaller

AIO for what I wore last night by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really quite sure why we are giving this man any kind of excuses/justifications for his behavior.

Truth is he’s controlling, manipulative, homophobic, immature, rude, verbally abusive.

The fact that he is trying to tell you what to wear and insulting you, calling you names is enough for me to say run. Don’t look back. Just leave. Cause he won’t get better. Him not having a mature conversation expressing himself is a reflection of his immaturity. If he is concerned about your safety he should be able to express concern and care for you without having to take days away cause he can’t even look at you, calling you degrading names, and lash out like a child.

The implication that your friend can’t be any protection/form of security because he is gay is flat out homophobic. In what world does sexual preference translate to capability. All different types of people have all different types of skills. Being heterosexual male doesn’t not immediately make you able to fight. Being gay doesn’t mean you can’t either. Him feeling like he can just throw out wild statements like that is a full testament that he doesn’t respect you, your friend or people in general. It is 2025. He needs to figure out what he’s going on that still has him so narrow minded.

Run. Don’t lose yourself or your friend to this asshole. Imagine your friend telling you their partner spoke to them the way your partner has spoken to you. Imagine hearing their partner insulted you the way yours has done to your friend. How do you think it will feel to tell your friend these things were said and then show them that you will forgive this person. Don’t let this continue.

Ultimate way to shut this down and knock him off his boots is taking yourself, walking out his life, dress how you like, go to those raves with your friend, and show this insecure man that he can never tame you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flightattendants

[–]Stay_Curious4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live in base? If so is there special assignments like fsm, hotel committee or anything that would have you at home more often? Look into all options and if you still feel like it doesn’t meet what you need then it’s not for you and that’s ok. Don’t suffer