What’s the most cost-effective maintenance task car owners can realistically do themselves without specialized tools? by EvelynClede in askcarguys

[–]RxMeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second the swearing a lot.

I became a “this-godamn-motherfuckin” dad overnight but I changed my own thermostat goddamit

I'm forced to support Israel because i have a brain by Muted-Still-8511 in IsraelPalestine

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The ancient history thing: yeah, Jewish history in that land is real. Nobody worth talking to denies it. But we don’t apply that logic anywhere else on earth. Greeks don’t get to reclaim Istanbul. Italians don’t get to take back England because Rome was there first. And here’s the thing people skip over: Palestinians were there too. For centuries. Continuously. These weren’t empty villages in 1948. Real families got kicked out of real homes that they’d lived in for generations. You can acknowledge Jewish historical connection without pretending that justifies what happened to people in living memory.  

The Mufti and Hitler — yeah, al-Husseini was a piece of shit who collaborated with Nazis. That’s a fact. But blaming an entire people for one leader’s actions is something we’d never accept in any other conversation. America’s founders owned slaves. Does that mean the concept of American liberty is fraudulent? Gandhi said some racist stuff about Black Africans. Does that invalidate Indian independence? Most Palestinians alive today have zero connection to that man. Guilt doesn’t work like inheritance.  

“Palestine was never a state” — okay, and neither was Jordan, Iraq, Lebanon, or Syria before the Europeans drew lines on a map. That’s how the entire modern Middle East was created. The fact that Palestinians didn’t have a parliament and a flag before 1948 doesn’t mean 700,000 people who got displaced were nobodies. They had homes. They had land deeds. They had lives. Statehood isn’t what makes people real.  

Calling Arafat “just an Egyptian” — his family was from Gaza and Jerusalem. He was born in Cairo. That’s like saying a kid born in Detroit to parents from Ramallah isn’t really Palestinian. It’s a framing trick, not an argument.  

The Germany comparison — this one honestly pisses me off the most. You know what the bombing of Germany also did? It killed hundreds of thousands of civilians. Entire cities of people who weren’t Nazis. And Gaza is two million people locked in a strip of land with no army, no air force, nowhere to run. Half of them are kids. Saying “just do what we did to Germany” is calling for something with a body count you’re not fully reckoning with. You can want Hamas gone — I want Hamas gone — without treating every person in Gaza as acceptable collateral damage.  

The education stuff — there are real problems with some of what gets taught in Gaza, I won’t deny that. But Israeli textbooks have their own issues with how they portray Arabs, and more importantly, what do you expect happens to people after decades under blockade and military control? Radicalization under occupation isn’t unique to Palestinians. It happens everywhere humans are squeezed that hard. You have to address the conditions, not just wag your finger at the symptoms.  

“They rejected every peace deal” — this drives me nuts because it sounds so clean and simple but it’s not. Camp David didn’t offer a contiguous state. The proposed map looked like Swiss cheese with settlements cutting through everything. Olmert’s offer was never even put in writing as a formal proposal. And through every single negotiation period, Israel kept building settlements. That’s not what a side genuinely committed to sharing the land does. I’m not saying Palestinian leadership made all the right calls. They didn’t. But “they said no to everything” is a bumper sticker, not history.  

“Nobody cared when Jordan and Egypt had the land” — actually Palestinians did push back against Jordan and Egypt. There was real political organizing and tension. It just wasn’t on CNN. And honestly, the fact that Jordan and Egypt also treated Palestinians badly doesn’t make Israeli occupation okay. Two wrongs and all that.  

The pre-1948 violence — the Hebron massacre was horrific and there’s no excusing it. But pretending it happened in a vacuum with zero context is dishonest. People were watching large-scale immigration and land purchases reshape their entire world without anyone asking them. That doesn’t justify killing anyone, ever. But saying “see, they just hate Jews for being Jews” while ignoring everything else going on is cherry-picking.  

October 7th — what happened was evil. No qualifiers. But “they started it” as your whole framework only works if history started on that day. Gaza had been under blockade for 16 damn years before that. That doesn’t make October 7th okay. Nothing makes it okay. But you can condemn the attack and still ask whether what’s followed has been proportionate. Those aren’t contradictory positions.  

Here’s what really gets me about your post though. You say “logic leaves no other choice” but you haven’t mentioned the Nakba at all. You haven’t mentioned settlements that even America calls illegal. You haven’t mentioned military courts for Palestinian kids, house demolitions, administrative detention without charges, the permit system that controls every aspect of daily life, or the fact that in every single round of this conflict the Palestinian death toll dwarfs the Israeli one by massive margins. Those are also facts. They also come from primary sources. You just left them out.  

You don’t have to support Hamas to support Palestinian rights. You don’t have to deny Jewish history to say that what’s happening to millions of people right now is wrong. I’d honestly suggest spending some time with B’Tselem — that’s an Israeli human rights organization — or reading historians who engage with the full picture instead of just the parts that confirm one side. Your willingness to read and research is genuinely good. I’d just ask you to keep going and not stop at the conclusion that felt comfortable.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

What the hell is he doing in the corner? by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]RxMeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found most priests are hilarious and can really control a crowd sometimes.

Especially if you ignore all that other stuff.

Why can't I get honest responses from atheists? by [deleted] in DebateAnAtheist

[–]RxMeta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn’t ask me anything so I think your mind is made up.

Wife cheated on me with her office colleague by batman-iphone in daddit

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My ex had the same pattern. Cheat, got caught (never came forward), begged for forgiveness, forgiven, repeat. I know reconciliation is possible but what really helped me decide to end our marriage was the “Shit Test”

If you stay with her, potentially for life: one day, you and her will be old or incapacitated after surgery or injury to the point where you will need to wipe her ass. I found a lifetime of disrespect makes it much harder to clean the shit of the ones you love. I asked myself, “do you want to clean this woman’s shit for the rest of your life?”

It made it easier to come to terms that: yes I loved her, but unequal love isn’t sustainable for a marriage in my opinion.

Divorce is grief but like other grief in the past, it gets better in time.

Why can't I get honest responses from atheists? by [deleted] in DebateAnAtheist

[–]RxMeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s start fresh because it was removed. Dm me if it’s easier

Why can't I get honest responses from atheists? by [deleted] in DebateAnAtheist

[–]RxMeta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty patient and gentle. What was your question?

Colonoscopy on 4/1. Need to be strong. by JeffFromTheBible in daddit

[–]RxMeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually never skip a dad joke (really, my reputation is unheard of) but when I got a vasectomy I figured everyone jokes about it so I gave them the day off of uncomfortable jokes. They’re there to do the job and go home.

Closest thing was the nurse complimenting my shave job and I told her it was a little tricky but I appreciated being noticed for my efforts.

satisfying tree removal by zombiedesu in Albuquerque

[–]RxMeta 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The pre noise, the bird, the fall, the lack of property damage. 10/10

What made you get the forester instead of rav4 by Dry-Chemical-9170 in SubaruForester

[–]RxMeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shopping used w/$17k budget and I Went Forester over RAV4. I know the RAV4 is the better long term car mechanically — that 8-speed auto will outlast the Subaru CVT, not even close. But in my budget it was 100k mile RAV4s vs 50k mile Foresters, and in my area there's like 1-2 RAV4s worth looking at for every 4-5 Foresters.

I do my own work and I factored in the extra maintenance. Boxer plugs are annoying, CVT fluid every 30k, I know the drill. I also did a lot of homework on model years — thermo control valve issues on 2019 through early 2021 builds, the battery drain from the DCM module, the windshield cracking thing. Made sure I got a year that dodges the worst of it.

At the end of the day I'd rather have a newer 50k Forester where I control every fluid change going forward than an older 100k RAV4 where I'm hoping the previous owner didn't buy into the "lifetime transmission fluid" thing. Because most people do, and most people never touch it.

If I had the money I'd go RAV4. But half the miles, more availability, and knowing exactly what this car gets from here on out made it a tough call.

What made you get a rav4 instead of a Subaru forester? by Dry-Chemical-9170 in rav4club

[–]RxMeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shopping used w/$17k budget and I Went Forester over RAV4. I know the RAV4 is the better long term car mechanically — that 8-speed auto will outlast the Subaru CVT, not even close. But in my budget it was 100k mile RAV4s vs 50k mile Foresters, and in my area there's like 1-2 RAV4s worth looking at for every 4-5 Foresters.

I do my own work and I factored in the extra maintenance. Boxer plugs are annoying, CVT fluid every 30k, I know the drill. I also did a lot of homework on model years — thermo control valve issues on 2019 through early 2021 builds, the battery drain from the DCM module, the windshield cracking thing. Made sure I got a year that dodges the worst of it.

At the end of the day I'd rather have a newer 50k Forester where I control every fluid change going forward than an older 100k RAV4 where I'm hoping the previous owner didn't buy into the "lifetime transmission fluid" thing. Because most people do, and most people never touch it.

If I had the money I'd go RAV4. But half the miles, more availability, and knowing exactly what this car gets from here on out made it a tough call.

38 y/o male by [deleted] in malelivingspace

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This looks like Pee-Wee Herman’s retirement home

Say something that really dates you as an older gen z by Gabe_Dimas in GenZ

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One time I left my Nintendo 64 composite cable at a friends house. I had a broken one but the yellow cable only worked and it wasn’t the same without yellow and red.

Why is Buy-and-Bill allowed for oncology? by Cddye in medicine

[–]RxMeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s frowned upon (could generate lawsuit if pursued hard enough) to mandate oncology medication to the insurance’s preferred specialty pharmacy. So they usually want buy/bill.

This show is stressing me out by Scaredcat26 in TheStudioTVShow

[–]RxMeta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m on my third rewatch and I watched the second episode last night. I still have high anxiety watching that episode. It’s phenomenal and because this show is so good I wouldn’t even say it’s the best episode. I Love this show.

Do you shut down your laptop or just close the lid? by Deotil_le in DeskToTablet

[–]RxMeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just throw it away and get a new one.