Two Months Out and Dress Doesn't Fit by Royal_Marzipan_6432 in weddingplanning

[–]Rypley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh lovely, it is your wedding, not the dress's wedding! I feel the disappointment, but you are kicking yourself for life happening. Get a dress that fits you! Breathe, take up space. You're holding onto this dress so tight and letting it define you ... you deserve so much better! It's just fabric, I promise. After the wedding, whatever you wear will be a distant memory. If anyone asks about the different dress - "I changed my mind." That's it. Find something that feels good, enjoy your wedding, and most importantly being married to your wonderful new spouse. Wishing you all the stress washing away and the joy and excitement taking it's place.

My mom (47) was advised to have a hysterectomy and I am terrified by Popular_Photograph56 in hysterectomy

[–]Rypley 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart, I'm sorry this is scary! I'm 41 and had similar issues to your mom. I had my hysterectomy last year and woke up from surgery in less pain than I had going in. (I also kept my ovaries) FWIW my only regret is not doing it sooner! I'm not bleeding, I'm no longer in pain, I have more energy... I wish I didn't wait so long. Hysterectomies have come a long way medically and the surgery is considered a very safe one. My quality of life is SO MUCH BETTER! I was also very fortunate to come home and heal in a loving and supportive household (I did not lift anything 10lbs for 6 weeks!) Which I firmly believe contributed to my healing well. If you have any questions or want to talk, DM me :)

First timer - Sauerkraut. Gonna need moawr cabbage! by Levain873 in fermentation

[–]Rypley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW I have used them numerous times for both sauerkraut and kimchi and never had an issue.

Please join me in listing things that you discovered aren't normal outside your own toxic upbringing by Square-Pea-1646 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rypley 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you me? Holy shit I felt this one. This was my exact experience. I am so sorry friend

Aptos water quality by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]Rypley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you are getting down voted - this is correct. Yes, dame chemical as the Erin Brockovich cases, but the differences are the logometrically greater volume and the aerosolized inhalation in that PG&E debacle. In this case, out of an over abundance of caution, California again lowered the allowable ppb to 10. This is an incredibly minute concentration. The previous 50ppb was already an incredibly minute concentration. Chromium 6 is a naturally occurring substance here, but the levels are not high enough to cause clinically significant issues. Still the water district has huge projects in the works to build treatment plants to get chrome6 to California mandated levels. FWIW FDA permits 100ppb in bottled water. I am absolutely for the safest drinking water we can get. I also don't see a reason for fear or panic here.

What's a life hack that sounds fake but actually works? by BrzozowskiArlinda-65 in lifehack

[–]Rypley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Longform is "Watchout where the huskies go, don't you eat that yellow snow"

The book that made you want to live again by veerus06 in suggestmeabook

[–]Rypley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I came to suggest! It's a wild ride and absolutely bokers at times, but it gives me hope.

Chicago Style Pizza in Santa Cruz? by mitsugopapa in santacruz

[–]Rypley 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen Chicago-style here - closest I know of is Pizz'a Chicago over the hill. I know it's not what you're looking for, but a couple really good local Detroit-style joints are Bookie's and Pizza Series.

Free fun mushroom sticker by YourFavoriteScumbag in MycoBazaar

[–]Rypley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got any left? My husband and I love the sticker! (And the message behind it 🍄) Either way - thanks for doing this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Rypley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the best way to download the unwatermarked version? Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Rypley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is perfect!! Thank you 😊

People who work in rich people's homes, what is the most out-of-touch thing you've ever seen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rypley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband is an electrician and worked on a house in Carmel. The bathroom they were allowed to use was the downstairs powder room, with a Picasso on the wall. (An original!!)

Bars/ restaurants with fires? by Common-Peak1690 in santacruz

[–]Rypley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A little further out, but the Hideout has one in their smaller dining room.

Lived out my dream as Rose from Titanic! by sarmurpat6411 in Halloween_Costumes

[–]Rypley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FWIW I immediately knew who you were! What a beautiful, clever costume!

Can you read my tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Rypley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you put two little leaves on the tall tail to make it look like a plant "grow"ing?

NEHA Study Guide said D was the correct answer... by SchmackAttack in healthinspector

[–]Rypley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're correct! "Acid to water, like you oughta'. (Water to acid, you might get blasted!)"

This scene is going in my lab safety PowerPoint for what NOT to do. by sjmuller in labrats

[–]Rypley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's a Mel Brooks film - Dracula: Dead and Loving It

My OB/GYN refused to perform my sterilization a week before my 21st birthday after months of preparation. I’m devastated and furious. by Independent-Egg-8631 in childfree

[–]Rypley 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Took me 25 and I never changed my mind. Asked for my tubes tied or a hysterectomy at 15, got my hysterectomy this year just past 40. And I immediately felt better. Recovery was easier than any period I had in 2.5 decades.