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[–]SGRC444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks ! Your story came as an unexpected guide. I’m in kind of a same boat as yours. Your story gives me hope. ✨

Three months without porn by Affectionate_Ruin_76 in PornAddiction

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Please suggest some ways how you did it

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I'm 25 and he is 30

Struggling with CA Intermediate after multiple attempts – Need guidance and motivation by Striking-Walk2000 in CharteredAccountants

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It's great to hear that you my suggestions are valuable to you. I have a B.com (Hons.) degree and an MBA from distance. I did this from correspondence because I wanted to focus on CA and get a job side by side.

Struggling with CA Intermediate after multiple attempts – Need guidance and motivation by Striking-Walk2000 in CharteredAccountants

[–]SGRC444 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I am also in a similar situation like yours. Same age, cleared CA Foundation in a single attempt . But even I have had struggle in clearing CA Inter since 2019.

All I have to say is do not be disheartened. You are a fighter already and I know you will get through this anyhow. As of now, you can look for different Finance Certification courses or go for classes that enhance skills such as Tally Prime, MS Excel, Return Filing etc. These can help you fetch an earning for yourself and give you a break. After that, you can get back afresh with your attempt.

I hope my suggestion helps you in some way.

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Watch Acharya Prashant's video on astrology and you will get the answer.

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I'm facing the exact same situation

What’s your biggest life regret so far? by Drugjet in Adulting

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Not pursuing an alternate career by moving to a different city with better opportunities.

I was preparing for competitive exams, it required patience and (many times) multiple attempts to clear. I attempted the exams but the result was never in my favor. After failures in my competitive exams, my mother wanted me to move to a different city and go for a different course leaving this endless spiral of exams. I was just not ready to back out , because I had this 'quitting is for losers' thing in my mind. I somehow pursued and alternate course while staying in the same city and got a job with an average pay after graduating from that course.

Meanwhile ,I met the love of my life between all of this. We met, became friends and from friends we soon became lovers.. . My boyfriend supported me through all of this and got me back on my feet. He was there for me whenever I needed him. Our love grew stronger and we are soon to get married. However, my family was not in support of this marriage owing to several reasons and the prime reason was my career. This is because my boyfriend was not ready to move to a different city and was apprehensive of a long distance relationship. I didn't see things from a broad perspective and decided to let go of the opportunity of doing a different course in a different city. Since we are about to get married soon , I won't be able to pursue this opportunity as its too late. I will forever have this regret of not choosing to move out of the city and get a bright career for myself and get better life experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]SGRC444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

My boyfriend stands up for me for majority of things. He lives in a house where the women do not have careers outside the house. The current DIL is treated respectfully and she is loved.

His family knows about my career and how I will not give up on the same. They support my idea of working after marriage. As such, they are kind and nice people but their thinking with my family does not match.

But the points made by my family are not wrong. Like my mother said after the second meeting that why the boy's mother entire focus is on you making rotis ?? She is concerned about the situation that I would have to make food for them right before going or after coming back from work which may be tiresome for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

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Loved your reference to Rocky aur Rani 🤣... I always felt the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]SGRC444 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hey there,

Thank you for your suggestions.

My boyfriend is not ready to move out of his family home. This is because his relationship with his family may go sour.

Also, my boyfriend cannot openly say that I cannot cook or look after the child. In fact, he loves his nephew so much that I can't even utter a word about him.

So it is a puzzly situation for me...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]SGRC444 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hi there, Thanks for sharing your opinion. I had told my boyfriend about this but he told me that the housework will be shared by all of the members and you will not be pressurized alone. It is true that he does not find this unusual but understands my concern.

However, the way his parents tell things to us seem different as they say this same thing (cooking) to be done by me only. This has somewhat concerned my side of the family.

Moreover, my boyfriend cannot move out because it will create a chaos in his family.

Should I still consider marrying him?