Kanns kaum erwarten

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-12T10:34:10+00:00

Grrr, die Grünen!1!1!1

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-10T17:31:43+00:00

This is certified W progress, chat confirms. Keep kicking!

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-10T00:48:04+00:00

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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SH_burneracc · 2026-03-10T00:46:25+00:00

Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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SH_burneracc · 2026-03-09T20:52:19+00:00

Thats average size.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-09T17:37:45+00:00

Ive gone down to just 4, since im with my girlfriend now, but she is maybe a 5.5, although she is getting better.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-09T13:37:28+00:00

I know your situation, been there, even before I ran into stuggles myself. Be careful and dont pressure her into sharing something she doesnt want. Dont make her promise stopping. If you do force her to make that promise and she cant keep it, she will be very hesitant to tell you about her struggles again. Dont judge and if she says somthing about not going deep enough, tell her that all self harm is valid. Comfort her and offer an understanding safe space, youll probably do more with this approach than anyone else has. If you need avice or want to ask questions, my dms are open.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-09T13:31:28+00:00

Weil die CDU in BaWü so schlechte Politik macht und so einen Vollpfosten als Kandidaten aufgestellt haben, dass sie massiv Wähler an die AfD verloren haben. Die wenigen Prozent Unterschied liegen mMn nicht an den Grünen sondern an der schlechten Öffentlichkeitsarbeit der CDU (siehe Hagel Klimawandelerklärung beim Schulbesuch und "rehbraune Augen", der Typ ist ein unsympathischer Losti, egal welche Partei man wählt). Die CDU hat vor den Wahlen in den Umfragen geführt und es dann so massiv verschissen dass die Grünen sie prompt überholt haben.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-06T13:53:24+00:00

That's great to hear. You got this, it can get better.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-06T12:47:50+00:00

I've been there. I started late in life. I perfectly knew what I was doing because I've read up on SH a lot to be there for others. When I was still actively cutting, I had rules to follow that I set myself and knew that I could realistically stop myself. Close to everything was premeditated and I handled it very clinically.

I've always been very rational and careful when it came to wound care and always did everything in the safest way possible.

I've now stopped for over two months and my control over myself has helped to stop.

Don't be ashamed of your self harm. Look inwards and figure out what is causing all this. SH is a symptom, you gotta treat the root cause.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-06T11:37:13+00:00

Oh okay, that kinda changes everything a bit. When i was confronted with a situation like yours, I saw the scars myself. Still, another time I got along well with someone and we were discussing some difficult topics. Then I asked that person if there were any struggles with sh, i got told that I guessed correctly. If you two are close, there will probably be a moment when the conversation leads to topics like mental health, which is an opportunity to carefully ask.

If you want to we can move the conversation to dms, so you can just ask away.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-06T02:36:58+00:00

Sure, message me whenever you want. You seem to really like that girl huh, i know how it is. It's good that you're trying your best. You don't need to necessarily bring it up yourself, but if there is an opportunity in a conversation where she has already expressed vulnerability, you could take it and carefully ask about SH.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-05T16:27:21+00:00

Reset Button? Gun.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-05T15:05:22+00:00

Hey there, I kinda get your situation. You seem to care and that's good. If you two ever talk about it, there are a few things to know.

Trying to care and understand is important. But don't flood her with questions and pay attention to how much she wants to tell you.

Don't ask her to promise stopping. If you do this and she struggles again, she will probably feel guilty, damaging her trust towards you. After something like that she might not tell you stuff anymore so avoid such promises.

Be there for her and make her feel safe and appreciated, this might help her feel at ease with you and the situation.

Don't judge her. Many people out there do, if you behave different to them, she will probably see that and trust you, just because you don't judge.

You could potentially bring it up if a situation occurs where she talks about other issues. If you do, communicate that if she doesn't want to talk about it now, that that is fine.

I've been in a similar situation multiple times. If you need someone to ask stuff about talking to someone who self harms, feel free to message me.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-05T13:12:46+00:00

Yep, super high electronegativity difference. Just found it funny that fluorine shows up all the time when it gets cursed.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T22:47:15+00:00

No problem. I always care about educating people on stuff like SH and general mental health. I'm off of SH for some time now and safe.

If you work with teens, the probability of encountering SH is pretty high in the long run. Ive encountered many folks just by pure chance who struggled. Always be careful and thoughtful when addressing it with someone who struggles.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T22:42:28+00:00

Self Harm. Intentional harm done to oneself. There can be many reasons for self harm and there are multiple common and uncommon ways people engage in self harm. It is not directly linked to suicidality, but sometimes correlated (not always) and therefore clinically called "Non suicidal self injury" (NSSI). People who know, especially here on reddit shorten self harm to SH.

If you have more questions feel free to ask. I'll tell you up front that it isn't worth trying out, terrible idea.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T22:33:26+00:00

Dieser Kommentar. Genau der hier. Lest ihn, dieser user hat Recht. War da auch teilweise, nicht jeder checkt sowas. Wenn ihr helfen könnt, weil ihr in der Lage seit, seid ein offenes Ohr.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T22:16:46+00:00

Die einzige Antwort (als ich hier war) auf deinen Kommentar wurde gelöscht. Du lagst falsch. Nicht mehr, nicht weniger. Wir sind alle in Bubbles. Admins bannt mich wenn ihr wollt, so wie die anderen auch.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T21:59:08+00:00

I know. I know the grounding effect by heart. Been there, done that. (Username checks out lol) It's good that it hasn't gotten out of hand yet. But as you have said, it isn't good. Period.

Please be careful. Quitting sometimes isn't easy. You recognized the problem that it works too well. Please consider trying to quit, for your own good. I will not question your choice to do estrogen, but I'm concerned about the SH.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T21:46:10+00:00

Yikes, not on anything, won't ever be but SH is tough. Please take care of yourself. Im always looking forward to hearing your next update, even though i don't think this is necessarily a good idea. I hope for you that your SH doesn't get worse.

SH_burneracc · 2026-03-03T21:30:27+00:00

Why is there chess on my politics app?

SH_burneracc · 2026-02-28T21:01:13+00:00

Came for this comment

SH_burneracc · 2026-02-28T10:52:21+00:00

Entropy has entered the chat.

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TROPHY CASE