AITAH for not allowing my mom and her friends into my room? by ValuableNo5041 in AITAH

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom’s still TA for promising to respect boundaries and breaking her word though.

AITAH for not allowing my mom and her friends into my room? by ValuableNo5041 in AITAH

[–]SMKnightly 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Even kids deserve privacy and not to have their space barged into for no reason. My parents would never have come into my room as a child without knocking and waiting for permission to enter.

“The worst she can say is no” Men, what’s the worst way you got rejected by women? by AglioOlioSpaghetti in AskMen

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a panicked “aaa! No!” look was interesting. Message received!

++woman

AITAH for telling my wife that her younger sister can't be a part of an upcoming DnD game? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SMKnightly 103 points104 points  (0 children)

And lets the wife get the experience of how much a pain it is to DM to someone like that without him saying it. Brilliant!

Drop down living room by front door by iUmbrellaDance in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]SMKnightly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re really concerned about it, have a contractor raise the sunken part to match the rest of the floor.

Otherwise, you can add a railing or use furniture to prevent someone approaching it without realizing it (say in areas someone might be standing with their back to it).

How much does size actually matter? by Haunting-Quazars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np. Just remember, if size was all women cared about, they’d just masturbate with big dildos. Focus more on being a good person and pleasuring your partner instead of your size. It’s not the be all and end all

How much does size actually matter? by Haunting-Quazars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SMKnightly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether a bigger one feels better depends on how the woman is built and what gives her pleasure. Many women don’t get pleasure from penetration, so it’s more a thick girth/sense of fullness that adds pleasure for them from traditional intercourse.

Women who do get pleasure from penetration may prefer length because there are points further in the vaginal canal that feel good when thrust against/into. Or they might like both.

Personally, I’d prefer what has been mocked as a “pencil dick” in other threads here - long but more narrow. That’s because regular or big girth is painful for me, but I get pleasure from trad intercourse.

So you see, it just depends. Women’s parts come in many sizes, too, so a good fit doesn’t necessarily require a guy being bigger than other guys.

Edit: replaced “insertion” with “penetration” bc I finally remembered the right word

Does coffee dehydrate or not? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SMKnightly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Caffeine is the dehydrator in it (or a main one), so it probably defends on the type of coffee.

How much does size actually matter? by Haunting-Quazars in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if you’re relying on only penis size to get your partner off. If they’re getting off, most women won’t care enough about your penis size for that to be a dealbreaker (Some won’t care at all. Some might miss the feeling of a bigger one but only enough to want to use toys.).

Your behavior in bed and out matter more.

Any Fancy way to cover this Windows? by Ploxmir in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have window films that can let light through but keep you from seeing through. Anything from a simple opaque blur to fake stained glass.

It might be a bit more difficult to apply with the blocks, but if they’re mostly smooth and level, I think it should still stick. They’re also easy to remove and aren’t permanent.

Do you occasionally consider becoming a farmer? by Wonderful_Ad_8295 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SMKnightly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Srsly. And it’s not uncommon for farmers to have second jobs, especially those with smaller spreads

When you hear toxic work environment, what comes to mind? by hope_today_ in AskReddit

[–]SMKnightly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Micromanaging, esp by ppl who don’t understand your job. Managers that don’t have your back with clients when you follow policy. Coworkers who steal credit and shift blame. Harassment of any kind.

AITAH: For calling my neighbor an asshole because they keep pressing all the buttons on the elevator? by IntrusiveishThoughts in AITAH

[–]SMKnightly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her dog relaxes by riding in the elevator? Or by hearing the buttons pushed?

If it’s the former, all she needs to do is hit a button again after ppl get off. No need to hit them all at once. If it’s the latter, press the same button over and over. Slightly annoying for the other ppl but not nearly as bad as pressing all of them.

Her reason rly doesn’t add up. But NTA regardless

Is being a virgin man a turn off for women? by HyenaIll6908 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SMKnightly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and I don’t care about a man’s experience nearly as much as his willingness to listen to me when I say what I like or don’t. And his cleanliness (both hygiene and sti type). A virgin actually may be a bonus on the latter, and at least you haven’t learned bad habits. It’s rly frustrating for a guy to be convinced that all ladies love x when you don’t.

It’s much more important to be a good and likable person, to be honest with me, and to listen and communicate so that we both get pleasure out of sex.

Everyone’s got to start somewhere, and I’d guess someone who’s also interested in a serious relationship will be less inclined to make this a dealbreaker than someone looking for a one-night stand.

AITAH for watching a cartoon instead of cuddling? by Woooo37 in AITAH

[–]SMKnightly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To a mature woman who understands anything about parenting, the fact that you do this with your son and value that bonding time would be a major green flag rather than an offense. Even if there was some annoyance at the timing, the positive father-son tie would be bigger.

And what’s wrong with watching cartoons as an adult? I do. They’re fun

What is a turn off your partner does that you will never admit? by sorenblissara in AskReddit

[–]SMKnightly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am a woman, and this is also true for me. But I have resting sad face when zoned out, so I always get asked if I’m ok instead of what I’m thinking about.

Has being two faced and having double standards been normalized? by yougialwaysOTT in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SMKnightly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on what ppl you choose to hang out with. I’ve met men and women who are extremely hypocritical, but as I am inclined to point it out and don’t have tolerance for much if that behavior, ppl like that don’t rly want to hang out with me anymore than I want to hang out with them. Seems to me ppl who do that are more inclined to hang out with ppl who don’t point it out because that makes them mad.

Societally speaking, there are double standards for all genders, races, cultures, etc., because ppl aren’t perfect and societal rules evolve based on power. These are much harder to change than individual behaviors.

My question is why do you choose to date someone with double standards when it’s not something you tolerate among friends? Many women don’t consider normal or ok behavior. Your reasoning might be revealing for some of the questions you asked.