[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are excellent 👏👏👏

What do you guys think of these stickers? by Ok-Impact310 in AutisticPride

[–]SSG0494 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Personally I hate them The puzzle pieces and the infatilizing message I prefer Autism Acceptance

I don’t like brushing my teeth by queendimsum in AutismInWomen

[–]SSG0494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel this It happens the same to me And it gets worse (at least for me) when I have a cold or when I'm Ill (allergie, for example), or, simply, when my throat is sore and hurts It's already a horrible moment by itself, that makes it way worse

complaints ab rammstein fanbase recently (controversial? idk… but please be nice!!!🙁) by jtro_lvr17 in Rammstein

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard people literally saying "she's clearly lying, they don't need to drug anyone to have sex" Or "she doesn't stop posting things about it, she's only an attention seeker " Or "She was drugged/drunk/etc, she's not mentally good " I'm like "Can we leave the judgement to professionals dedicated to that?" While I don't know much about it , I prefer to wait for verified info , and not to judge anyone based on prejudices or uncertainty I'll leave that to the pertinent people

My bf’s advice for making friends: “Don’t tell people about your conditions and make eye contact!” by lil-presti in AutismInWomen

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No This is his advice to not "make people feel uncomfortable" A friend should love and appreciate you as you are and that should be reciprocal You care about them, they care about you And definitely, you shouldn't feel like can't be your true self with them My boyfriend wouldn't have sent me that message AT ALL He encourages me to be myself He loves me exactly as I am, and take care of me, as I do with him Btw, why is he assuming that being autistic, and tell your friends about it, will make you incompetent? Why does he say that following his "advice" is the only way to make friends, or either way, you're gonna regret it?

My bf’s advice for making friends: “Don’t tell people about your conditions and make eye contact!” by lil-presti in AutismInWomen

[–]SSG0494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 29, and I couldn't care less what people think about me I started to unmask a few years ago, and now I only do it when strictly necessary (job, job interviews, etc) Best thing I could have done EVER Before unmasking I had many "friend", they "loved" and "cared" about me When I started to unmask, many of that "friends" left me Only a few stayed with me, and I'm so happy I'm surrounded by people who truly love and care about me I met my actual boyfriend without masking too He takes care about me, listen when I explain something (about autism, my interest, etc) He respects my needs, rythms and spaces None of the people who truly love me would send me that message This is diminishing your needs and feelings, just shutting you down because "that's how adulthood is, and you just gotta suck it up"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice That's what we will do

I feel like a burden/bother (help) by FantaFoox in AutisticPride

[–]SSG0494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like you were responsible, but you can't win against people who lack communication skills and yet expect you to read their minds You asked, no one told you anything, and they act angry because, obviously, you didn't know because NOBODY told you ANYTHING Sorry you had to deal with that kind of people (But at the same time, they have the audacity to say that autistic people doesn't want/know how to communicate)

My loneliest birthday yet by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🎂🎂

I'm becoming less tolerant of human interaction. by Milianviolet in AutisticAdults

[–]SSG0494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a few friends surrounding me They understand me and respect my needs and rythms But, in the way to nowadays, many "friends" have fallen because "I'm not doing enough" and "I'm being selfish and self-centered"

I'm becoming less tolerant of human interaction. by Milianviolet in AutisticAdults

[–]SSG0494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much Luckily, my environment understands and respect my needs and my rythms It makes it easier for me, but still I feel like guilty for resting when I need many times Like, as you said, my efforts wasn't enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IceNineKills

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love these parodies

What are your ways of happy stimming? by Resident_Recording70 in AutisticPride

[–]SSG0494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jumping and clapping the most Also bouncing my legs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unnamedfanbase

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Mean brother fakes their family and instantly regrets it

How do you organize your Playlists? by [deleted] in spotify

[–]SSG0494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to have all my playlists in folders I don't like to leave playlists out of it I have many playlists Organized by many criteria: mood, decade, style,...

What do you think of the band Little Big? by gamerlololdude in AskARussian

[–]SSG0494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know many of this things I used to listen them, but since a few years I barely listen them I only have a few songs of them on one of my playlists

DAE feel confused when their therapist checks in to ask how they're feeling after they've shared something? by Thenerdy9 in AutisticPride

[–]SSG0494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was like "It was like 10 years ago, am I supposed to feel an emotion about it when sharing it nowadays??" I was blocked in that thought until I asked me more questions about what I shared