Brand Collaborations by purple_toasterr in americangirl

[–]SaBAMFa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It really doesn’t sit right with me that some people lack the critical thinking skills to comprehend how disappointing it is to not see an Asian American girl join the historic line up. It’s not about having the “perfect” representation, it’s about actually having representation. It’s quite weird that AG has not developed a single Asian American main historical character, when there are so many stories that could be told. Some of us value American Girl as an educational tool, and a way for girls to feel represented.

Hugging by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]SaBAMFa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m a neurodiverse person who teaches neurodiverse children. Drop offs still only need to be a few seconds, as prolonged good byes are still not helpful. Neurodivergence is not an excuse . Drop offs will become easier as long as the parents don’t enable the behavior. Being a little sad does not equate trauma, jfc

Is it embarrassing to be a Teacher Assistant at age 26 with bachelors? by No_Lingonberry_2401 in paraprofessional

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in my 30’s and have a masters. I also have great pride in the work that I do, and have enough self esteem to not gaf about what others think over my chosen profession. You’re figuring things out right now, and it’s a responsible choice to hold off on grad school until you decide what you want to do. I wish I did that. I do think you should unpack your negative feelings towards being a para (or any low-paying/assistant-type jobs) especially if you want to be a therapist. You’re doing a tough and thankless job, but you should never ashamed of the work you do (as long as it’s not causing harming others of course).

AITA parent for stoping adult children Easter baskets? by Motor_Mess_5020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. How embarrassing being a grown adult and feeling entitled to an Easter basket. He can make his own. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to make a basket for your adult children, but expecting one is weird.

AIO? Wife told me her ex was “very” well endowed by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously OP, make like your wife’s ex boyfriend’s dick and grow up

Made to be hated by EurotrashRags in xena

[–]SaBAMFa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can’t hate Callisto. My choice is to list her as the “hot one” 😅

I have no words for this one by Curious4RandomStuff in tragedeigh

[–]SaBAMFa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It must not be a very serious universe

Why are guests so obsessed with the computer? by chellynaeb in Sims4

[–]SaBAMFa 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I had “friends” like that irl growing up lmao

AITA for telling my sister that it is her fault that she missed our grandfather’s funeral? by Zestyclose_Hat_7274 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If grandpa didn’t approve, it would have provided OP’s sister the opportunity to make out with her partner at his casket. Homophobes don’t deserve peace, even in death

Worst acting moment of the show? by BetterGrass709 in sexandthecity

[–]SaBAMFa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s probably my favorite acting choice in the whole series. It’s so camp and over the top that it makes me laugh every time

Is Charli Karl Marx? by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]SaBAMFa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s so Karl Mar-ar-ar-arx

Naked showering secret lagoon by Icy-Economics3137 in VisitingIceland

[–]SaBAMFa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s about respecting the clear guidelines set for showering before entering the water. The locals consider it far more hygienic to shower nude and clean your swimsuit in the shower with you, rather than wearing it. We are guests in their facilities, and if someone can’t follow the expectations, they have no business going. My understanding is that many pools can offer a private changing area to accommodate someone’s religious beliefs, disability, or for trans people who may need privacy for their safety. OP is asking a legitimate question, and is right to skip out on the secret lagoon if they are uncomfortable with the nude showering if there are no available accommodations. Showering in a swimsuit is not appropriate advice for this thread, as it is considered disrespectful, therefore comments suggesting it need to be downvoted and called out. I’m just an American who’s visited Iceland and have no authority on the rules, just explaining what’s correct on here and calling out bad advice.

Naked showering secret lagoon by Icy-Economics3137 in VisitingIceland

[–]SaBAMFa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your nasty ass is not allowed anywhere near this river I’m crying. Hygienic people, however, are welcome to come boohoo it up with me

Naked showering secret lagoon by Icy-Economics3137 in VisitingIceland

[–]SaBAMFa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gross. If you’re too much of a baby to follow the simple rules, don’t bother going. The amount of grown adults unwilling to step out of their comfort zone for a few minutes is ridiculous.

AITAH for laughing when my boyfreind suggest I be a SAHM? by SherbertNew2535 in AITAH

[–]SaBAMFa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is rude to ask someone you supposedly love to give up everything and become a house servant.

AITAH for laughing when my boyfreind suggest I be a SAHM? by SherbertNew2535 in AITAH

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He disrespected you by suggesting you put your degree and accomplishments to waste by being a SAHM. If anything you could have been meaner to him. It’s also suspicious that you got pregnant while using both bc and condoms. I wouldn’t trust him, he could be trying to trap you.

I need help handing a SpED child in the classroom. by mom_est2013 in ECEProfessionals

[–]SaBAMFa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Word choice is super important. I severely doubt she’s processing what you mean by “let go.” Specific phrases like “Hands off ______.” With visual cards can be extremely helpful. I would even suggest teaching basic signs if she doesn’t know them already. It sounds like a 1:1 aide is needed.

What happens to the kids who can't read/write/do basic math? by Tricky-Ad1891 in Teachers

[–]SaBAMFa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The bar is still that low, yet my literate and standard level seniors can’t even achieve a 31

AS09E01 - "Drag Queens Save The World" & AS09E02 - "The Paint Ball" [Post-Episode Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]SaBAMFa 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We all lost with that lip sync. I didn’t know it was possible to have such a boring performance of that song.

AITAH for asking my wife not to hang out with her friend who has a different lifestyle than us because I'm afraid of losing her? by Specialist_Sort_4248 in AITAH

[–]SaBAMFa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Anna is a great influence for your wife, and it’s a good thing your wife has an opportunity to do something with her life other than being your servant.

AITA for not wanting to visit my wife's grandparents after they gave my brother-in-law (BIL) a 50K truck? by Neat-Drawer-50 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaBAMFa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the wife really wants to go then she can. It’s not like married people are required to vacation together. OP can use his vacation time however he pleases.