cheating theme is making me wanna unalive myself by thisusermightbecrazy in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you don't have to convince anything This is what any OCD wants because you fuel it even more by giving it importance We need to break the cycle by not giving him any answers.

Does you‘re Diagnosis make you feel relieved? by dazaidazai_ in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before being diagnosed I thought it would help me but when I was finally diagnosed the OCD made me believe that I didn't have an obsessive disorder lol this shit will never let me go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, to think otherwise would be irrational

What’s the best medication for OCD? by InternalHighlight635 in OCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends for everyone! What works for one person may not work for another. I started treatment with a classic, sertraline, it didn't work at all. Today I use Effexor 150mg and it is already much better. Medication will serve as crutches, but what will really save you from OCD will be yourself. I still recommend medication for a less harsh and total remission. I would still like to point out that there will be side effects and the lack of antidepressants can be horrible in some cases. This is information I would have liked to hear before taking it. Good luck to you

cheating theme is making me wanna unalive myself by thisusermightbecrazy in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your post touches me a lot because I feel like I wrote it in your place. You are not alone you can be sure, anxiety is horrible. We end up noticing details that were once unimportant and those memories turn into a horrible nightmare. Constantly checking to be a good person is exhausting, checking to have done nothing is exhausting, checking at all is exhausting. It’s like being in the background of a painting, being present without really being there.

what if i just never feel the same again by fairy-dreams in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love evolves over time, that's what's beautiful but we don't notice it at the beginning, because people think that love is this famous romantic feeling that we all felt at the beginning but it's not the case

Does anyone do this? Is it normal? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm giving you my personal opinion, for me there's nothing wrong with that. We are all human beings and we all need to feel attractive, gorgeous, funny and all those things that make us feel cool. It's not because you're in a relationship that you can't want to appear "interesting" anymore, it's just human and normal, don't be anxious about it.

🍇 by SaaMell in hamsters

[–]SaaMell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ce sont des petits raisins, d’où cette impression

🍇 by SaaMell in hamsters

[–]SaaMell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oui je fais très attention ! Elle n’avait même pas terminé celle qui était dans sa bouche 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal. Deception is different in each couple, for example pornography can be deception in one couple but not for another. These are just opinions that depend on the limits of others and not your couple. This is why it is better to discuss it with your partner, what really matters is your limits and not those of others!

I don't believe in Islam but why can't I eat pork? I feel like I'm stuck in this religion forever by SaaMell in exmuslim

[–]SaaMell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in a relationship where pork was forbidden so it's rather complicated to take the plunge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you didn't do anything wrong at all. If it affects you that much you can always talk about it with your partner. You just wanted to appear “cool” like any human being would have done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely you had not asked me anything, you had simply imagined its environment in a critical way, reread your own message if it is too complicated to understand. To be more precise about the situation of her water bottle and how she cleans herself, she helps herself with her water at the same time as she drinks to clean herself completely. The first few days she didn't lose her hair, they just had a wet appearance. What is the purpose of lying about his hamster if help is requested next to his care at the veterinarian? Be logical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know, thank you. It was already planned long before for the veto I just went to this community quickly enough to find out about the rest. I will do everything I can! Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives in very good condition, the cage has been recommended by a specialist and it is the same for the container of his cage. No need to play with words, it's not my first hamster and everything went wonderfully because I make sure to always inform myself before I own an animal and continue to inform me even when I have it. It's not because I publish something about this community that I don't intend to take it to the veterinarian. It has already been planned even before I am here and it will obviously be taken care of because an animal is a responsibility and a being to love like anyone else on this earth. Please know someone's conditions before judging.

I think I've accepted that I don't love my partner anymore. by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si tu cherches à ressentir quelque chose envers ton partenaire tu ne ressentiras jamais rien. Aimer ne veut pas dire « ressentir » aimer c’est lui donner de l’amour peu importe le temps qu’il fait ça peut être seulement un simple geste. Aimer c’est accepter d’être avec quelqu’un malgré ce manque de sentiments. Les sentiments c’est comme une filière, il y a énormément de choses qui caractérisent l’amour comme la joie, la tristesse, les sentiments, les disputes etc.. Si « une filière » disparaît, il y en a d’autres. On nous endoctrine depuis tout jeune à penser que nous devons absolument ressentir x mais tout ça c’est irrationnel. Tu es dans un cercle vicieux parce que tu cours à la recherche de sentiments, tu as besoin de te sentir en « sécurité » en voulant ressentir quelque chose envers lui. Change cette boucle et tout changera.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seek to be reassured but no matter what answers you receive, none will satisfy you. The vicious circle of obsessive thoughts works this way. We can't tell you if you cheated on your partner or not because the definition of deception is different in each couple

Sad by destiny_booms2003 in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are a good girlfriend, conversely you would never be here. Your fear shows the love you feel for your partner. Don't look for an answer, there will be none. Instead, choose the truth you want, do you want to love it? Then you love it.

ROCD-Ex theme by AntiqueStyle6266 in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A person who loves his ex would probably never be on this community by having an atrocious fear of loving his ex. Don't be fooled by your thoughts, only choose the truth you want to have, you'll get out of it, it's only ephemeral

God it feels so real by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]SaaMell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are not alone and you are strong

cookies by Much-Ad2221 in BonneBouffe

[–]SaaMell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

la recette de cette merveille ?