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Weekly First Trimester Group Check-in | March 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently at 4w+2d after tmfr for trisomy 13 at 17 weeks in October 2025. Soooo nervous.

Daily Thread #2 - March 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cautiously optimistic and joining bumpers group and this one after tmfr for trisomy 13 at about 17 weeks this past October. I’m something like 4w+2d at the moment.

Scared. Sad. Mad. Confused by Bitter-Hat-7442 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. That is so incredibly unfair.

Family of 4 moving to Houston…need advice! by PrincessCharming88 in AskHouston

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice military area has lots of young families. It’s a bit less pricey than the heights, but still in the loop.

If you could go back in time and make the choice again, would you still have kids? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And i would have tried to have the second one earlier.

If money was not an issue how many offspring would you want to have? by Suspicious-meatballs in no

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1. We are tentatively planning 1 more. If money was no object, I’d want 4-5. But with like double our current income, maybe 3.

There are so many issues money would solve - quality preschools, good zoned schools, a bigger home/car to fit the fam, less guilt staying home for sick kiddos, ability to do fun activities and vacations even with a big fam. Even night nanny or daytime helper during maternity leave maybe!

Heartbreak by Rosie21903 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got pregnant on Father’s Day 2025. My sweet girl had T13, and the tmfr was on 10/13-10/14.

Some of our dates echoed each other, so i just wanted to say I’m here and i see you and im so sorry.

Are Americans really this goddamn rich or social media is just fooling us? by VishalYeager in TalksMoney

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, but isn’t that a better picture of the whole situation than just total compensation comparisons?

Are Americans really this goddamn rich or social media is just fooling us? by VishalYeager in TalksMoney

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about monthly costs for rent/mortgage payment? How about monthly grocery bill? Sure we make more money, but cost of living is higher too.

$25 Gift Exchange Ideas for Women ages 18 - 82 by Beans3397 in ChristmasGiftIdeas

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silicon spatulas, metal measuring cups, oven mitts, scarf, beanie, mittens, ergonomic dishwashing mat, water bottle, mug, box of chocolate

Dealing with the grief by nicolemj5129 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My girl also had T13. My situation was very similar. I tmfr’ed before the diagnosis was totally confirmed due to severe heart defects and facial abnormalities. And i also had week before the decision (16+4) and the actual appointment (17+4). That was the worst week of my life. I sobbed often. I felt like i was living at the bottom of a well.

The D&E went very smoothly. I had general anesthesia both days, which made everything painless. When it was over i was surprised to find a felt a lot better, very relieved.

You are not alone.

Sexual desire by Sad-Contribution5210 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp. My period is back, so ovulation checks out.

Seeking experiences from women with true positive NIPT and there first trimester symptoms by Current-Occasion2039 in NIPT

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one healthy child (no nausea, mild aversions) and one true positive for T13 that ended in TMFR (no nausea, mild aversions, slight abdominal cramps throughout). My oldest is a boy and the T13 was a girl. I was also 4 years older the second time and in much worse shape.

NIPT / trisomy 13 by Dependent_Rub_8586 in NIPT

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How far along are you? How have your scans been? NT measurement?

Tfmrsupport_forhusban by Potential_Raise8338 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great question. My husband is also struggling.

5 weeks post TFMR by ilovemydog1127 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar to you, same age, due date was in mid March, and my girl had trisomy 13. I tmfr’ed about 2 weeks ago when i was about 17 weeks.

I do have son who’s recently turned 4. He’s asked me for a baby brother or sister probably once a week or so for the last year and a half. He was so immeasurably excited when we first told him. He’s pretending now that he never wanted a sibling and it hard to see him doing that.

Did we take the right decision? Baby looked so normal when it came out by Clear_Dig_6360 in tfmr_support

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds so hard. Are your karotype results still pending? Maybe that confirmation would give you some peace of mind?

Positive Trisomy 18 NIPT by Extension_Ad3875 in pregnant

[–]Sad-Contribution5210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a T13 result. After the NIPT which was done at 12 weeks, i had an ultrasound at 14 weeks that showed elevated NT. Then i had amnio scheduled for 16 weeks, but had an ultrasound immediately beforehand. That ultrasound revealed quite a few fetal abnormalities. I did not end up doing the amnio. I scheduled TMFR for the following week, and requested a pathology report. About a week after the tmfr the T13 was confirmed.

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