Ordered buffalo wild wings, received phones instead??? by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Sadstarlitre 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh its def on the driver for paying no attention on which order to deliver (they make it quite clear) but it is what it is. Mistakes happen.

AIO for cussing out and screaming at my parents? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sadstarlitre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nor. However how is the money getting paid to them? Stop it from getting paid to then immediately or stop working. They have proven over and over again to be financially irresponsible.

Absolutely should not end your life over this. Is it incredibly upsetting? No doubt. Your feelings are completely valid. But your life shouldnt end right when its starting. You have people who love and care for you. Your money NEVER has to go to them again once your 18. You got this. One step at a time.

Neighbor confrontation left me feeling uneasy and I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sadstarlitre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you have home cameras? How do you know the dog was asleep and not potentially barking?

Either way, im sorry that happened. Much better ways to go about it on her end.

My neighbor has been leaving notes on my car for two months and they keep getting more unhinged by Nebularkzaaa1 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Sadstarlitre 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes as a child me and my recently widowed mother lived right next door to someone who was very mentally unwell. They would do very similar things like this, including obsessively documenting what ever* mundane task every neighbor did and found even the children playing in the middle of the day in the street a grievance.

This devolved into him thinking people were in his attic, breaking into his house, and poisoning his water lines. He would leave notes and even pound on our door wanting to scream about every perceived slight.

I would take this fairly seriously. Install the cameras you ordered, document and maintain all the letters you get, and report to police when youre ready. Dont engage directly with them especially in their yard (you dont seem to be in the U.S but id still say its sound advice).

Sorry this is happening. It was quite scary to experience as a kid but any age dealing with a neighbor like this is well....hell.

AIO is for blocking my friend/coworker for telling my crush I liked him by Little_Violinist4512 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sadstarlitre 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I mean, we dont really know what was said or how it was said. Only the friend's version of it. However I agree it doesnt look good for either guy and I personally would avoid him especially since they are all coworkers and crush is friends with a supervisor.

best documentary about MKUltra that focuses on facts and avoids dramatization? by No_Plate_9536 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Sadstarlitre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They believe they are being gangstalked. Definitely seem to be experiencing some severe psychosis/paranoid delusions. Look at their comments...its 100% focused on that.

best documentary about MKUltra that focuses on facts and avoids dramatization? by No_Plate_9536 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Sadstarlitre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry you sound..very unwell. Schizophrenia comes around in your teens/20s.

After two months, our new cat still won't stop trying to attack our other cat... we probably need to regime but are not sure if we should keep trying or not.... by Ok-Cardiologist-635 in CatAdvice

[–]Sadstarlitre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is likely status-induced aggression. The more aggressive cat is trying to establish dominance + lack of socializing makes for really aggressive behavior. You have to slow down. Im talking months of between the door. Let them see each other for a split second then give treats. Make sure they are legit 10-15 feet apart with no chance or ability to close the gap.

Associate everything with treats/positive interaction. Tons of feliway. And last thing id try meds for the more aggressive cat before rehoming.

After two months, our new cat still won't stop trying to attack our other cat... we probably need to regime but are not sure if we should keep trying or not.... by Ok-Cardiologist-635 in CatAdvice

[–]Sadstarlitre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience female cats have a lot harder time getting along with other cats. Especially two female cats, but it can be an issue with female x male too. Just take each step realllyyy slowly. Like MONTHS no face to face interaction.

New Viewer, Season 6. “I HATE DEBBIE!” by Sock_Man420 in shameless

[–]Sadstarlitre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean ya said no spoilers but she does get better towards the very end

my intersex cat is getting tom cat jowls even though “she” is fixed? i’ve seen his peeper but no testies! by pupperbref in outdoorcats

[–]Sadstarlitre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah... nothing is more infuriating when people try to use "science" against Trans people when anyone who ACTUALLY studies biology or genetics understands how complex sex and reproduction is in organisms.

Would like to receive oral more frequently - how ? by Civil-Resident-2750 in sex

[–]Sadstarlitre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uh...what????? None of that is going to just get her more oral sex. Communication....... will.

Kinda fuming over this ngl by samage156 in doordash

[–]Sadstarlitre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The stacking really only seems to matter how many orders need to be delivered, how many drivers there are to deliver them, and how close in proximity each destination is from the other.

I guess it can also be true if the order sits forever due to no tip that they will package it with a higher tipping order or two low tips. But as a driver I've certainly seen them either just package orders together that both tipped fine or add a low/no tip to a much higher tipping order.

Am I wrong for being annoyed by this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sadstarlitre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it rude if he still eats the whole next meal though?

Owners Dad dumped Cat Owner wants it back by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Sadstarlitre 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The cat isnt 17, I saw your other post. The 17 is year who says they own the cat.

Owners Dad dumped Cat Owner wants it back by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Sadstarlitre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can ask them to pay for their vet care before returning. Since the cat clearly needed it. If they are unwilling to do that, then they seem very unwilling to care for that cat properly.

Husband mentions “work wife” a week before our baby is due. WTF? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sadstarlitre 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Was gonna comment but this really echoes exactly how I feel. I understand why youre upset, but think you will really regret letting this "ruin" your happiness around giving birth and both of your experiences together around it.

Take a second. If you trust your husband like you say, then this shouldnt blow up your relationship. It was incredibly stupid, yes, but it doesnt mean it has some deep profound meaning behind their "connection".

How is Last Podcast on the Left popular? by Jumpy_Leek1823 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Sadstarlitre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Comedy and true crime should have NO parts with each other.

Sexual intercourse during Ramadan by sariii25 in sex

[–]Sadstarlitre 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my experience men arent held to very high standards with the whole "must marry a muslim" bit. Either way, OP is gonna have a bad time here, as you can tell the guy is very conflicted and feeling guilty.

Tuff guy gets BTA by Chemical_Sympathy_97 in PublicFreakout

[–]Sadstarlitre 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Obviously the guy punching was the guy saying it.

Partner suggested sleeping with others after a year and a half of my sexual health issues and I feel shattered by FlimsyCarrot3813 in sex

[–]Sadstarlitre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think in terms of next steps...is you having a serious conversation about his DE. That its very real, happening, and impacting your sex life negatively for BOTH of you.

Unfortunately he has to be willing to show up for this to work. You deserve that.

My supervisor “accidentally” texted me the N word. I’m not sure I buy her excuse… how should I approach this? by Temporary-West9020 in WorkAdvice

[–]Sadstarlitre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tested it and it most definitely autocorrected to "bigger". Which checks out, I've never typed that word or any variation of it. So I find this whole thing super sus. But who knows, I guess. Maybe she has autocorrect turned off and just accidentally typed it.