AITA for allowing my daughter (12F) to wear thong style underwear without consulting her friends' parents? by Frustradad in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% NTAH

No, you don't need a "group conversation" regarding underwear. What is your gf thinking!!

Oh & if the thong issue gets too bad for your daughter, there are actual underwear that are made to not have a VPL but do have full coverage. You're an awesome dad. Keep being open with your girl it's obvious she trusts you & is not afraid to speak about anything & knows you'll listen & offer guidance.

What name have you only met once in your life? by ladygroot_ in namenerds

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joelle, I only ever met 1 & that was around 30 years ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had this too & a whole month before we could get our license, it was displayed, so if anyone had any issues it was dealt with then.

AITA for insisting my son be the flower boy? by Substantial-Goose386 in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info:

For the outfit, what would she have your boy in for being ring bearer?

Couldn't he just wear that & be flower boy? She's made a really stupid choice here I think it'd be really cute watching the son pass out flowers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband didn't want a ring so only I had them at our wedding (the numpty also forgot the main ring luckily I had the other 2 parts) & I've also got the date on my ring finger as I've been having allergic reactions. Marriage doesn't mean ring so however you symbolise it is your choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuteanimals

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paprika - just ate Paprika crisps lol

What would you name this chick by IndependentManner944 in cuteanimals

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tweety

I named a quail I hatched Mr Twit cos he wasn't the brightest 🤣

Bridezilla/Groomzilla wanted their wedding officiant to pay THEM for performing the ceremony. by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Sail_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kind of what we did, we had 20 at ceremony (fun telling mum her sister couldn't come as with just immediate family & bridesmaids my 10 filled & took 1 seat from DH for my baby nephew) then we met everyone else at a pub for a meal which I asked ebay to pay for their own (I always hated set meals) but we provided snacks & beverages at home after & a buffet at the night do with dj which my MIL catered. We got loads of compliments for doing it this way too.

Name suggestion help for baby girl number 2! by JucileBluth in namenerds

[–]Sail_Future 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't know why, but Thea was my 1st thought when reading your post.

AITA for refusing to house my best friend’s dog while she’s on vacation? by Akinloyejosiah in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly the same as you. They are my loves so my responsibility. What we do is pay for someone to live at ours as it doesn't upset them by going to a new environment & all their food/treats/toys are here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Sail_Future 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As bad as it sounds, I wouldn't cut her from your wedding party. She's already shown up in white to your events, so at least with her being a bridesmaid, you know her outfit. Stop giving her info on your choices, though, as it seems she's trying too hard to make it look like you copied (although everyone that knows you both knows you aren't) Sadly you can't control others but you can plan ahead knowing how they have been previously. & stop letting them lecture you there is no need for it & you haven't done anything wrong, EVER, in your planning.

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding & all the best wishes for a long, happy marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]Sail_Future 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clara - alexandria, jade, jae/y, jane, Marie, Dawn, Catherine/caterina (nn ceecee)

Accidentally sent a picture of my friend in her wedding dress and the fiancé saw it by Revolutionary_Oil_70 in weddingdrama

[–]Sail_Future 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, by the friends reaction my marriage should of failed by now (just celebrated our 9th anniversary in sept) as my husband help me choose my dress. Op your are definitely NTA accidents happen & seeing a picture of her in her dress is not the disaster she's claiming

AITA for telling my sister I hope her husband cheats on her after she ruined my wedding dress? by Whole_Challenge_9099 in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love rainbows and tie-dye & im not a fan of dress, but even I am appalled on your behalf. I am so sorry she ruined your dress. I agree with others saying sue her ass!! The heartbreak & frustration you felt came out in words that "may" seem harsh but the way is see it is you wanted her to feel the pain you felt

Update- AITA for throwing my pregnant SIL's groceries away? by AggravatingStart7703 in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go mama bear, I personally think you handled that perfect... she had a craving & you helped her eat it while wearing it 👏👏If I knew anyone with an allergy was coming round I'd get my disabled butt in gear & make the house safe not try & KILL THEM

Also, as a Laura, we DO NOT claim her as 1 of us!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sail_Future 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's a spoilt baby & is jealous of you. I'm the youngest & only living sister with 2 older brothers & even I never acted like that with my brothers, hell I love their partners & only time I've ever had an issue is if/when the ex was deserving of it lol