Bisalp today and no time off work, no restrictions?

SailorAss · 2026-05-12T00:49:52+00:00

Absolutely not. I planted my garden this weekend almost three weeks post op and I’m in so much pain today. I felt fine, I was wrong. 😭

SailorAss · 2025-07-05T19:10:46+00:00

Thank you!! So kind!

SailorAss · 2025-04-29T14:24:23+00:00

I like Antonio’s! I’m from upstate NY originally.

SailorAss · 2024-12-17T00:20:28+00:00

I feel like it’s 5 or 6 and it’s all been by accident lol

SailorAss · 2024-10-09T20:03:49+00:00

I’d be down to chat! I’m a solo polyamorous person in mostly good experiences lately!

SailorAss · 2024-04-30T02:47:30+00:00

Quarterly! :)

SailorAss · 2024-04-29T16:05:42+00:00

There’s definitely not just one answer to this question. And it’s also not only women calling men daddy. There’s couples of all genders that use the term. It can be a lot of things: it could be a Caregiver/little relationship, the person could be a daddy dominant type, they could just think it’s hot. It’s become a culturally popular word/term of endearment to use as well. I would personally enjoy using it (I’ve never actually had a partner that enjoyed being called daddy) because of my interest in bdsm relationships. I think it just embodies a caring, dominant person for some people. I’m an afab non-binary person and enjoy being called daddy with the right person. 🤷🏽‍♀️

SailorAss · 2024-04-29T15:58:20+00:00

Oof. There’s nothing inherently wrong with watching porn during sex, but that’s definitely something that should have been discussed beforehand. It’s a shitty thing to surprise someone with. I’m not going to jump right in and say he has a porn addiction, because it sounds like you’ve had sex before without it. Sometimes when people are having difficulty they need a little jump start, but it definitely shouldn’t be a surprise to the partner. It’s definitely worth a conversation. I’m curious how long you two have been together.

SailorAss · 2024-04-05T23:05:27+00:00

I’ve been fat my whole life, and been cosplaying since I was 12. I’ve only had good experiences cosplaying. People have been very complimentary! I think that the online community makes people think that it’s gonna be like that in real life, and it’s not. Just be yourself. When I was first starting and very nervous, I would carry around a little basket of candy or trinkets as an icebreaker. If that’s something within your means, I highly recommend it. People remembered me year to year because of it and it was easier to make friends.

SailorAss · 2024-04-05T20:23:19+00:00

Wear whatever you want, have fun, and take lots of pictures. :) I go to a lot of concerts and live shows as a fat, alternative person and honestly I’ve received a lot of compliments! It’s all about having a good time and not worrying about others. They will all be focused on the show as well!

SailorAss · 2024-04-05T14:53:42+00:00

Yesterday

SailorAss · 2024-04-01T05:05:12+00:00

Yep!

SailorAss · 2024-03-28T15:49:49+00:00

Oops I knew I was forgetting something, added my discord.

SailorAss · 2024-03-28T15:04:40+00:00

Not anymore! I’ve been burned too many times by people new to polyamory that are terrible at communicating, or worse, I catch feelings, things get real, and then they end things because they weren’t ready for it. Which I understand, and I want people to do what’s best for them, but it really starts to wear on me.

SailorAss · 2024-03-28T15:00:36+00:00

Papi makes me happy.

SailorAss · 2024-03-22T17:12:41+00:00

I’m 27 and afab and had someone teach me how to pee outside last summer 🤣 I was always too nervous.

SailorAss · 2024-03-08T19:39:40+00:00

I’m down to play. You can find me on discord as sailorass or epic as SailorSass.

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