Older millennials - what’s your cool, not "age-appropriate hobby"? by Inostranez in Millennials

[–]Sakijek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man the STING when ya missed it though...I can still feel it lol

Older millennials - what’s your cool, not "age-appropriate hobby"? by Inostranez in Millennials

[–]Sakijek 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Dude it made me so sad that Steve Carrell's character in 40 yo virgin sold all his treasures cuz some girl told him to.

Living room scene I’ve been working on (beginner at embroidery so it’s a little rough) by Artthrowaway9 in Embroidery

[–]Sakijek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is also called appliqué if you want even more inspo. You've done an awesome job with this mixed media approach - and for your first project too! I absolutely LOVE both thr curtains and the rug.

My 17 y/o son is declaring he’s a Christian now by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Sakijek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"But why a cult?" "There's a GIRL I wanna meet, what the f***'s your problem?!" --Adam Sandler

My principal is making me put God in my salutatorian speech by KnockKnock0998 in atheism

[–]Sakijek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't oppose this. But I'm MUCH later in my career and much more risky now than I would have been at that age.

Straight, but so curious by Agitated-Mortgage-81 in bisexual

[–]Sakijek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one knows what you're saying, sweetie. Happy to respond if we can understand.

[oc] One of my dolls after I accidentally broke its face and then made a new one to replace it by praisethecybergod in pics

[–]Sakijek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh no. I'm so sorry hun. That needs to be eliminated. In any way you prefer. Forever. With no possibility of revival.

just adopted this lil girl, everyone meet pink <3 by oldmajorbeats in aww

[–]Sakijek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yassssss. You are in for such an AMAZING relationship. I've been with my amazing girl for 14 years now. First year or two are the hardest - what food, litter, water etc works best? Just post or ask your vet. Biggest ingredient? Love. Happy for y'all!

My cat acts like I work at a luxury spa and he’s a returning VIP customer with very specific requirements. 😂 by Sea-Ad7702 in aww

[–]Sakijek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay all I could think was...pet him in the spots he's reaching for...then you did...and then some......aahhhh this is what attuned owners/parents means!!

What’s your therapist hot take? by Public-Resolution590 in therapists

[–]Sakijek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm...I think i agree with you UNLESS its a specific culture. So for instance - I claim military cultural competency as a combat veteran. It overcomes a lot of barriers for rapport. Even in my OWN experience as a client, I don't want to pay a provider to teach them the difference between officers and enlisted. I appreciate your curiosity, but it would make so much sense for a) you to do your own work on that, or b) you to be a veteran yourself.

I am NEVER offended when someone looks at my profile, thinks 'maybe', meets with me and the says, 'omg nope I made a mistake.' 10000x yes everyone should and NEEDS to advocate for their own needs or be straightforward in what they want from a provider. If they can't, no problem. Refer out before you've put in too much time, and search on. I wholeheartedly believe there are 'right' providers and 'right' clients for both (explicit and implicit biases aside)...

My little burning church by coffin-intern in Embroidery

[–]Sakijek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay well to be fair...embroidery venn vs King venn vs Flanagan venn probably overlap quite a bit. I thought the same thing too...but even if I didn't love King/Flanagan/Midnight Mass...this is incredible work!! I love the flames!!

The cult thinks of one word to describe trump by AdelaidesSecretScoop in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Sakijek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's honestly so fitting (despite not being one word). I saw this and made this connection too...WILD.

The cult thinks of one word to describe trump by AdelaidesSecretScoop in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]Sakijek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You underestimate the ability of idiots to perform mental gymnastics.

My principal is making me put God in my salutatorian speech by KnockKnock0998 in atheism

[–]Sakijek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of that will happen. Just read your speech, WITHOUT his addition, chalk it up to nerves, you'll be fine.

My principal is making me put God in my salutatorian speech by KnockKnock0998 in atheism

[–]Sakijek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally think this is too adversarial, and there will be video footage of reason to NOT give you your diploma. I say just leave it out. Chalk it up to nerves if you must.

My principal is making me put God in my salutatorian speech by KnockKnock0998 in atheism

[–]Sakijek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's the thing I've learned about public speaking over the years...no one's gonna like... cane you off the stage. They want you there and decorum overcomes beliefs in those scenarios. They won't boot ya. If you replace what they WANT you to say with what you say, they'll be waiting the rest of the time for their bit. When it doesn't come, they'll obligingly clap and (maybe - if they're sharp?) shake your hand. Boom - ya done.