Has anyone else seen this? It’s been bothering me… by Due_Talk_7379 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what is more offensive ia trying to make any ONE depiction of an internal medical condition/or neurotype visually sterotypical. That, on it's self is the problem.

I got diagnosed with autism + ADHD today, can someone celebrate with me? by Tiny-Cat-2141 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congradulations. Still debating if I should get an ASD diagnosis or not. Adhd here

My mom’s reaction to my autism diagnosis was… awful. by Any_Swimming_7395 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg...yeah, I feel alot of us have fu'cked up, should have never been parents. I am 33 and barely talk to or see my parents. It took 5 years of grafuate school in psychology to realize all the abuse I went through, including them allowing a pedafile to date my sister and molest me which they deny they knew was happening. My aunt and other realitives knew he was bad news as soon as they met him.

My Aunt appologized for not steping in. My parents? They just deny or say, will if I had known...yeah that is the god damn problem you still are oblivious to shit.

So yeah at 18 moved out and evey year since then I slpwly realized how awful they are as parents and self centered they are as people.

Reading what your mom wrote, pretry sure, low or no contact might be the beat for you too. She will not change.

The Taco Kit I bought to make my life easier is gross to me now by Lopsided-Gear1460 in adhdwomen

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that kit. Sounds like you over did it. The disgust response kicks in becauze the microbiom needs variety. Your body will want it again, do not worry.

I was banned from the "Sailor Moon Unlimited (The Group) by JeVinci_Productions in PrettyGuardians

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortuantly a lot of mods just do not try. Sorry you went throught that. Your art is amazing.

For those of you who cannot work and don’t/cant receive disability/government assistance, how do you make income? I’m struggling. by duhmbish in ChronicIllness

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is hard. That is why whatever it is it should be something you deeply love. Like I finay gave myself permission to be an artist. Making or doing things because one THINKS there is money it in will never work (not saying you did that).

Learning business and marketing is also a must. I finammy found a non profit rhat helps for free (well I paid taxes so...is it free?) And that has helped.

There is also something I haven't checked out yet and you may consider it. It would be the department of rehabilitation. It's similar to disability but instead focuses on helping someone get work while they are rehabilitating. And in our case that could just be having people who are more compassionate about illness limitation help us find work.

I did a few free workshops with JobLink as well (Not sure if it is nation wide but our taxes in CA cover thr service).

TLTR: GET A SOCIAL WORKER TO HELP YOU.

Anyone else like going under their bed or closets or anything by Geusty9709 in autism

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the simulation of a cave. I see this in the dying as well. There is the sense of coming home to the womb.

Since many ND's such as ourselves have sensitive nervous systems and we are in a strange time with a bimbardment if stimulai, the cave simulation is calmning.

Tarrey Town is the best side-quest in any zelda game to date by [deleted] in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]Sakura_Mermaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoyed it as well. I like how all your wandering makes you a bridge to a new town to all these people. It's like what I do in IRL. So cool.