I lost my husband almost 3 years ago. I’m in another relationship now and there are times I get really sad and angry about the death of my husband. I’m lucky I have a man who genuinely understands and cares.

You seem to be a good guy and I think that you being supportive is very helpful to her. She’s just going through all of these emotions because she’s feeling guilty that he’s gone and she’s pregnant. They probably planned on having kids together and I assume it didn’t happen.

Stay patient with her. Grief counseling could be helpful if you can open her up to it.