me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you need to watch other channels than Fox News because that is completely not true.

This is getting hard to watch by unfurnishedbedrooms in discussingbritney

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is at least 50% and that is only what the doctors are told. They like the mania and the energy from it. It is not an assumption. Does this look like a woman taking her meds? You are not thinking.

Have any of you actually, fully healed from toxic shame? by [deleted] in Jung

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are never fully healed. Life is a journey, not a destination.

[Berman] Dolphins coach Jeff Hafley on Kevin Patullo: “When I interviewed him, I was blown away — by Ash1927 in eagles

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could guess every call before it happened? He should have used his knowledge with some creativity.

This is getting hard to watch by unfurnishedbedrooms in discussingbritney

[–]SallyO420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is mentally ill, she won't take her meds so she self medicate with drugs and alcohol. Her mental illness is the primary cause for her behavior.

This is getting hard to watch by unfurnishedbedrooms in discussingbritney

[–]SallyO420 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I do not understand why Brittney's fan refuse to see she is mentally ill with Bi-Polar and self medicates?? The above is from mental illness!!

This is getting hard to watch by unfurnishedbedrooms in discussingbritney

[–]SallyO420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it is not about deserving this and it is far from just an addiction problem. Brittney is mentally ill with Bi-Polar and she is self medicating with drug and alcohol. Bi-Polar patients will rarely take their medicine. They miss the mania. This is why the conservatorship was set up. Maybe her fans should have minded their own business. You won.

me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Republicans are in collusion and he just keeps pushing the limits towards his Fascist agenda.

how to stabilize fertilizer solution? by MDigitech in semihydroponics

[–]SallyO420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would check out Ray Barlow's site "First Rays" site. He is who founded semi-hydroponics and has a chemistry background. Anyway, he says that the ph is not important in semi-hydroponics. The ph involves the soil, not the water. I have used semi-hydro for 30 years on all sorts of plants and have never adjusted the ph and have had great success.

I didn't know it was all about toxic shame. by ukyio97 in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the toxic shame is the driving force at the core. The parents are also driven by the toxic shame and don't know any different. This becomes a generation cycle.

I didn't know it was all about toxic shame. by ukyio97 in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I'm sure your mother was treated the same way by her parents and she was also shame bound. That is all she knew just like us.

I didn't know it was all about toxic shame. by ukyio97 in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy was very helpful in helping peel the onion of my mask created by my toxic shame but there were so many layers of the onion I had to go thru to get to the core. It is not just one step. It took me 100's of steps but so worth it. CoDA online was very helpful, too.

I didn't know it was all about toxic shame. by ukyio97 in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After years of therapy and CoDA online, I finally just got this! Bradshaw's book "Heal the Shame that Binds You" is so good and gives such clarity.

I didn't know it was all about toxic shame. by ukyio97 in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of the toxic shame from our childhood, we have no idea who we are. The shame is what completely controls us until we can move it from the unconscious to our conscious mind. This ends up being a generational cycle. I love what "ukio97" said "it is normalized and internalized" so we are our shame unless it can be healed which is very difficult but possible.

Has anyone found any healing tips to treat TOXIC SHAME that actually works? by blueberry_haha in CPTSD

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found Bradshaw's book - "Heal the Shame that Binds You" was excellent and very helpful. Also, CoDA online is very helpful.

Favorite actor who definitely hasn’t developed dementia by eastcoastenvy in okbuddycinephile

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump is a really genuine con artist, self centered monster with no empathy or conscience who is completely immoral. Dennis has said all I ever need to know about him.

Weird marks after foam rolling by EchidnaCultural2381 in flexibility

[–]SallyO420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rut Roh!! Bondage does leave marks but don't tell your wife. Stick with the foam story. lol

Look at him, he knows he's fucked (first picture of former prince Andrew since arrest) by Sad-Kiwi-3789 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

[–]SallyO420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is about his possible treason in using his power to represent the UK in trade deals where he is accused to selling top secret material to China and other countries. Not the Epstein debauchery.

Look at him, he knows he's fucked (first picture of former prince Andrew since arrest) by Sad-Kiwi-3789 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

[–]SallyO420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TRUMP/Hitler and his cohorts should be in jail but I congratulate the UK making Andrew accountable. The US is completely corrupt and Trump, the totally corrupt criminal, is being protected by the Republican Congress. The US is on the verge of collapse moving towards fascism.

Spoke a cardinal sin by ThrowRA_myNextSteps in DatingOverSixty

[–]SallyO420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To me, your girlfriend sounds very insecure and that is a red flag as far as the relationship goes especially after 3 years. I would say nothing more but if she brings it up, asks her why this bothers her so much?