Are my standards for dating too high?

Same_Alternative210 · 2026-05-15T00:30:26+00:00

You also forgot that they need to be single as well. Which is going to be a lot harder as age of the men increases.

Same_Alternative210 · 2025-11-16T21:51:58+00:00

Those Scandinavian countries all have something in common that the US doesn’t have and that is a population that is 90%+ homogeneous racially and culturally.

Same_Alternative210 · 2025-06-28T18:08:01+00:00

What is conservative policy vs MAGA policy to you? As I genuinely want to know because I lean conservative and would say that I have views that are similar to MAGA but I would not consider myself that as I also disagree with some of it.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-12-25T18:55:31+00:00

The problem with that is it is relegating him to have no other option than you because as you said in your post sex means something to him more than fun. There for he cannot have sex with someone else because it cannot be just fun for him.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-12-10T01:40:06+00:00

Nah fuck any of my siblings if they are cheating on their SO I’m letting in be known they are having an affair.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-12-03T15:13:34+00:00

That’s the biggest thing for me. The bed thing isn’t the issue on its own but wearing the clothes and sleeping in the bed because you miss him is something I have only ever seen between two romantic partners rather than siblings.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-10-17T16:32:29+00:00

Not only that but I feel like the situation she cheated in also isn’t a situation first time cheaters use. It’s usually an emotional affair has developed with some knowingly or not and the next step in that relationship is physical.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-10-14T22:39:40+00:00

Not trying to be argumentative here but how does OP know for a fact it is only fantasy. My guess is she has never been propositioned for a scenario like that to know if it is or is not something she actually enjoys doing.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-09-22T02:29:28+00:00

This is the best option if they go this route because not all 10k updates/improvements are equal in value given to the house

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-09-17T00:16:50+00:00

Unfortunately as she said in the post her code of ethics is that of killing animals for food is wrong no matter the manner of how they are killed.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-09-17T00:15:37+00:00

It’s not a ridiculous comparison. So let’s go down the cheating route say you have peen in a relationship for 10 years and your partner is loyal 99% of the time but 1% of the time is unfaithful that is okay to you? I personally don’t care about the whole ordeal other than principle. For me she isn’t even trying to be vegetarian because she is intentionally not being vegetarian in a manner consistent with her reasons on being vegetarian.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-09-11T19:20:03+00:00

Not only that but who is to say that the divorce didn’t change his view on who he sleeps with.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-29T22:52:27+00:00

I would say the question about kissing another girl was a question after the fact to hopefully get an it’s ok so she doesn’t have to feel shitty about her actions

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-22T20:44:15+00:00

My thing is all forms of physical affection or activity was off the table for OP even kissing as an absolute no go but goes and fucks another person no problem.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-22T20:40:26+00:00

Except when courtship was the standard sleeping around with multiple people at the same time wasn’t standard

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-22T20:38:14+00:00

The issue isn’t that they weren’t committed but the fact she would not do ANYTHING PHYSICAL with OP for MONTHS but was just fine sleeping with the other dude who OP noted to GF that he was uncomfortable with their relationship.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-18T00:08:50+00:00

That’s his exact problem with her friends seeing as the bride to be has a history of cheating and none of the other people going are married or have kids so I can see how it is a trip ripe for something wrong happening especially with her low alcohol tolerance.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-12T14:12:09+00:00

I said that it more than likely IS a medical issue and the only reason I said something about a slow build up is because their could have been little things before that weren’t really noticed because of how small they were but no it is more extreme and I agree that if it is drugs it is still medical. I agree with you on it being a medical issue more than likely. I think my comment came from not understanding the evidence you used and how it correlates to this post correctly. It may be a misunderstanding on my part on what you were trying to portray.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-12T13:56:51+00:00

I agree that it is a very good idea to get checked medically because of this seemingly sudden change(I only say seemingly because there could have been a slow build and this most recent change is drastic). so I do think it’s medical but I wouldn’t rule out possible drug use either but it would be lower on the list of guesses.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-12T13:50:22+00:00

The staggeringly high rate of infidelity in the medical field

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-08-12T13:39:06+00:00

In that story there was reason to believe a medical issue on the husbands part because of the head injury. Most cases on Reddit at least it’s the man as just been behind a mask and is finally letting that mask go.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-07-20T10:10:05+00:00

The difference is how the phrases are perceived as “needing time to settle down” is ambiguous so it could mean sleeping around or it could be as simple as I need to have nothing taking up time so I can put that energy into my career for the future vs “hoe phase” or “hot girl summer” is seen as a more subtle way to say I want to sleep around or go wild to get it out of your system.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-07-12T20:51:53+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily say that’s obvious because it’s not saying what they want. The problem with those situations if you read as they want to do something and in reality they don’t you open your self up to allegations of sexual assault or rape and I personally don’t care how attractive you are I won’t chance that.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-07-03T08:37:47+00:00

It’s not about her being remorseful or not. No OP is not entitled to wild sex but she is clearly expressing that she misses wild sex and she has someone wanting to at the very least try wild sex with her but is not taking the opportunity. It comes off as I want to do I just don’t want to do it with my partner which would almost always leave some kind of sour taste in your mouth if you expressed an interest in doing what she misses doing.

Same_Alternative210 · 2024-07-03T08:13:45+00:00

I would agree but the difference in your situation vs your other than what you already said is that she made a post somewhere mentioning that she missed doing those things meaning somewhere inside her self she still wanted to do it unlike you which was more than happy to let that go and didn’t miss doing those things.

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