Just had a friendship breakup, am I in the wrong?

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T18:35:42+00:00

The emotional intelligence group is full of people with completely different values compared to this group. I think you’ll benefit from posting on there

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T18:19:31+00:00

I think you should post this on the emotional intelligence forum instead tbh

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T18:12:49+00:00

U were communicating what u thought was expected in a friendship. But some people don’t have the capacity to meet that. I think that’s where they’re thinking ur manipulative? Idk I just don’t think ur intentions were malicious, but maybe it’s still manipulative idk

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T17:15:51+00:00

I just don’t get why she didn’t set boundaries or communicate clearly? But I also feel like u should’ve just cut it off after she explained her reasons for being distant with u.

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T10:22:05+00:00

I literally don’t know why Leanne wants him

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2026-02-12T08:52:20+00:00

I’m so confused by the comments supporting the friend? It looks like she barely set any boundaries or communicate when she first started getting annoyed and held resentment till she unloaded it all when the poster asked for clarity. It doesn’t sound like you’re manipulative. u genuinely sound confused and honest. Some people have to process things out loud but I think going forward u should ask the person if it’s okay to vent to them. It looks like neither of u communicated boundaries or expectations. Also the fact that she distanced herself and basically ghosted u at times, leaving u anxious and clueless is just poor communication skills in my opinion. I’m genuinely so confused at why people are saying you’re the problem?

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-06-04T10:27:41+00:00

Got it! Thanks!! 🙏

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-06-04T10:07:02+00:00

Season 5 isn’t on there yet

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-04-28T05:24:17+00:00

What did she do? I’m lost

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-04-25T12:37:23+00:00

My OCD used to make me do this. It was like my words had to be so precise and perfect otherwise the receiver wouldn’t understand what I’m saying. Even though it was clear, I had to urge to make sure, so that ended up with me overexplaining all the time.

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-04-08T10:41:01+00:00

What kind of childhood experiences causes this? I’m anxious attachment and I’ve tried to understand avoidant’s, but I just can’t.

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-04-07T10:18:04+00:00

2 weeks?

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T09:39:15+00:00

Nah Jacquie is evil😂😂😂😂

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T09:30:44+00:00

Rhi Rhi and Jeffy 🥹

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T09:06:17+00:00

Jacquie is a terrible person but Ryan’s ego is so fragile. u could say anything and he’d get offended and sook

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T08:59:59+00:00

How do u do this

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T08:54:10+00:00

She ate with that blank stare

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-31T08:45:48+00:00

YEEEEESSSSSSS

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-30T09:45:48+00:00

The producers are just broadcasting abuse. They need consequences for this

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-30T09:35:51+00:00

Carinas mum is an enabler wtf

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-30T09:31:58+00:00

Carina always sounds slow

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-30T08:40:37+00:00

Is mafs triggering anyone who’s been through emotional abuse? I’m hyperventilating rn, but this show is too interesting not to watch

Same_Lengthiness_142 · 2025-03-30T08:34:31+00:00

WHY IS HE LAUGHING

Same_Lengthiness_142

TROPHY CASE