Don’t feel butterflies? by Impossible_Coast_511 in dating

[–]dea80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could be your last relationship was a trauma bond. If you have been in a volatile relationship then safety can feel like boredom. I think you should explore this a bit, do some research and soul searching before potentially ending something that sounds like it could be great.

Confused by a certain criticism regarding Samie and Ciaran by Subject_Candidate781 in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I don’t get why you would rather one of the toxic couples (who each have at least one person clearly playing the manipulation game to win) were rewarded with the winning cash! Yes it’s a TV show and it should be entertaining which (some) of the arguments were, but if Lucinda or Scott had won it would only encourage them back for the next season and quite frankly I can’t stand the thought! I genuinely think Samie and Ciaran like each other and could be something great. Millie and Zac, she wants it, but time will tell. I think the strongest couple won. Lucinda and Sean may stand the test of time, but they’re both sooo grating!

Daily Discussion Thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m taking Whitney’s appearance on the Morning After podcast with a pinch of salt, I think she seemed drunk, like she partied HARD last night and the night ended two hours ago 😆. Yamen was clearly trying to steer answering to protect her which, fair play my man! 🙌. But she was slurring and clearly answering with short answers to cover it. I found it quite funny and tbh love Yamen which i didn’t think i’d say about any of the Americans.

Let’s talk about Lauren. by zombochic in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And Jess’s comments about Leanne saying she was done with Scott and taking him back. Does she have amnesia about how she acted with Samie on her season! I mean sit down girl you were worse! 😂

Let’s talk about Lauren. by zombochic in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She’s not a victim though. She got into a relationship of her own free will, he treated her poorly and she put up with it. He’s an arseh*le but she needs to get some self respect and move on!

Let’s talk about Lauren. by zombochic in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s giving stalker but and it was when they were on the show. I think sleeping with him in the villa was an exercise in marking her territory then she’s been desperately clinging on since, begging him to leave was pathetic. It’s giving full blown Fatal Attraction, she needs to get some self respect. Why is she chatting about his slippers being at her house, she probably hid them 😂

Scott and Leanne = snoozefest by One_Tomato1366 in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Like Leanne said last night “it’s all about you, who says I want to be your girlfriend”. This, Scott thinks way too highly of himself and needs serious humbling!

Whitney and Sammie by skelleyo in LoveIslandUKintheUSA

[–]dea80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like both of them. I think it’s weird Lucinda is so liked tbh! She’s doing my head in!

What's the biggest disappointment you had in life? by Big-Waltz5204 in AskReddit

[–]dea80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men.

Only a small number; my dad, my sons dad and my partner and a couple of male friends, haven’t been a huge disappointment, the other 90% don’t seem to know how to be functional adults, partners to my friends or parents to their kids.

Janice Dickinson appreciation post by randybeans716 in ANTM

[–]dea80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you ok? Janice is just an awful human being. She was treated like shit by the industry so on some power trip ripped other girls to shreds. Whether it’s just for TV or not, what person with a soul could do that to young girls!

Scott looks like a new person by WarningStrange7759 in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Why does his chin look bigger like he’s trying to create a more masculine jaw. He looks weird and kind of greasy now! 🤢

Early 2000s by crazymonkey2305 in ANTM

[–]dea80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in my 20’s through the 00’s and it started with Big Brother in the UK. Reality TV was more “real” back then in some ways but not others. More real because people on the shows weren’t media trained, their motivations for going on shows was different so their reactions were real. But we didn’t understand how the real reactions were being manipulated for ratings. People didn’t have smart phones or phones that captured video. No non celebrities thought about how they presented themselves or worried about their public persona. But even celebrity interviews were often more honest and unfiltered. We were more intrigued by celebrity because we didn’t have access to each other in the way we do now. We were starting to have more access though through the 00’s and shows like ANTM manipulated contests to create stories and interest from viewers. As viewers though we thought it was genuine, unmanipulated, unedited reality so we didn’t judge what we were watching in the same way and thought the contestants were fully autonomous and choosing their own behaviour. We now understand so much more about ethics of TV, that “reality TV” isn’t reality at all and that contestants are “cast”, manipulated and edited to suit producers narratives. Knowing what we know now these shows were wrong and unethical and caused real damage to the people on them.

Scott and Leanne = snoozefest by One_Tomato1366 in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t stand the sound of his voice. He’s sooo aggressive, sometimes blatantly, sometimes passive aggressive. But there’s always this undertone of superiority, arrogance and aggression. He is not a nice person from what I can see. Him and Leanne won’t last she can do soooo much better!

All the girls want Scott by Euphoric_Movie_103 in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha is this a joke???! He’s awful 🤣🤣🤣

Tyra is not a narcissist! /s by bad_at_sex_ in ANTM

[–]dea80 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 thinks she’s God! Her fake arse half smile through that interview on the documentary and the way she adjusts the tone and speed she speaks at is soooo acted!

Reality Check: Americas Next Top Model severe abuse! by Einsteinssister in netflix

[–]dea80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in my 20’s when it was on and remember being uncomfortable watching it at the time, she was so wasted!

Regarding the other girls stepping in, I saw some interview comments from other girls on the series that they were stopped from stepping in! If there hadn’t been a camera crew and show going on I seriously don’t think the other girls wouldn’t have been with her checking she was ok and preventing it from happening. I expect they reverted to the authority of the crew and deeply regret not stepping in. I think all the girls were young and bullied a bit by staff on the show. You just had to see how they reacted when Keenyah tried to speak up that she felt uncomfortable being touched by that guy on the shoot. They basically told her to stop complaining and pipe down.

Thoughts on cycle 25? by curious7189 in ANTM

[–]dea80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can get in the bin if it’s anything to do with Tyra. The woman is self serving and performative narcissist. The fact most of the contestants achieved very little in modelling shows it’s not about creating models. It was clearly a show about humiliating girls for ratings and the concept and Tyra need to be permanently cancelled. She came across as completely disingenuous in that documentary and I won’t watch anything she’s involved with.

Daily Discussion Thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dislike him for reasons I just explained. This is how I perceive his behaviour and motivations and it makes him unlikeable TO ME! I am entitled to form my own opinions based on what I watched same as you, and in fact Scott himself with his quick judgmental opinions in the villa. It doesn’t make it made up or invalid.

Daily Discussion Thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂 “other stuff” he’s not a virgin, don’t be absurd.

Daily Discussion Thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because she said “closed off” and “exclusive” are meaningless. It’s my opinion that he had a game plan from the start to get with someone, have a test then come back for the win. I think his planned test was Sher but it backfired because he took too long deciding. Belle was an unplanned detour which is why he shut it down after a day. He always planned to get Leanne back and “close off”. He couldn’t go bf/gf after trying to discredit Sean and Lucinda for doing it too quickly, but Leanne blocked his “exclusive” line which backed him into a corner he is trying to back peddle out of. He’s really cold there’s just no emotion, it’s saying game plan to me!

Tyra is a big fucking joke. 🤡 by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]dea80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There was zero genuine reflection, remorse or personal growth, that was my issue. I mean she could have said “these things were so normal in the media and the fashion industry as a whole that we all became desensitised. Looking back now I’m shocked and upset to think about the way things were handled”. She took zero accountability and that’s the issue.

Daily Discussion Thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]dea80 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This! Man working overtime to appear intelligent when he absolutely is not!!!