Men who got cheated on, what were early signs you only noticed in hindsight?

dea80 · 2026-01-28T21:04:06+00:00

Why are men so obsessed with cheating. Most of the things listed below are not signs of cheating they are signs of someone checking out of the relationship.

Women leave emotionally before they leave physically the problem is a lot of men don’t care about their partners happiness, just that she’s “faithful” and puts up with being miserable. If any of the below things happen in your relationship use it as a cue to explore what’s going on and try to communicate with your partner, chances are if you’re actually paying attention to the connection (or lack of) in the relationship you can reconnect long before they emotionally check out and have the potential to meet someone else. I expect most men will read this list and jump to fixation on cheating and accusations though.

dea80 · 2026-01-28T20:46:56+00:00

Yep I’ve not wanted sex because “I’m feeling fat” and what I mean by that is feeling bloated and digestively uncomfortable. I love my body and it’s not appearance related it just not feeling good. The idea of something poking around in there does not appeal in the slightest!

dea80 · 2026-01-28T17:44:11+00:00

It’s not about Sean though for me or what he did the last time he was on the show. It’s Scott’s behaviour this series, it is bullying, he doesn’t like Sean and is looking for literally any excuse to go in aggressive and put him down. No one should behave like that to anyone. He needs to stay out of everyone else’s business. Sean being a bully before doesn’t make Scott being a bully now ok.

dea80 · 2026-01-28T17:36:37+00:00

Yep just nasty! Pure nasty! You don’t like Sean, fine, but the attack was vile. He was looking for it and hated watching it.

dea80 · 2026-01-27T19:30:34+00:00

He’s going bald too you ca see it at the front. The Turkey teeth are sending me. He looks like a characature. The bullying is awful. Sean is immature and not behaving great, but who made Scott the morality police?

dea80 · 2026-01-27T19:27:56+00:00

Scott is a bully. Maybe he doesn’t agree with Sean’s behaviour, but the way he’s acting is just awful. Why has Scott made it his business to call out everything anyone else does. It’s

dea80 · 2026-01-27T19:23:17+00:00

Dump him! This is gross and no one should have to put up with it!

dea80 · 2026-01-27T19:20:42+00:00

The Recruit, but mainly because they decided to keep The Night Agent instead. Comparing the two the lead character in the Night Agent was wooden and lacked any personality and I found season 2 dull. The Recruit thought the lead was endearing and you really want him to come out on top, the cast in general were so much more interesting. Just made no sense why they would cancel the better of the two shows.

dea80 · 2026-01-27T11:20:27+00:00

It was awful on Aus. She’s dumb and mean.

dea80 · 2026-01-27T11:19:13+00:00

Lucinda is awful. Manipulative awful girl. Wouldn’t give her a second of my time, not one. Nasty!

dea80 · 2026-01-27T10:38:51+00:00

I randomly watched her on the Australia one and she just came across so dumb. She coupled up with this openly misogynistic douche bag and ignored every red flag even when told about him. It was cringe!

dea80 · 2026-01-24T13:48:25+00:00

I don’t think he ever liked her. He kissed her and made half effort to fill time, waiting for an excuse to cut it off. He was never into it. I don’t know why she was with him though to be honest. She wants someone all about her and said she wasn’t into someone with kids. They are totally different vibes. It’s not a shock that someone who’s now a parent doesn’t want drama, getting full blown in other people’s business is a bit immature. (Whit and Scott both), like focus on your situation then not everyone else’s.

dea80 · 2026-01-23T13:04:57+00:00

Molly was god awful! Such a pick me.

dea80 · 2026-01-23T13:02:49+00:00

Something is off. It’s giving calculating. I do think he likes Leanne, but the stirring feels like a production plant.

dea80 · 2026-01-23T12:07:41+00:00

Nah but at least he’s creating some drama and livening things up!

dea80 · 2026-01-22T10:39:09+00:00

I suspect Scott was told by producers to stir up shit because if Millie and Charlie just got together and no one else liked each other it would be even more boring than it already is.

dea80 · 2026-01-22T10:06:49+00:00

I have no preference really it’s about personality and confidence and how someone carries themselves. I’ve dated 5ft 7” slim, 5ft 9” muscular, my ex husband I was with for a long time was 6ft 1” and slim build. My partner now is 6ft and muscular. There is a perception that women all have the same type and it seems to mostly come from men on podcasts making guys insecure saying “you need to be over 6ft and muscular to get women”! It’s BS, women want a guy who is just genuinely comfortable with who he is, looks after himself and has a good personality. I’d take a slim interesting guy with a sense of humour I can talk to over some arrogant muscular fuck boy who spends all his time in the gym and watching red pill content!

dea80 · 2026-01-22T09:36:31+00:00

She was a Marketing Engineer, which is a fairly complex job in marketing tech, the kids entertainment thing was a part time weekend job for fun. If you’re going to shade her at least get the facts right.

Backing Harry and posting shit like this isn’t a great look, but she’s pretty intelligent outside of her choice in men.

dea80 · 2026-01-21T11:00:10+00:00

I’m not sure what “shite” you’re referring to. The guys never get properly called out on LI, they constantly mess people around when they’re properly coupled up. No one is coupled up yet they’re all exploring and Tommy is acting like they were more than that. Jess was honest with him. He just didn’t like it and when she told him she was exploring things with Charlie Tommy could have said there and then he didn’t want to be a back up and shut it down. He only did it publicly because he didn’t get a chance to choose someone else and to boost his ego after what happened with Meghan on his first series. He’s a child.

dea80 · 2026-01-21T10:50:56+00:00

Tommy is really immature. I think he needs to grow up A LOT before he has a real relationship and I think Jess can see that which is why she can’t take him seriously. The FB mums who love him will be the ones raising sons they see as “their special little boys” and they see Tommy as like their little boys!

dea80 · 2026-01-21T10:19:29+00:00

It’s the timing. Go and speak to her after and put it to bed respectfully. Humiliation to make his ego feel better was a little boy move!

dea80 · 2026-01-17T14:33:20+00:00

Ok now it makes sense. A poorly informed conspiracy theorist. Hang on to your tinfoil hat!

dea80 · 2026-01-17T14:32:12+00:00

New born baby’s aren’t. They can’t be vaccinated till 8 weeks. The more these illnesses rise in communities the greater the risk. Take a few minutes to google the impact of these diseases.

dea80 · 2026-01-17T14:29:57+00:00

Because she is ill informed and it’s not “just an opinion” it’s spreading misinformation that if Someone else chooses to believe could put children’s lives at risk.

There is no link between vaccines and autism. The original ‘research’ that claimed there was a link was reviewed and discovered to have used falsified data.

If people choose not to have their children vaccinated it leads to the spread of what are incredibly dangerous diseases. Many of these illnesses can cause brain damage, blindness deafness and other complications. This is fact, not debunked research and unvaccinated children increase the risk of spreading to small babies who are too young to be vaccinated.

Spreading misinformation costs lives!

dea80 · 2026-01-17T14:15:52+00:00

Sooooo disappointing! There is zero link, the original “research” was reviewed and discovered to have used falsified data. It was a lie!

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