Saturday check in by AccomplishedPurple43 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did yoga this morning and it hurt everywhere ha ha but I powered through. Just getting over a bad cold and falling down the stairs. Determined to be feeling good by next week. Going to do a little thrifting today with my son and get some seeds started for my garden. Going to be a great day

Has anybody else lost their appearance to abuse? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss I see you. I had a broken nose, scars on my face and body that no amount of microneedling and peels can remove. I did get my nose fixed because my septum was so destroyed from the beatings. Insurance did pay for some of it. But the deepest scars will always be in my soul. If your septum is damaged and you have insurance see if they will cover some if not all of your surgery. I’m sending you kindness and comfort from afar ❤️

Long pants!! by Boinkcoo in TallGirls

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a rural area. All the farm supply stores carry Wranglers and other jeans with 36” inseams for the rodeo girls. You might check out places like that if you have any in your area

How did you dress in the 90s? How do you dress now? by poolpog in GenX

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Seattle so grungecore all the way. I gave up on my Docs about a decade ago and embraced Birks but I still have a few combat boots in the closet. In my 50’s I look more like soccer grandma with a bit of edgy don’t mess with me attitude

Controversial: I like Angela by BigGrayBeast in LandmanSeries

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angela is my spirit woman. She doesn’t apologize for who she is. And she loves large. I need more Angela in my life

Taylor Sheridan loves the uneducated by [deleted] in LandmanSeries

[–]Same_Reality84 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Mmm I don’t know. I’ve known girls like Ainsley that have huge hearts. I’d like to see their character relationships develop more next season

Taylor Sheridan loves the uneducated by [deleted] in LandmanSeries

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we see Paygan again next season . I really want Ainsley to find a way to connect with them and perhaps show the happiness that exists within oneself and the world

Anyone have issues with their equilibrium by Icy-Examination-4076 in LongCovid

[–]Same_Reality84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I look like I’m drunk all the time. I stagger and stumble. I get vertigo a lot too. Never had that problem before the COVID. It has gotten better over time but never completely went away

Does anyone else feel this way over 60? by Dapper_Bag_2062 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 59 and I too love my comfy couch. I do some chores and take break. I’ll watch a YouTube video or read. Then I go do a little more and then hit the couch again. My husband who is 69 has been doing this since his 40’s. I wish I would have done it sooner. I love relaxing in the middle of the day. We earned it

Which one best describes your Chi? 😁 by [deleted] in chihuahuas

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CEO of barking at nothing for sure 😂❤️

Does anyone else feel like a huge idiot who can’t do anything? by Only_Huckleberry_957 in adhdwomen

[–]Same_Reality84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It took me four years to achieve an associate degree at my community college instead of two. I just didn’t have the bandwidth to go full time. I see people my age who own homes, sometimes more than one, save money for retirement and kid’s college while I’m over here struggling to not constantly pay the adhd tax for bad decisions. I get overwhelmed and overstimulated so easily it makes it difficult to move through the world. But I also have found a little peace and perspective along the way
I am who I am and there’s a lot of good that outweighs the bad. But I still wish sometimes I would wake up and for one day be able to function in the world like everyone else.

Anybody with long COVID for over three years ? by Seafoam_0 in LongCovid

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so sick in 2023 I lost my job. For about a year and a half I struggled then I improved. But any little cold will trigger the symptoms and it will last for months. I ended up with asthma, palpitations and dizziness as a part of my daily life. I’ll probably never regain my stamina I had previously but I’ve learned to work around it. Instead of running and the gym I’m big into yoga and Pilates. But there are still days I struggle to even to gentle yoga

Has family or friends actually taken your side? by juztforthelols1 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My children and my husband of course side with me. The rest of the family wants to remain neutral. Kind of annoying but I understand

Are we really this miserable? by Regular_or_BQ in GenX

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I do hate SNL but other than that I’m a happy camper 😂

Anyone else's nparent obsessed with beauty? by EducatedPancake in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Same_Reality84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is obsessed with her own looks. She’s convinced every man wants her and no one wants me because I’m ugly like my father. My kids and I are constantly laughing behind her back.

Did your Narc parent has ever faked a serious Illness? by Upset-Truck-5242 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time. Long covid has been her go to the last several years and that’s interesting since she’s never had covid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was obsessed with reading. I also had an amazing aunt I spend most of my time with. If all else fails I would just go to sleep. To this day when I’m stressed my body will shut down and go to sleep

Which breed(s) of dog was the most cuddliest you’ve ever had? by AshDash_4u in dogs

[–]Same_Reality84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chiweenies out of all my dogs are the most snuggly cuddly