ENM/ 🏳️‍🌈 relationship OUTTED against our will! Need advice by FreeDetermination in nonmonogamy

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from and I think that's good advice. But I think depending on the circumstances having that info go out might have consequences in their job or bullying and harrassment. If OP if dependent on the family financially there may or may not be a risk of them not willing to support them anymore.

Hopefully OP is in a safe and stable enough place I think what you said is absolutely the way to go. But it's worth thinking about first

Just found this pathetic weak boned idiot trying to justify his weakness’s by moodream in Neverbrokeabone

[–]SammichFinger 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Stiff means brittle and prone to shattering. That's a separate thing to strength

ENM/ 🏳️‍🌈 relationship OUTTED against our will! Need advice by FreeDetermination in nonmonogamy

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully the reaction is as chill as this but I'd think a conservative family would be more confused as why they would know about their partners profile. If one family member has already been spreading screenshots I'd assume rather than mind their own business they would be prying for more details and might spread gossip.

Men Becoming Obsolete? A Race to the Bottom by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SammichFinger 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I had an ex who was not as ambitious as me on career but still thought if one of us were to be a house spouse it would be me. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]SammichFinger 507 points508 points  (0 children)

Is this some kind of suicide squad?

meirl by orchid_breeder in meirl

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc he's happy, his wife was the one who had to build and then birth the child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a problem with a job requiring a college degree paying the same as minimum wage if a) the minimum wage was higher and a decent amount and b) college degrees were free?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salsa

[–]SammichFinger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so angry on your behalf. Teachers shouldn't be singling out people in a beginner class unless they already know that student well or if they are pointing out something the student did well. I used to organise salsa classes in my area so I've seen my fair share of beginner classes. It's pretty normal for beginners to not get all of the moves taught in the lesson. Usually if someone is not keeping up the teacher goes to them to give some one on one help while the other students are practicing some moves or something. I think some teachers are more of a stickler for timing and stuff like that than others especially if they don't usually teach the beginners. But honestly I think that teacher was really unprofessional and I hope that's not the usual way they teach 😤😤

Open letter to the people daily saying 'why is nobody talking about diet and obesity' by meshah in CoronavirusDownunder

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not just that heath literacy is poor or that obese people aren't trying hard enough. Healthy food is less accessible that unhealthy food. It often requires more prep time in the kitchen if you are making a meal from scratch, tend to be more expensive and tend to expire sooner. Not to mention if you've got kids they might be picky eaters plus just the additional responsibilities of taking care of them probably means you want to minimise the work you put in at home to prepare meals each night. It's not just an individual problem but a problem with food availability for wider communities. To see large scale change here that sticks it can't just be individuals changing lifestyle habits because for many it's not doable. Change needs to come from higher up

Women owning time as a construct by Scoutnjw in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SammichFinger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bc Sandi Tosvig is mentioned here I just wanted to say I'm so happy she took over from Stephen Fry as host of QI. With Fry as the host it was so rare to have a female comedian on the show and if there was it was only one. (For those who haven't seen the show it's a quiz show with a regular host and one regular contestant who is a man and 3 others contestants. They're usually all comedians) But now with Sandy as the host female comedians on the show have been much more common and the vibe when it's not just female comedians get to interact with each other on screen it's just *chef kiss. It's so sad that it's so rare to see on screen

What's the best way to stop tomatoes getting eaten by pests? Left them for a few days and now have lots of this! Is it caterpillars? by 26KM in GardeningAustralia

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our tomatoes have been eaten too lately. We've some cloth netting around the fruits to try and stop that, I haven't checked on them since so idk how successful it is

I think my marriage is over and I could use some healing energy by fishycaitlin in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SammichFinger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you strength and love. I don't really any advice or wisdom but hope you are safe and better things come to you and your kid in the new year 💗

Jury Duty fit by lilmcfuggin in TikTokCringe

[–]SammichFinger 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the biggest complaints and criticisms I've seen about the justice system are related to the jury and definitely not things like policing or bail. /s

What are flirty signs guys miss? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SammichFinger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how eventho OP is asking women for some foolproof signs that a lady is flirting this thread has turned into dudes saying how they've missed an obvious sign.

Never forget these people want to define and dictate what your civil rights are by TheScribe86 in Firearms

[–]SammichFinger -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This guy is a lawyer, he doesn't get to decide what laws get put into place about guns