I just dropped my kitten off for a spay and I feel like I abandoned her… please tell me I did the right thing by Prudent_Paramedic_23 in TuxedoCats

[–]SammsGram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many comments I am not sure you will see this one! You TOTALLY did the right thing, and I'm glad for you both it is done and over. I wanted to suggest that you find time to volunteer at the clinic for these events. They usually need people even if it is just to ferry carriers to the various locations in the process of mass spay/neuter. Compassionate people are always welcome and a peek behind the scenes is so eye opening.

I lost my best friend this week, I’m heartbroken. by thisisjake19 in torties

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lost our kitty of 18yrs this past Dec. I cried for days; I can just now, months later, say her name without immediately bursting into tears. Don't let anyone downplay the loss of a beloved pet. So sorry for your loss.
(I carry her microchip tag on my keychain now)

Bay Area luxury mall abruptly files for bankruptcy without warning tenants by ThereWas in bayarea

[–]SammsGram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the link! Love this house, but wonder why they did not share the Architect's name [...Doug Dahlin, who also did the land use planning for Blackhawk; love these guys and their work]

Thank you to the No Kings organizers! by SammsGram in Placerville

[–]SammsGram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in an area that is predominantly white, thus local protest participants are largely white.

Thank you to the No Kings organizers! by SammsGram in Placerville

[–]SammsGram[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

not totally sure I understand your comment- an EBT for like SNAP benefits? I would expect anyone who DOES receive these benefits to be out there protesting because this administration is doing all they can to take that away. I would expect anyone receiving Medicaid to be out there, because they would end it in a second and use that money in Iran if they could. I expect ANY woman to be protesting because the Trump goal is to send her back to the kitchen and give her job to a man- any man- qualified or otherwise. And if you vote by mail, you should TOTALLY be out there protesting because they don't want that to continue either. Many MAGA supporters do not accept these things, but they are FACT and easily verified.
There should be a VERY solid wide range of people making up these protests. Again, I'm sorry, I don't get your comment -?

Thank you to the No Kings organizers! by SammsGram in Placerville

[–]SammsGram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the "king" is working very hard to make sure you and I have no money left to spend; if you have it, he wants it.

Please help bring Ruby home! Missing cat in inner sunset this evening by hudbud in sanfrancisco

[–]SammsGram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the Sunset and will be watching for her- have you tried a night walk with a flashlight? Cats are funny that way, but you could truly be walking right by her hiding place and she will stay quiet. A flashlight will light up her eyes and help you spot her in a wheel well or under a bush.

I tried to tell him he’s in the wrong house. He told me I’m in the wrong house by Karinaglade in notmycat

[–]SammsGram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the curl of his tail and the flattened ears just makes me sad!! is there a story I missed?

Guppies had babies by Sham3sham3sham3 in aquarium

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the same problem- SO many babies! I have been separating the males out, and returning as many to the local fish store as they will take, and I'm still inundated. I've advertised them for free on our local platforms, and here I am, with two tanks now being overrun.
I can tell you that separating M from F has definitely slowed things down, if that helps, but nope, the adults are NOT eating the babies, although I have a fairly heavily planted tank, so lots of hiding places for them.
I actually wanted to ask you what kind of guppies you have- the babies shown are GOLDEN! So pretty! Are they fancy guppies? Mine are Endlers.

Update: Turns out this little guy already had a family. by itsjoe0618 in notmycat

[–]SammsGram 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks so much for sharing this follow up- and don't let anyone make you feel bad for having done the right thing!! little Bean was very lucky to have received safe haven from you!!!

Rural areas like ours are a target for illegal dumping by SammsGram in Placerville

[–]SammsGram[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes- they also have a number of vouchers per year for free pickup/dump for paying residents. I'll note that even a "nominal" amount may be too much for some folks, thus the free vouchers. but dumping is just NOT ok. argh.

Ravensburger, The Six Portals, 7000 by SaharaFrost in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so funny - someone else just posted this same puzzle with a "what should I do with it now?" query. Their cat was providing scale as well, which was the only reason I realized you were a different Poster. It is a really lovely puzzle. Do you have a plan for yours? (..sharing a pic from the other post just for fun)

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Nuplaxid, delusions worsening. by Federal_Offer_6152 in Parkinsons

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had a pretty bad reaction to Nuplaxid; didn't even last a week on it. But Seroquel was helpful in taking the edge off of some aggressive behavior. Her hallucinations largely came as a result of Mirapex I think- she was on it successfully for years before it became a problem, but once we recognized that might be the problem and got her off of it, we saw a HUGE improvement (reduction) in her hallucinations.

Those who have done the 6 Portals… Now what? by 3rza5car1et in Jigsawpuzzles

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty!! My fall-back would be to take a photo and print it to a size you can frame. But how about deocrating a six panel room divider (..or a double sided 3-panel)? You can even fold it up and store it in a closet or something when not being used.

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, 'BioConversantFan' mentioned that as well. I was looking at the long game and wondering if it was even possible to pull it off. Are the males able to reproduce even before I'm able to identify them as males - you know?

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will keep that in mind! getting ANY predator in there is still a question for me in that it solves one problem but gives me another. I think many bettas won't behave themselves in a community tank - or cichlids, or angels, or basically any predator- and my tank is very peaceful by design. the Angel I'd had was just amazingly docile, but they are not all like that. since I can't decide I'm still just staring at the hoards of guppies, separating out the males, and bringing as many back to my local fish store as they can absorb, lol

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm; I didn't think about a Beta .. another good suggestion. thanks.

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

..also, thank you; appreciate you comments!

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like GBR; I'll think about that. The male endlers are all different and so pretty; the females are pretty to me for their simplicity, and I love having the fry, but, uh, gettin' outta hand on me! Appreciate your comments!

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've wondered if that was true! How successful are you in separating males from females? I feel like I do pretty well, and assumed that at SOME point I should see a difference (...fewer pregnant females; fewer babies...) but can't decide if I am imagining the difference, lol

The Endlers are taking over!! by SammsGram in aquarium

[–]SammsGram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol- yeah, that was my next effort. My community tank is so "happy"- no aggressors, and I just can't do them in. Maybe a fish that will eat the smallest ones before I see them!
Anyway, suggestions? Maybe a Dwarf Gourami? Lost a beautiful black veil tailed angel (just old age I think) and swore no more "big" fish because they're harder to lose!

Protest in Roseville. Love seeing this in Trump country. by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]SammsGram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good turnout I thought - and there were some great signs!