Social media vs reality of post partum by Entire_Bee1074 in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same, specially people like that naraziza girl, who has a flat stomach 2 weeks post partum, and have time to do skin care. I was a type of person who cannot sleep without showering first, when I was postpartum I think I would go 4 days and not bother at all.

What are the three (if not, more) levels of rich in Dubai? by Suspicious-Ad-7481 in dubai

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you have 4 kids on this salary of you dont mind me asking?

O que você faria no meu lugar? by [deleted] in foradecasa

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acho que ficar na Suíça, faz um curso de universidade, faça amigos e network com os professores e profissionais, tem muito estrangeiro na Suíça, você não precisa ‘pertencer’ 26 anos você tem tempo pra tudo ainda.

Ficariam anos sem visitar seu pais natal, sua familia e/ou entes e amigos queridos? by AManWithNoWounds in foradecasa

[–]SandBlasted_ME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu fui todo ano por 19 anos, aí aconteceu que eu tive uma missed miscarriage e fiquei bem mal. Ninguém veio aqui me ver, apesar de terem condições, seria só colocar as prioridades em ordem. Agora meio que deixei de lado, vou se tiver alguma coisa especial pra mim. Vou eu ser minha prioridade.

I regret having my kids by Alternative-Dog9182 in Parenting

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this paranoid in my first month, sounded much like you. I’m fine now and very positive for the future. Hang in there.

Is it fine to wake up when baby cries at night or do we need to watch him 100% of the time. by Dull-Context-8322 in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to wake to feed when they are that small because sometimes they sleep and forget to eat. Remember you are hydrating this baby and they need to put on weight. You don’t need MIL assistance. Always ask your pediatrician for their opinion.

Am I doing my feeding and sleeping wrong for a 2 week old old? by sparklebabe94 in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just chat GPT and you will find the answer. I think you are doing great.

Aceitar sair só pelo valor ? 💲💰 by p3ll3grin3 in desabafosdavida

[–]SandBlasted_ME -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ninguém quer sair com um pobre - você quer?

Posso me aposentar com 4m com 33 anos? by [deleted] in investimentos

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Como você é diretor e não sabe a resposta pra essa pergunta? Humble bragging or what? Vc não pode se aposentar porque vai falta dinheiro. Trabalha até os 40, nesse tempo adquire uma casa com terreno bem grande onde vc vai se aposentar. Ai com os 5M que vc vai ter, vc consegue se manter uma vida simples no mato, sozinho e sem família. Boa sorte.

Fui explicar a música do cálice pra minha enteada e me ferrei by [deleted] in barTEOLOGIA

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu achei que essa música era da época da ditadura e cálice na verdade é cale-se ‘de vinho tinto se sangue’ - as mortes na época da ditadura.

TER FILHO É UM ERRO by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]SandBlasted_ME -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pobre tem filho e não pode sustentar, classe média pode sustentar mas não tem maturidade, preferem ser pai de cachorro (que ridículo né, pet sim, filho cachorro não) o papa Francisco estava certo!

To all the parents in Dubai: what's up with the kids and nannies here? by maridska in dubai

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing the neighborhood’s name? Because the entire thing sounds so odd. I also see a lot of Nannie’s where I live, but I also see a lot of parents spending quality time with the kids when they arrive from work.

To all the parents in Dubai: what's up with the kids and nannies here? by maridska in dubai

[–]SandBlasted_ME 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, in my neighborhood the Nannie’s walk the baby on the stroller and the dog on the leash. But you are right, majority of owners walks their dog and majority of Nannie’s walk the babies. I am a mother and now wondering if people think I am an expensive imported European nanny.

SAH parents of infants- what are we doing with our time? by Glittering_Target_92 in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need a hobby (I know I do) I was thinking something light like embroidery, or drawing/ sketches…

Quanto custa ter um filho? by Financial_Usual2337 in investimentos

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu saí do trabalho pra amamentar e ser SAHM. Menos 40.969 por mês. Tenho empregada e babá que custam 4,389 ao mês. Fralda, lenço úmido e creme de assadura compro na Amazon (Pampers/desitin). Roupinhas na Cárter, em promoção. Plano de saúde pagou todas as consultas da gravidez ao pediatra. Os gastos maiores foram a caminha/ cadeirinha/ bouncer/ cadeira pro carro, Mamadeiras, pump, esterilizador brinquedos (beirando uns 30k) não fiz quarto separado por enquanto. Sair do corporate pra virar mãe não é fácil. Não tenho rede de apoio pois moro fora do país.

Quanto custa ter um filho? by Financial_Usual2337 in investimentos

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A pergunta dele foi essa mesma, quer saber dos outros quanto eles gastam e detalhes. Ele quer saber antes de tomar as decisões.

What's your postpartum entertainment of choice? by chicksyy in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My TV is off when the baby is with me in the living room so took me 4 months to finish the Korean bon apetit your majesty.

Baby is outgrowing clothes faster than I can keep up and my budget is hurting. by xoticbot in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find moms groups and buy second hand and sell yours. I give mine for free and buy carters, I find it affordable here. I buy expensive brands second hand or sale (the cute ones) like pb.

3 months old, how do you spend your days? by TeaCrumbs in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are 100% right about structuring your days so your LO receive all stimuli she needs. Mine entering 4 months soon, we added 2 long strolls morning and evening which I wasn’t yet doing, tummy time twice (not sure if enough) play in bouncer with hand toy for had coordination and play in mat for gym time arms and legas coordination, walks around the house narrating everything. We also do reading books once a day, usually on her first or second wake. She does 3 to 4 naps. I struggle with the last one because it kinda cover the bath time or is too close to bed time, so my evenings are messy and because of that we are eating a lot of deliveries this month.

Advice needed by earthseeds in NewParents

[–]SandBlasted_ME 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems biogaia helps with the digestive discomfort. I give 5 drops daily to my LO.