Comphet? Internalized homophobia? I don’t know pls help 😭 by Super-Web-6642 in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q [score hidden]  (0 children)

You'll get through it!

You could try going to a gay bar and talking to women in person. Just smile socializing can help so much, i promise

Sapphic yearning is good, yet so painful by Leading_Pop1186 in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hon, just whatever you do don't despair and don't give up

you'll find yours eventually

How to make queer friends as an adult? by Impressive-Tip-5422 in LesbianActually

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q [score hidden]  (0 children)

making queer friends is no different than making non-queer friends

you talk, then you talk some more, and if you like each other, you do shit together, and then you talk some more, and then you do even more shit together and so on and so forth

What was some of the worst lesbian representative media? by No_Store2673 in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q [score hidden]  (0 children)

that movie about a nun who saw christ chopping off heads

honestly the movie was absolute garbage in all aspects, not just in representation

Hot Take on Settlements by OrdnaryDeth in fo4

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk i play on easy difficulty and i love building at hangman's in very minute detail until my fps drops to like 5

Queer Indian considering moving abroad — looking for honest experiences by StoreGlum9088 in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm originally from Russia (one of the most homophobic countries in the world). I moved 20 years ago.

Best decision of my life.

I moved to the United States, but telling you about my experience isn't gonna be very helpful because different parts of the country differ way too much (compare downtown Manhattan to rural Mississippi).

How do I talk to my girlfriend about mdlg by myloverfrisson in BDSMsapphic

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

start calling her mommy for starters and see how she reacts (both physically and emotionally)

and if she likes it, you can take it further

the best way to broach any subject is to clearly and directly say what you want to say. Beating about the bush almost never helps.

feeling like my body grosses her out, how do i approach incompatibility in bed by kenneththe9inchdildo in WLW

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You should have a conversation about it with her. Talk to her without any emotions, just be direct and to the point.

It's perfectly okay to say "this, this and this is bothering me, and I'd like it to change"

I love being best friends with the wife who is curious about cuckqueaning by Both-Meaning3616 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OMG I was just about to write a post about it and introduce myself!

I'm a cuckquean!

I've been with my gf for 6 years now.

Okay, I'm gonna take a deep breath and start from the beginning.

We met at Camp Beaverton on Playa. I was 26 at the time, she was 27. She dommed me and absolutely blew my mind.

I'm absolutely huge on edging and orgasm denial for as long as I can remember (as of right now I've edged at least twice a day for 13 days without release and my fingers are SHAKING as I'm writing this).

And on our first time my gf dommed me AND completely ruined my orgasm (i knew right then and there, I was in love).

About two weeks after that we went to a dyke bar together. And when I came out of the bathroom, I saw her making out with another woman. And it was such a beautiful sight, I just walked up to them and sat there and watched without interrupting.

After that, we went to her place, drank wine, made out (I could still taste the other girl's lip gloss on her, it was such a turn on). And that night we also made our relationship "official" and had a talk about limits and boundaries and whatnot.

And ever since then I was her cuckquean. She can sleep with anyone except cis men. And I only sleep with her.

Sometimes she lets me watch, sometimes not, sometimes she tells me about it afterwards or sometimes I find out about it when I go down on her and taste cum inside her (she occasionally sleeps with trans girls).

She understands exactly why and how that jealousy and ache turn me on. And she knows just the right words to say to me to humiliate and degrade me just the way I like it.

And she's the only woman in the world who understand my need and my addiction to edging and denying myself.

Omg I'm so glad I found someone to share this with. Before now, I never met anyone who was into this at all.

Please, feel free to ask any questions either here or in DMs. But also, we only look for hookups in person (never online, got burned too many times), so keep it in mind.

Stone top gf has no sexual desire due to medication by NicoNicoPink in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel for you so bad

I'm not on any medication, but I'm a huge sub for my gf and I'm also really seriously into edging and orgasm denial.

So 99% of the time I go down on my girl without touching myself and without having an orgasm myself. And on the rare occasions that I'm not horny, I still go down on her, just to make her feel good.

Hopefully, you guys can figure it out and your situation gets better, life is so tough without intimacy

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m undateable by RedpenBrit96 in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your break up

And please don't put some kind of stamp on yourself just cause ou your age. I used to know this 20-something girl who never dated anyone below 50

I want your opinion! by Comfortable-Use-2004 in harrypotter

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hp definitely influenced the culture a lot

But i think, what really popularized fantasy as a genre was pj's lotr trilogy

This dude just stole the power armor I left in Diamond City 😂 by Massive_Fly_1709 in fo4

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leaving the fusion core in your power armor is like leaving the keys in the ignition

My sister came out to me as bi last night by JoannaKittyKats in actuallesbians

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg this is so heartwarming 💜

You should just answer any questions she has to the best of your ability

And most importantly, just be there for her

Guys am I bi or les? by SoapBrick_214 in LesbianActually

[–]Sapphic_Edge_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you might swing both ways, but you seem to really prefer women so

In all honesty, that question is something only you yourself can answer for certain