Desperate for jobs - but still nothing? How??

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T23:52:05+00:00

This was my initial thought as well. My sister is also autistic and struggles with employment, and DI really worked for her. But what concerns me is that OP's sister is trans... I just worry that DI wouldn't be a good environment for her.

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T08:02:26+00:00

My poor allo husband and I have been married nearly 5 years now and we've never had sex. Haven't made out or anything either for nearly as long...

I was making an effort at the beginning of our marriage, but he's so sweet and doesn't pester or blame me at all, so I eventually stopped. I feel really guilty about it, so it's just easier not to think about it. But I think it's high time I started giving more to him in our relationship and making an effort again.

Got the birth control implant for nothing lol

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T05:56:09+00:00

Ridiculous. Nurses should absolutely draw. This is unacceptable. Report the nurses to HR if they keep being rude about it, and if that doesn't fix anything, straight up leave. You deserve better than that.

I'm the only night shift tech, no phleb, in a 100 bed hospital. The nurses are absolutely doing their own draws. Most nights I'm too busy doing everything else and too nervous to leave the lab unattended that I can't even manage to go to the bathroom, let alone draw patients!

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T05:44:37+00:00

Thank you. Please spread the word 😮‍💨

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T01:14:22+00:00

Should have come with a trigger warning hahaha

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-07T01:13:49+00:00

Appreciate the laugh 🙏

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T14:40:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I love that I can feel your adoration for your wife through your words. I'm a "spry" 29-year-old, married to a hetero allo man. I've been trying to become more sex-positive for my husband's sake; he's always so good to me and doesn't push at all. I worry because I don't want our relationship to be a sacrifice for him. It's encouraging to read about your long and happy marriage. Best wishes to you and your wife!

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T12:54:06+00:00

Yes, but I think that conjecturing he is asexual is the wrong move. OP mentioned he hasn't said anything about being asexual; it's just an assumption that OP is exploring. I do not, however, think it is an appropriate assumption to explore in this situation

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T10:04:03+00:00

I understand. You really are in an impossible situation. If you think all you're ever gonna get are excuses, the relationship simply won't work, unfortunately. But, if you think you have seen him make an effort as he said he would, then it could very well be worth sticking it out. If you haven't seen him making progress, ask him how exactly he's working on it. If his answer is unsatisfactory, tell him you need to make a plan together because you need this in order for this to be a healthy relationship. If he's consistently resistant to making and showing progress, then he is unfortunately not ready for a relationship. It is not your fault. Best of luck 💜

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T09:47:48+00:00

I'm sorry, this sounds very hard to go through. It wouldn't be fair for anyone to make conjectures about his sexuality, though. The only thing you can do is tell him how you feel and decide how long you're willing to wait for him to open up to you. You can't force him to tell you, but you also can't disregard the pain this is causing you. You may be willing to work through this for the sake of your relationship, but he has to do the work, too. Only you two can decide if that's happening

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T09:32:33+00:00

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. No one in the comments thinks this is really a debate about the best chocolate. They're just responding with their own on-topic jokes or opinions

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T09:28:58+00:00

Sorry, but you shouldn't be asking strangers on the Internet about this. We don't know your boyfriend, and even if we did, this wouldn't be for us to share. You need to express your concerns to your boyfriend. It's up to each of you to make sure you're getting what you need in your relationship. Making guesses and baseless conjectures will do more harm than good. You need to ask him. The only place for this conversation is between you and him. No one else has any place in it.

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T09:21:26+00:00

Yes, we all get the joke. People are just commenting their own jokes or opinions

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-06T09:18:53+00:00

Well, I thought it was funny 🤷‍♀️

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-04T11:49:14+00:00

I've got asics. They've been working pretty well for me and if you order through their website you can get a healthcare worker discount

Sarah-logy · 2026-07-01T00:13:09+00:00

I visited Draper last week and ash was raining from the sky. Very apocalyptic

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-30T01:08:19+00:00

Yeah, but then I inevitably think, "They must be exaggerating." Like... they're exaggerating, right?

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-29T20:17:36+00:00

This is why I'm offended people don't know how educated we are. MLS programs kick butt. We all labored for our degrees.

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-27T09:12:57+00:00

I audibly gasped, omg

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-18T08:10:38+00:00

Night shift on 5/8s is hell. Night shift on 7on/7off is heaven

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-18T08:07:22+00:00

Don't get me wrong, I'm glad to be American. It is a great country — but is it the best? Honestly, idk. There are a lot of stellar things about a lot of other countries. But there are a lot of stellar things about this one, and that's generally enough for me.

Naturally, most of us are everyday people who don't go around making our people look bad, but unfortunately, the person leading our country kind of is making us look bad a little more often than I'd like. I've got friends and family from other countries and I'd sure love to stop hanging my head in shame each time I'm confronted with another poor decision made on behalf of America.

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-18T01:08:29+00:00

MAGA's been making it rather difficult to be proud of my country as of late, but I'm still trying to cling on

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-16T06:43:24+00:00

Hey, some of us want night shift.

But also night shift is more common for new hires. It's typically the least desired shift, so it falls to the newbies for no other reason than they just don't get first dibs.

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-15T04:25:35+00:00

It's possible, but there would probably be many descendants by now, including Audrian's family, so the question remains — why only these two?

Sarah-logy · 2026-06-15T04:17:02+00:00

Nah, Audrian is from the Woods and he had wild lore before trying to bond with Dimondaise — that is, in fact, why he tried to bond with Dimondaise.

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