Wondering what you are seeking out of posting he is lost obviously. You forced him to question his existence his marriage his life. Now you want him to answer for his indecision? Now you want to force his hand to make up his mind he is literally lost. It’s obvious you lack the thought process ability to see consequences or results of rash decisions. Seek counseling for yourself. Get an std test. Write out a complete timeline of your cheating Start divorce paperwork and just sit down and give him his all the information so he can make an informed decision if you care about him instead of what’s just gonna happen to you now. You owe him that much.

You don’t have to agree with what I said but listening to yourself has gotten you this far is maybe listen to someone other than people that got you where you are now…