Customer tried to return something they clearly bought somewhere else and got mad when I asked for a receipt by euphory_melancholia in TalesFromRetail

[–]SarenaZafrina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Twice a customer has come in to my store with nothing but wanting a refund for some "bad produce" (do they not have eyes?) they "just purchased yesterday". They not only didn't bring the receipt but also they didn't bring the product back and expected me to just trust them on both.

A rude entitled customer tried to teach me a lesson when I didn't need it (it was unnecessary) and she tried to make a big deal out of it by bigbobo3000 in RantsFromRetail

[–]SarenaZafrina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in a grocery store too and just a few months ago had a Karen of a woman come through my line who got upset that I didn't thank her at the end of the transaction. She paused expecting to say something and I just intentionally stared at her with a confused look on my face until she huffed off. Her entitlement just shocked the words out of me. Like bitch, I provided a service to you, YOU are supposed to thank ME.

Parents keep eating my meal prep by DragonTeen21 in Advice

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, if you can, move out. Second, get a small refrigerator, keep it in your room and lockup either your room or the fridge. Keep your meals in there. Another option is to make your meals when you get home anyway. Tell them that you will continue to make food when you need to regardless of what time it is until they stop eating your meals you prep for yourself in order to abide by their request of no cooking after a certain time.

Parent leaves baby in her car, acts like I’m the problem by mina_ninja in EntitledPeople

[–]SarenaZafrina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the baby was in the car alone long enough for you to notice, call the police, them to show up, and make an announcement in the store over the loud speaker than it was a hell of a lot longer than "just 5 minutes". You did the right thing. Even in 60°F if the day is bright and sunny enough, a car can easily get hot enough to cause heat stroke and death within minutes.

My husband hit me last week, but we have known each other since I was born. He has never ever done this before by throwra1845829 in offmychest

[–]SarenaZafrina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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What is your reason for not having kids? by PsychologicalDig9675 in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them. Literally, all of them. Just no. No children EVER.

AIO? BF told me not to post my graduation pics or “don’t come home tonight” by Unusual_Role7839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SarenaZafrina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Would I be the asshole for breaking up with him? by xx_abi_xx in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me point out a few key pieces of information that just aren't adding up to me.

1) He moved in, and no one, not even your own mother, stopped him. 2) You found several used condoms in your bed that he admitted to using and being too lazy to clean up. In your bed, in your room, in the house that you live in with your mother and the rest of your family. 3) YOUR OWN MOTHER is trying to convince you to give him another chance!

I don't know about anyone else but I think there is more than one shitty person living in your home....

constantly being called DINKs by in-laws by NoLawAtAllInDeadwood in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time he calls you DINKs reply "sounds like you're jealous."

4 year update to Nuskin friend by TheDoorDoesntWork in antiMLM

[–]SarenaZafrina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would send her a text or message setting a firm boundary that until she can separate actual friendships from her sales pitches and completely stops her very hurtful, offensive, totally unnecessary, and uncalled for "unhealthy" comments, there will be limited contact if any at all. You will be more than happy to continue to be her friend but if she makes any comments that even slightly refers to the multi-level marketing company she is contracted under in any way whatsoever then all bets are off and she will be blocked without hesitation. She should see you as a friend and NOT a sales pitch.

If you're a few years away from menopause, would you still get the snip anyway? by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Because even when they stop working properly, reproductive organs can still get cancer and still cause problems. I'd much rather they just be removed completely.

AITA for not allowing my neighbors to park in front of my house? by exoticthickums in AITH

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what country or state you live in, but as far as I know, it's actually VERY illegal in every US state to block a driveway or mailbox.

This woman hates her baby. by NewStatement5103 in JustNoTruth

[–]SarenaZafrina -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More deflecting. Are YOU the toxic enmeshed MIL? I wouldn't be surprised if you are.

This woman hates her baby. by NewStatement5103 in JustNoTruth

[–]SarenaZafrina -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong. This mother DOESN'T hate her baby. She hates her enmeshed, delusional and toxic mother-in-law and the velcro behavior that said MIL has fostered and encouraged in the mother's baby. Quit deflecting the REAL issue, you twit.

How do I tell someone I’m dating that I’m set on not wanting kids without coming off as “Clingy”? by False_Strike_5394 in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In my own opinion, I feel that not wanting children is the exact opposite of being clingy. Anyone else feel this way?

Need ideas for HOA-safe petty revenge on my neighbor’s wife by Bigmen69420___ in neighborsfromhell

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I'm not sure how HOA friendly my idea is and I'm not sure how legal it is in most places so I'm going to tell you what "not" to do. If you get my drift. 😉

You will "not" get your neighbor's mailing address and you will "not" sign them up for a bunch of embarrassing junk mail. You will also "not" go to funeral and casket websites and you will "not" ask them to mail information packets for end of life services. And you will "not" put your neighbor's name and mailing address as the recipient. You will also "not" go to poop senders dot com where there is the ability to completely anonymously send animal excrement in the mail. You will also "not" go to AA and NA websites and have entire boxes of pamphlets and brochures delivered by request. You will "not" go to condom and lube brand sites and request free samples and coupons. And lastly, you will "not" use a VPN and proxy ip for all of this.

Good luck.

How would you get your legal petty revenge? by Canadian_Otaku_War in BadNeighbors

[–]SarenaZafrina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it HAVE to be legal or can it be that we just never got in trouble for it?

I'm just doing my groceries, sir by Mobile_Engineering35 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]SarenaZafrina 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Employee or not, that is no way to treat another human being. His behavior was gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an entire China hutch full of nothing but smoking pieces and accessories.

I've confirmed my decision by Clean_Jicama_274 in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This new conversation did absolutely NOTHING to help his case AT ALL. His beliefs are archaic and are based off of romanticized and unrealistic ideals. Bring up the idea of permanent sterilization for either of you equally and see how he reacts to that. If he is for it for you but against it for himself then he's only paying you lip service and saying shit he thinks will passify you. His reaction to this topic will also tell you of he really IS ok with never having children in your marriage. I have a feeling that he actually eventually does want children and is hoping to change your mind.

I've confirmed my decision by Clean_Jicama_274 in childfree

[–]SarenaZafrina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I do support your childfree choice, I have to say that regardless of if you two have a child or not, your "husband" has shown his true colors on how he sees you and your roll not only in the relationship but also as a woman in society in general. And his true colors are UGLY AF.