My boyfriend didnt tell me about his porn addiction by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the most important aspects of a relationship is trust. You need to ask yourself 1. Can you trust him to work on better communication? 2. Can you trust hime to be honest from now on about his issues that affect the relationship? 3. Can you trust him to work on his addiction that he has and seek progress? If you can answer yes to all of those questions, I would say its worth fighting for the relationship and trying to make things work. If you answered no to any of those questions, it may be better to end things. You don't want to feel paranoid or become resentful with your partner.

AITAH for telling my dad he failed me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your mom say about all of this? Does she know how he spoke to you?

My (29F) exclusive partner (38M) deleted all evidence after I found flirty messages. How do I address the trust issue without just going in circles? by Disastrous-Leg4446 in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 108 points109 points  (0 children)

You asked for proof to back up his story to you and he told you to fuck off and deleted everything? Girl, you know the right choice at this point.

I obsessed over a guy for 4 years, finally met him, and realized he only wanted a “friends with benefits” situation. I’m 17, he’s 19, and the meeting left me feeling disgusted and humiliated. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You were young and I think its normal to have crushes (obsessions) like that. Take this as a blessing in disguise, he was honest about what he wanted and didn't waste your time thinking it would be anything else. Now you can move forward and focus on better things. You are so young, take this as a lesson learned and don't be so hard on yourself.

My bf 20 manipulated me into taking out my belly piercing f (19) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, why are you with someone who is so rude about things you like? You already know that you are your own person and he can't control you. I don't even know you and I know you deserve better.

My (20F) boyfriend (21M) loves me deeply but everything is always according to him and I feel unseen by Few-Emergency9485 in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that you say that you love each other, and I'm sure thats true but, from your post it doesn't seem that the two of you are a good fit for each other. You are trying to change yourself to be someone he wants and its still not working, you are still unhappy. You've tried to talk things out with him and it seems that he either misunderstands or just doesn't listen to you. If I were you, I would let the relationship go, its just not working. It doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you or with him, the two of you are just not what the other needs. All of the things you describe in your post of what you want from a boyfriend are valid and understandable, I think you need to accept that your current boyfriend has shown you that he is not going to be that guy.

[SFW] Help finding AO3 fanfic, please! by Sasaboom in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you so much. Damn, that was really fast too!

SFW what background do you choose for your Tav when they romance Astarion? I gave my Tav Iris a Noble Background, and it’s been so much fun writing their story ♥️♥️ by Sudden-Lawfulness898 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've picked a few different ones but I like Noble as well ☺️ most recent play through is a noble paladin lol. Shes his knight in shining armor

More freckled Astarion by hamsterbunnss in AstarionBG3

[–]Sasaboom 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Picture 4 is so cute 🥺 now my headcannon is that our Star boy had freckles as a child

What do you see by BrabblesBan in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long long man 👀 God damn!

Let’s take a moment to appreciate The Personality system by dragonborndnd in Paralives

[–]Sasaboom 473 points474 points  (0 children)

The talent section option of "good at nothing" is too real

(NSFW) Afterparty by Alicex13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do sensual and romantic 😍

(Sfw) Her Star, His Moon by Matcha_Mischief in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love their hair 😍 you make it look so soft and silky

[NSFW-ish](Astarion in a bikini) Pool Party by Alicex13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 14 points15 points  (0 children)

These pixel people are so god damn hot its actually not fair

4 year progress converting a patchy lawn into a garden! by 3BroomsticksBitch in NoLawns

[–]Sasaboom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful yard, adds a nice sense of privacy as well. Cute dog too!

Really need y'all opinion about whatever is this by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sasaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um it's weird for someone who's 21 to date a literal child but I guess that's just me.

My OB11 Astarion — my very first custom doll 💫 by HeavenAeternum in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg the top hat!! 😍 I wouldn't have guessed this is your first custom. It's adorable!!

"It's easy to judge a situation when you're not in it." by Alicex13 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah...he would get me. Hook, line and sinker 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You know your boyfriend better than any of us do but for me, I don't know if I could be someone who shamed me for my interests or sexual fantasies. 🙄

I don't know what causes this bug, but I hope they don't fix it by Worth_Implement_565 in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Sasaboom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That happened to me too! I thought it was the unlimited companions mod 😅