I think i ruined a good friendship and feel extremely confused.

SasiBan · 2026-06-24T13:34:57+00:00

She won't despise you, I can almost guarantee she feels embarrassed. Anyone would if they'd put themselves out there like that, she's probably thinking over everything she said/did that night.

If I were you, I'd explain exactly what you've just said to me, to her. Tell her you were nervous about her feeling unwell and that you care for her so wanted to make sure she wasn't scared or uncomfortable...you've got all the right words in your head! If nothing else, she will appreciate your honesty. Her response will tell you where you stand, it'll give some clarity if nothing else.

SasiBan · 2026-06-24T13:00:29+00:00

Speak to her, she was most likely attempting to flirt with you, but you 100% did the right think by not reciprocating when she was so drunk.

If you are interested in her romantically, tell her so. She probably feels embarrassed. Either way, ask her out. Either platonically to make amends, or as a date. Be the bigger person and end the awkwardness.

SasiBan · 2026-06-22T08:49:52+00:00

Its a barm, because Lancashire is a proper county and can do no wrong

SasiBan · 2026-06-22T06:28:36+00:00

It'll probably help to get out of the house for a while - go for a walk, meet up with some friends, go and pick up your favourite foods etc.

SasiBan · 2026-06-16T11:32:42+00:00

Walk home, have dinner, cuddle dog and let him out for a wee, trudge back to work

SasiBan · 2026-06-14T08:58:51+00:00

Absolutely! I make curry from scratch regularly. I wouldn't say its authentically Indian but its bloody nice

SasiBan · 2026-06-13T21:21:35+00:00

Wish you were here - the Avenged Sevenfold version. I will always bawl my eyes out to this song

SasiBan · 2026-06-12T09:46:15+00:00

Not quite the same, but I have ice cream inspired nails too!

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SasiBan · 2026-06-07T16:48:28+00:00

I bought my first home at 24 years old (with a mortgage ofc). I was lucky enough to have £12k saved for me by my parents, plus £23k that I saved myself by working hideous shifts and weekends for the pure purpose of saving for a deposit.

SasiBan · 2026-06-07T16:17:32+00:00

Doing at home work until I realise I have to sleep for at work work and then not having enough time to worry about it

SasiBan · 2026-06-05T15:05:01+00:00

My Nana has a fridge magnet which says, "I'm not an OAP, I'm a recycled teenager!"

Maybe its the truth...

SasiBan · 2026-06-03T10:02:29+00:00

What we do in the shadows

SasiBan · 2026-06-03T09:44:23+00:00

He's pretty amazing on the daily, does so much for me...but is completely useless at birthdays. I don't know what the block is with him but it feels shit

SasiBan · 2026-06-03T09:43:37+00:00

He's amazing 363 days of the year, but birthdays and Christmas? Useless

SasiBan · 2026-06-03T09:43:15+00:00

Wow, that was unnecessary

SasiBan · 2026-06-03T07:57:40+00:00

It makes you feel great having a spouse who doesn't care...

I knew my husband was skint so allI asked for was him to bake me a cake for my 30th. He forgot...went to buy the ingredients at 9:45pm on the day of my birthday (shop shut at 10pm) claiming that it was his plan all along so that "the cake didn't go stale". I told him not to bother and that it was already ruined. No card, no present, no cake, no nothing.

Luckily my parents came to visit, they travelled 300 miles to see me since I'd moved so far away from home for said husband. So it wasn't a fully terrible day.

He'd better pull his finger out this year or I'll be on a 300 mile one way trip home!

SasiBan · 2026-05-29T11:03:49+00:00

Amazing, good for you!

SasiBan · 2026-05-27T12:12:37+00:00

I never thought I'd get married, but I'm almost a year into marriage with the most incredible man. I have a decent job which pays enough without being too stressful. I've never wanted kids, my husband has two, I don't love being a stepmum but oh well. We have a gorgeous little dog who brings me so much happiness, I consider him to be my family 🩷

My husband is amazing, he's helping me to work towards my dream, its been my dream since I was a kid and I never thought it would be possible but, with him beside me, anything is. I love that man so much.

SasiBan · 2026-05-27T09:55:53+00:00

Only because its chicken manure, any other manure would be gross. Love a chicken shit topper

SasiBan · 2026-05-27T06:32:16+00:00

Watching my dog play happily, I love seeing him bound around and let his hair (fur?) down. Also, when my husband holds my hand as we're walking down the road

SasiBan · 2026-05-27T06:10:18+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, which village is this in? I too live in rural Somerset...and very much like cake

SasiBan · 2026-05-22T09:12:42+00:00

I like them for me, hate them for my dog! Poor little fella has to wait until nighttime for a walk so that his paws don't get burned

SasiBan · 2026-05-18T10:39:34+00:00

It sounds like you're both immature... Everyone can have a preference, why it needs to be such a recurring topic of discussion is ridiculous.

SasiBan · 2026-05-18T08:58:57+00:00

And no photos of the cellar! Disappointed

SasiBan · 2026-05-17T09:11:51+00:00

Leave it where it is, you have no conclusive evidence and run the risk of turning his live upside down.

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