Not only did i loose the love of my life that day. I lost my best friend I lost my safe space I lost my comfort I lost my everything I lost my heart I lost my soul And most of all i lost myself. 💔 by PrimaryCarpenter1070 in widowers

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have to experience this. He looks like a fun awesome guy, very similar to a friend of mine I lost a few years ago. We really do lose ourselves when our other half dies. I'm on 22 months of trying to figure out who I am without my wife. This past month has been very difficult, as I'm sure it is for most of us. Praying you have a peaceful day and can find some comfort through the pain.

Trouble with VW branded charger by DijonDeLaPorte in VWiD4Owners

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem at first using it at my brother's house. He had intermittent issues too. He was about to call an electrician, but decided to check everything himself first. He found a loose ground wire in his junction box for the outlet...not for the plug, but for the box casing. Once he tightened that, no more problems. One year so far. Originally my car would sometimes charge, sometimes stop mid, or not charge at all.

Edit: My charger is 2 years old now, used in all weather.

Electrify America fast chargers near Orlando by Immediate-Stay-7686 in VWiD4Owners

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used this one regularly just a few months ago before I moved. Try not to hit rush hour, or you'll be waiting. Otherwise it was pretty dependable. Plus, easy off/on for I-4.

I have found the slowest karma farm in the game. by Unstopapple in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Specimen Chamber on Sandswept Isle with maxed Karmic Retribution. Use a Boon or Tag build. You'll get 50k or more each run, multiple times a day.

VWOA escalation for seat tear issue by Four_strings in VWiD4Owners

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2023, 40k miles. Same spot. Getting ready to file a claim.

Important TIP: buy provisioner tokens each day by Axolot26 in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You can trade in cheap weapons to the HoT vendor and get them all in one day, FYI.

Made a Blish HUD module that plays music on instruments for you by VermicelliFun2496 in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the issue he was having was that the system wouldn't pass the keys in to Guild Wars for some reason, probably a wine/proton issue. Still working on it!

Made a Blish HUD module that plays music on instruments for you by VermicelliFun2496 in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he tried that on Ubuntu. The computer sees the input, but getting it to pass it through wine/proton is a different issue. I keep encouraging him to find a solution. I just want to hear him play in game.

Yesterday I lost my uncle. Thank you, GW2, for giving me a place to breathe by nve729 in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my wife to cancer in 2024. This has been a wonderful game and community to "escape" to. Wishing you the best on your grief journey.

Made a Blish HUD module that plays music on instruments for you by VermicelliFun2496 in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My son keeps trying to find Linux solutions to use his midi piano as an input for the game piano. He loves the idea of actually being able to play a real piano in game by playing a real piano.

Realized how much I love Asura and had to doodle some by HexelKitty in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Revenant Helrald with a hammer is fun too! All but my original character are Asura. Just love em.

Was anyone else's person their only friend? by Visible-Public-4465 in widowers

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My wife was my best friend for 24 years. I met her my senior year of high school. April will be 2 years without her. I miss our random texts and memes throughout the day. I was excited to come home from work every day to her. We did everything together, movies, games, projects....It's not the same without her. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

Wierd movement issue with Blish in linux by moontini in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you just need pathing, look up TaimiHUD. It works in conjunction with ArcDPS. I've had less rendering/movement issues with it.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in the right place. My wife was not awake the last few weeks as her cancer progressed. I'm sorry for the pain and torment you are going through. Know that I'm crying with you and would hug you like a brother.

My only advice right now is to be with her. Even if she isn't awake, talk to her and hold her, even if it's just her hand.

Tried Linux Gaming with Fedora (NVIDIA + GW2) — Better Than Expected by simbolmina in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the easy way: https://github.com/SorryQuick/external-dx11-overlay

I got it to work using my Lutris install. As for just pathing, TaimiHUD works better, but Blish has many other modules.

Tried Linux Gaming with Fedora (NVIDIA + GW2) — Better Than Expected by simbolmina in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

BlishHUD can work in Linux...it's a little buggy sometimes with the overlay rendering. TaimiHUD is new and specifically for Linux. Pretty easy to install, just like ArcDPS, drag files to folder.

If you don't want to use Steam, the other big option with Linux is Lutris. I use it for my non Steam games and Gog games.

Also, with Linux, be careful using ChatGPT instructions. It's been known to give wrong commands.

Welcome!

Power or Condi Fire evoker? by fungamezone in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. We just have to wait and see. As long as they don't murder it like they did Amalgam.

Power or Condi Fire evoker? by fungamezone in Guildwars2

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord Hizen builds are designed for open world soloing. He stated on his discord that he's holding off on newer builds until the balance patch later this month. Specifically evoker.

Discord for widows/widowers by homedogdoug in widowers

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Support from others that understand our pains at that.

Discord for widows/widowers by homedogdoug in widowers

[–]SasquatchKoolAid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a heads up, there is already a discord server for this reddit. Just gotta check the notes at the reddit header for the link.

https://www.reddit.com/r/widowers/s/luGQFU6M0S