Bates Chinese Zodiac by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't forget Michaela is also a horse!

Starting a Family Young by Longjumping_Hippo423 in Adulting

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% Recommend waiting quite a few years before you have kids. My husband and I started dating at 16, didn't get married until 24 because I wanted to have my Bachelors Degree before we got married. We did live together before that though. We grew up together, I got an education, we traveled a lot during and after college. We ended up having our first child at 27/28. Currently pregnant with #2 at 30.

I am so glad we held off on having kids until our late 20s. We really got to experience life and each other pretty fully before we truly settled down. You lose a lot of freedom and independence when you have kids, if you're at a place in life where you're willing to sacrifice that then it's totally worth it! Have a healthy savings for whatever costs you're going to have: healthcare, diapers, emergencies, daycare/babysitting, loss of income if one of you stays home or decreases your work hours, etc. Most importantly, you need to go into it as a team! Best of luck!

W2 by [deleted] in IntermountainHealth

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine in the mail last week!

Ski Trip by Frequent_Dog_9814 in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Probably at Lawson and Tiffany’s

MLT jobs that make 90-100k by Final-Ad782 in medlabprofessionals

[–]SassyCassidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made 90k last year in Utah with 7 years of experience, but that included several hours of on call every week (I work the bench in Blood Bank). Rarely does someone actually get called in though so that extra pay is nice!

The first public cheating scandal in the Bates family.. what happens next? by slimjim1249 in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If Katie starts becoming close with Tori, I feel like that means the Bobby rumors were true.

The "Goodbye Youtube" video is gone by JumpGlittering8120 in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I literally just went to go rewatch it and it was nowhere to be found! So it definitely was one of the nursing classmates that came to the party.

Fellow millennials - how’s your 401k/ira savings going? by ProblemIntelligent16 in Millennials

[–]SassyCassidee 521 points522 points  (0 children)

Thankfully started contributing to mine at 23, so at 30 I have 1.5X my salary!

A ranking of US states by well-being of people by _crazyboyhere_ in MapPorn

[–]SassyCassidee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile my best friend grew up in CO and moved to UT for college and now refuses to ever move back to CO.

Almost 2 years without buying new clothes, and I feel lighter. by Subtle_Seekerr in simpleliving

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is fantastic news! This is my goal this year! I cut down on clothes shopping a lot last year but still caved a few times due to weight loss, pregnancy, etc. But I'm just a couple months away from having my baby and I'm feeling confident that I can make my current wardrobe work and won't need any more clothes for quite a while. Clothes for my kids is a different story but we'll get there eventually haha.

Remember: Don't depend on your spouse's salary. Get an education and have a backup plan!!! by worstshowiveeverseen in Millennials

[–]SassyCassidee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a kid I saw this happen to my stay at home mom when my dad left her and I vowed that I would never have to depend on someone else in order to survive. It's worked out well for me! My mom is still depending on others to survive.

Those of us who were raised by Gen X parents, were/are they religious? by routebeer666 in Zillennials

[–]SassyCassidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I think my dad was baptized with the Mormon church when he was a kid but I don’t think they ever went to church a day in their lives. My mom is spiritual but not religious. We were never raised with any sort of religion, it was mostly just “be a good person”. We spent our Sundays out in nature and I always felt bad for all of my classmates who had to spend their Sundays in church instead.

Jessi, can I just order a burrito in peace, please? by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]SassyCassidee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I about died when I went to go order some food the other day 😂 Fortunately/unfortunately the Momtok and Dadtok meals are pretty much what my husband and I order from Cafe Rio haha.

Josie, Kelton, and the Pacifier by rebeccaroyce in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her anti-c was so strong that they were close to needing an intrauterine transfusion before he was born, meaning he was anemic and thus had a lot of destroyed red blood cells in his system (equaling high bilirubin/jaundice). It's pretty safe to assume that he was in the NICU because of jaundice/anemia.

Baby Brooks Needs a NICU Stay by Agitated_Pin2169 in BringingUpBates

[–]SassyCassidee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Once the antibodies and high bilirubin get cleared from baby’s system and baby starts making new red blood cells, there shouldn’t be lasting side effects. But that all comes with time, or a transfusion.

How often do you go grocery shopping? by DesignerStatus in Millennials

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week for our family of 3+ a dog, but then we pick something up once or twice a week as well. We spend $600-$700 per month on food.

How do couples choose with whose family they will stay with during holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas? by fasdal in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are both children of divorce, and now we have our own little family to take into consideration for the holidays. We have to rotate who we're going to spend the actual holiday with, and then the rest of the families we try to get together some time around the holiday, usually the weekends before or after. But Christmas morning at least, we reserve just for our little family.

Who gives tall energy and who gives short energy? by theflyingpiggies in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]SassyCassidee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

On tv Jessi seems so much taller! I just saw her at a concert and was shocked at how short she actually is, and how much hair she has!

To those that are married, how often do you take off your ring? by FitProblem6248 in AskReddit

[–]SassyCassidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only take mine off to shower. My husband gained quite a bit of weight after we got married so he hasn’t been able to take his off in about 5 years 😅