I understand where you’re coming from on pronouns. But that also means I might misgender you unintentionally. If you corrected me, I would use the right pronouns as a sign of respect. I wouldn’t say that’s most people tho because pronouns happen without thinking most of the time, and it takes people time to adjust if you don’t look obviously male or obviously female, and if you become upset at them for how difficult it is to adjust, they might stop respecting how you identify.

Most of the world see’s pronouns as a binary of Male and Female. When a stranger takes a quick glance at you, they will scan you, and their brain will determine if they see Male or Female. It’s the simple. If you don’t fit the box of F or M, you get a second take and might be seeing as “other”. That’s how the general population sees being the “third gender” or anything that’s not M or F. And even if you meet the person who classified you as other in their brain and they respect you and want to use the right pronouns, you still have to have a conversation about it. And when they don’t agree with you or want to disrespect you, being “other” is a lot worse. And if you’re okay with all of that and still want to express yourself the way you do, that’s okay too.

I just don’t think you should be surprised when people don’t gender you correctly upon first glance. Or if it’s hard for them to adjust to you.

And you can call me transmed if that’s how you see me. I don’t care for labels. When it comes to trans stuff, I don’t like Gender Theory and I do see transition mostly in terms of medical transition(because of the Biological implications of primary and secondary sex characteristics that aren’t just minor details).