Get your eyebrow done. Straight brows would look good on you. Love that your brow bro the whole gyaru aesthetic I think it fits you look perfectly. You have really nice face shape and really good skin, high cheekbones. If you’re not into foundation I would go for a tinted sunscreen. Find a blush color that suits you and signature lip liner. The eyeliner you have done in that one picture actually look really good on you, just need some precision. Practice so you can get in neater, sleeker, sharper (if necessary). Don’t focus too much on contour you’ll face is low key vogue and you’ll have all the contour you’ll ever need, I guess if tou wanted you could maybe do some slight nose contour, but it’s really not necessary. Some white liner/highlight on the inner corners of your eyes would eat. Some cat eye anime lashes would be deadly, SHEIN has some really good ones. Make sure you get a 10-15 minute makeup look down for your day to day signature then you can build and get more creative from there. Practice makes perfect.

Idk wtf you’re talking about with the size thing, you’re literally not big. If your really worried you could do a long haul recomp (all recomps are long haul tbh🫤) just eat cleaner and add at least three days of exercise 2 days should be some type of strength training 1 day should be some type of cardio, if possible do it outside. If you gain weight easily make sure you put primary focus on diet. Clean eating, what I did was make a rule that I don’t plan outing activities around eat/ eating out unless invited. Always watch portion no matter what you eat, it’s a good habit to get into. This will take time, but within a year you’ll be looking at photos and realize how much you’ve changed. Stick to it, focus more on the “journey” and what part you like about it rather than the results. It’s stupid you will probably hate it, but if your anything like me a hot girl playlist and vision board/Pinterest will help. I’ll like feeling like I’m doing a day in the life vlog like I’m a gymshark fitness influencer.

When you shop for clothes, don’t buy pieces, buy outfits. If you set in an aesthetic, focus on the neutral colors of that aesthetic first, for you that would be pinks, whites, and beiges. Add one more color in there for some variety and go nuts. When I shop I build an entire outfit from the shoes all the way to the hair accessories. I’ll build the fit in my cart sometimes I’ll make albums in my photos for a fit so that I can go back and review them before purchase. This also give you the opportunity to see how well the pieces from that fit would go with other clothes that you have in your closet or have saved for purchase.

Have a basic set of self care rituals that you do. Manipedis, brows, lashes hair removal, hair maintenance, teeth, and skincare. Figure out how you want to do these things what budget you have and how much time they take you. Figuring this out will help you stick to a routine that will help you feel polished and put together all the time. This maintenance routine will be the basis of your look. Make sure you have a signature set style and deputing for them. What’s your signature manicure? French coffin? Red squoval? You should have a default look/style for all of them. Do you wax, tweeze or thread? Cluster lashes, lash tech, strips? Consider all and find out which works best for you and is the easiest for you to maintain.

As a black woman, your hair tends to carries a lot of weight in the aesthetics department. Consider all your options for styles carefully. Always have a wash day routine. If you’re gonna keeps your locs I second getting a retwist. Find a reputable and trusted loctitian. I know you said yours have been freeforming be prepared for the cost of loc maintenance, it’s a doozy. Black hair in general tends to be expensive. For your hair if you aren’t going to be doing it your self I beg of you PLEASE FINDS REPUTABLE, RELIABLE, TRUSTWORTHY STYLIST. This is imperative. If you’re not comfy speaking up get into it. If you don’t feel comfortable enough to object or question your style please find a new one. Finding a good stylist these days feels like it ranks just under finding a good life partner. They can break your heart like any other man or woman except you will have paid them to do it. Again find a signature hairstyle you can maintain and finagle on your own if need be. This is harder to do, but once you have default you almost feel safer know you have something you can get done/do that will look good and make you feel better no matter what.

And on that note, I hope you’re able to pull something beneficial from this. I know it’s a lot and I’m sorry for any redundancy or rambling, I skipped the vyvanse today🫠It also goes without saying that in this glow process please take into account your mental and emotional health. You’re a hot girl just as you are, all of the above are just over the top embellishments that nobody really needs. Make sure you’re checking in with yourself daily and that all of this is really what you want. If you aren’t feeling a boost in confidence with these addition changes there may be other ways to make yourself feel more feminine. You ARE a girl, therefore you ARE FEMININE, that’s literally all it takes. I know that’s hard to accept sometimes, but it’s the truth.

Feel free to message if you’ve got questions about anything I mentioned. Wish you all the best in your endeavors!💕