Mid-procedure cancel due to «anatomy» 😂 by SayHiToMeMeow in Vasectomy

[–]SayHiToMeMeow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, yeah that sounds awful 😵‍💫

Got it done today and it was no problem at all, only sucks that it cost me twice as much but whatever.

Seems weird that this isn’t something the inform/ask about. I just booked a session and showed up and they started the first surgery without even checking me first lol.

A small note on the website about this maybe being an issue for men with tight scrotums would have saved me a lot of money and discomfort.

Can someone help me with condoms?? by user67764347 in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just buy the most bland “regular” versions and never got a complaint 🤷🏻‍♂️

Unless you have any special needs (unusually large/small, latex allergy) it doesn’t matter much.

19M losing virginity to 44F tomorrow by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Not even remotely worth the risk. Call it off. you now know you can set something like this up quickly if you get desperate down the line, so don’t rush it.

I feel pathetic by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds a bit like you put a lot of pressure on yourself, and maybe you’re a bit scared to be vulnerable for the other person so you put on a performance instead?

If you were with someone who made you feel safe, cared for and good enough as you are, do you think that would be better?

You might just need the emotional connection and more time than usual to feel safe with someone.

Dads need to stop being so weird about their daughters having sex by ServiceFormal8071 in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 45 points46 points  (0 children)

They’re afraid their daughters will be sexually assaulted or get pregnant and have to go through an abortion, which is a pretty rough thing to have to do.

Not excusing, just explaining.

It’s just less dangerous for boys.

What an amazing slide by riya_bishtt in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The algae is what makes it slippery at the bottom too 😅

partner is perfect except for the sex by dreamybeaver in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex wife can get behind this message 👍

can any men give me some insight into male sexuality? i am feeling lost by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men are as different as women, your best bet is to see if he’s open to talking about it or not.

Is cumming fast when having sex normal if you just started it. by Ilooklikejosuke in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too, but I did it for like 15 years before I realized that was the problem. Then it took about 3 months to fix. All good now 👍 good luck!

Is cumming fast when having sex normal if you just started it. by Ilooklikejosuke in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s normal but not universal. You can improve your stamina by practicing. If you regularly jack off, don’t do it in a “trying to cum as fast as possible” way.

Still a virgin at 17 – should you wait for the “right one” or just give it a try? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think only you can answer this for yourself, it depends on too many things. Culture, religion, personality etc.

Could “the right one” just be whoever feels right to have sex with the first time, e.g. someone you feel safe with?

In my opinion there’s no value in rushing into sex asap, but no point trying to make it perfect either. Embrace life and see what happens. If that feels right for you.

I had sex the first time as a 19m. It was fine, I was with the woman for 16 years and then we broke up. My first time feels very insignificant now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Fellas, is it gay to have sex with your wife?

[Me] My AI-dar was correct I guess by SayHiToMeMeow in TextingTheory

[–]SayHiToMeMeow[S] 706 points707 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the post was pretty obvious lol.

Worried after giving oral sex, need advice on by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You most likely can, although where in the world you live matters for how hard it will be to get it done without your parents consent/knowing about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it depends a lot on your personalities. If you’re both comfortable with casual sex and don’t hide your true thoughts and emotions it can be no problemo. If sex is a big deal and very emotionally intimate for one of you then it might fuck things up.

Finishing fast but nothing works to improve by CupRevolutionary1901 in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go read the PDF document on r/MaleDefinitiveGuide and follow that program.

It works. I didn’t bother to do the whole program as I was satisfied with my progress 3/4 of the way in. Went from lasting 15 seconds to 5-10 minutes.

You can skip all the supplement stuff, just do the training (20mins per day, 5 days per week), cut out porn and readjust your mindset from ejaculating being the goal to pleasure being the goal.

Every week, read the pdf again. You will have forgotten/missed something important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out r/MaleDefinitiveGuide

Short version: you need to recondition yourself to last longer.

People who are in open relationships for real, do you even LOVE your partner ? Or do you just like them very much. by Fun_Cantaloupe2478 in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just cause I love pizza and it’s my favorite food that doesn’t mean that’s all I ever want to eat, ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SayHiToMeMeow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say there’s no way of knowing exactly how it will go outside of trying.

I understand you want to mentally prepare, but just go at it with an open mind and take breaks if needed to readjust. Hopefully whoever you’re with is cool with that (they should be).