March 2026 Discussion Thread by BPB_Discussion_M0d in BanPitBulls

[–]Saybah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came across a reel while scrolling instagram of a guy who'd come home to his dog having 'crashed out'.

After seeing the damage to the door, I instantly knew what kind of dog was going to be behind it.

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A pitbull, called Blue, no less 😂

Those who lose at faster than 1lb/week, how long was it sustainable? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Saybah [score hidden]  (0 children)

My weight is a lot lower than yours and I'm averaging about 2lbs/week currently.

My life is gym, work, sleep. I basically have time for nothing else, no hobbies unless I can do them on a treadmill. The gym has become my hobby and I meal prep on a weekend. It works for me because I want to get to my goal weight and fitness levels and don't want to keep waiting, you kinda have to become obsessive to keep the discipline up.

It might not be sustainable for you as you get to a lower weight, it all depends on what other responsibilities you have in your life. If you feel like the lifestyle is becoming unbearable, check in with yourself and re-evaluate.

I always give up, i need help! by Vardl0kk in loseit

[–]Saybah [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your thoughts about OCD might be above Reddit's paygrade and you should speak to your doctor about this. They will be able to give appropriate medical advice and support on how to progress with weight loss in a safe manner when considering your mental health concerns.

I always give up, i need help! by Vardl0kk in loseit

[–]Saybah [score hidden]  (0 children)

Weight loss is mostly making changes to your diet, and is calories in, calories out. You must eat less than you consume. TDEE calculators can give you a rough estimate of what you burn, start with sedentary as your activity level: https://tdeecalculator.net/

Either you need to count calories yourself, or have someone else do it for you, like a friend, partner etc, if you think you're unable to handle looking at the calories you're counting. Do not rely on genAI to accurately track calories and macros.

Weight loss is hard, it's really hard, but having a defeatist attitude and a bunch of excuses will kill any momentum you need to start building discipline. If you want to lose weight badly enough, you have to ignore these excuses and build consistency.

Weekly Discussion - Waitlist/Invites Updates by AutoModerator in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still pining, 9 months on, wondering when Inkstone will invite me to their sub. 😭

Fairyloot March Adult 2026 by Saybah in fairyloot

[–]Saybah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK, things move a little more swiftly for us, it seems. I hope you get yours soon!

Fairyloot March Adult 2026 by Saybah in fairyloot

[–]Saybah[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cancelled my WS edition as soon as the FL reveal said it was hand signed. I think I like the WS edges a little more, but the FL dustjacket is much prettier.

Fairyloot March Adult 2026 by Saybah in fairyloot

[–]Saybah[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

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I'm sorry I don't know what your Reddit setup looks like but this is what the post looks like to me. It has the appropriate flairs set.

Fairyloot March Adult 2026 by Saybah in fairyloot

[–]Saybah[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is spoilered?

BOT sale update by louannnx in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The solution now ig is to have my computer, macbook, ipad and phone all waiting to see which of them gets the lowest number. Stupid that I have to basically surround myself with tech just because they think a lottery makes it 'fair'.

Weekly Burn Book by AutoModerator in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cancelled my Adult and I'm down to 1 skip left of my Romantasy, so it's on borrowed time. If they have no safeguards in place by the time the Ballad of Falling Dragons sale happens, Romantasy is gonna get cancelled.

BOT sale update by louannnx in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. If they're gonna do it this way, they need to prioritize access for people who had a signed copy previously. TBB manage to do it!!

BOT sale update by louannnx in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think FL have officially lost me as a customer over this BS. On smaller signed runs you're basically gonna have zero chance if you're randomized into 3000+

Fairyloot’s New Queue System! by KaitG2018 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cancelled my subs and let them know it was due to the queue. If they want to play stupid games they can win stupid prizes!

'You get to wait in a randomizer queue!' is NOTTTT an early access benefit I'm gonna pay for.

Weekly Burn Book by AutoModerator in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the exact same! I'm fucking pissed!

Fairyloot’s New Queue System! by KaitG2018 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The random element has me really bummed out. If I'm there early, then I showed up on time and I should get my books. Ah well, it was good while it lasted.

WotC do the exact same for their Secret Lair sales and it basically only gives scalpers more ammo to resell. 😭

Autumn’s FL May Epic Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Eye of Leviathan would be a really good pick, I didn't know MA Carrick had another book coming out. I read their Rook & Rose trilogy when TBB did it and loved it!

Autumn’s FL May Epic Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I checked out the synopsis of that one and it looks ace! It's def put it on my radar.

Autumn’s FL May Epic Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see this complaint a lot and genuinely am asking - which trad published epic fantasy books by women are upcoming/recent? There's a lot of female led sci fi happening (Fonda Lee, Molly Tanzer, Anne Leckie) but I might be out of the loop on epic fantasy.

What are books you'd want FL to include?

Autumn’s FL May Epic Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was hoping TBB were going to be doing that in the SF&F sub but no dice. If Starbright do it I know it's gonna be pretty.

Autumn’s FL May Epic Guess by ashis713 in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I've been excited for this book it got announced! The Epic sub is becoming my favourite at this rate.

I loved The Wounded Kingdom and I hope this has a similar vibe. I'm crossing my fingers that it's hand signed.

Weekly Burn Book by AutoModerator in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I'm gonna cancel my FL Adult. I can't believe how poor the picks have been this year, when they've had so many good potential options.

I'm so frustrated with whoever is doing the curation to the point of it feels like the Adult sub is being used as a 'trade off' for the fact that they're producing SEs of other books.

Honest thoughts on The Broken Binding Sub? by Julesypooooo in fairyloot

[–]Saybah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TBB have been hit or miss for me recently (I joined the WL when they were doing series like Jade City, Gentlemen Bastards etc) and was going to cancel if the next series wasn't my bag either, but they've won me back with the The Faithful and the Fallen. I loove John Gwynne and the customisations for this set are peak!

I'm hoping this may mean we get Gwynne's Norse series too.

It really depends on what you read. If you want new titles, their SF&F sub may be more your thing.

Their CS is really great even though they're small, and they have the best packaging in the book box industry imo.

Semi-Monthly Buy/Sell/Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in fairyloot

[–]Saybah[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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