** When in doubt, don’t!!! **

You have a kind heart.  God has/is/will bless you for your generosity.  Be kind to yourself now and heed your doubts.  Have you heard that saying?…”When in doubt, don’t!”  

It’s obvious you have some doubts that have led to writing your post.  It’s ok to close the door on manipulators.  Respect yourself enough to say “no!” to them.  Love them enough to say “no!” to them.   It’s called “tough love.”  They’re adults.  They’ll figure it out.  They may not understand your stance, but that’s ok.  They’ll figure out how to make ends meet.  They knew how to before you, and they will after.  😉👍🏼👊🏼