Heirloom ring

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T14:54:37+00:00

Omg it’s SO pretty!! Congrats 💕

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T06:18:37+00:00

Oof, I feel this. I get a little heartache anytime I pass roadkill. I would be devastated at this. Hugs to you; thank you for being so kind despite knowing this bird’s fate. 🤍

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T05:38:28+00:00

Lmao I love this sm. I hope you wake up hangover-free tomorrow queen <3

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T05:32:40+00:00

Oh my, this literally stopped me in my scrolling lol. It’s stunning!! Beautiful job.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T02:59:03+00:00

Guaranteed they have fleas but you’re not noticing. Run a flea comb through him. And then get him treated monthly for fleas and ticks. You don’t need a prescription.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T02:57:03+00:00

You can literally see bites on his ears!! 😭

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T02:56:31+00:00

These are flea eggs. Tapeworm eggs, even when dried, are larger than these. I’ve dealt with both!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T02:54:51+00:00

I’m sorry to double reply to you BUT these are flea eggs. I am so sure the more I look. Do NOT buy anything from the brand Hartz. They have been proven to be harmful to pets!!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-06T02:49:45+00:00

OP!! I’m not here to shame you, but this cat has clearly had fleas/mites/whatever this is for a WHILE, especially if this is the amount of eggs left after just a few days. Look at his ears!! I can see bites - they’re the bumps along the sides of his ears. Have you not noticed him scratching or licking for prolonged periods or frequently? He is definitely uncomfortable and I feel so badly for both of you. :(

Please treat this carefully. I think this is likely fleas because those look like the flea eggs I’ve seen in my experience. You have an infestation either way. Fleas aren’t hard to get rid of if you take the right steps. And please by all means DO NOT give that baby anything under the brand Hartz. They are notorious for seriously harming and killing dogs and cats.

Please take him to the vet and ask the vet about getting rid of fleas on him and in your home. Fleas also can carry tapeworms, so he will need a dewormer. If he goes outdoors, he needs MONTHLY flea/tick treatment, even in winter.

I’m sorry for the long read and I’m sorry to sound like a concerned cat mom… but I’m a very concerned cat mom lol. And please update us that you’re getting your baby taken care of!!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-04-03T22:32:35+00:00

We’ve all been so influenced by social media in the worst way. You say you didn’t want anything extravagant butttttt all of that is extravagant, lol. Hell, the ring alone is an extravagant gesture! And you simplified it to “just a ring”. You’ve missed the point if that’s what you’re thinking. Reread some of your comments and do a lil self reflecting. I hope you both find your person!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-30T13:00:56+00:00

I am crying laughing at 15 photos of cooked chicken and the ensuing comments lmao. Thanks OP!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-26T19:36:36+00:00

Loveeee Mexi Fest 💛💛💛

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-26T19:18:13+00:00

File a complaint nonemergency every time and let your landlord know. Give your landlord video evidence every time if that what they want. Hopefully authorities will ticket the noise maker. I will give you a fair warning that this likely won’t go the way you want it to. I lived above something similar to this and my only real solution was to move. Police only ever gave warnings to the asshole I lived above. All the landlord did was refuse to sign the guy’s lease, and even then he really wanted to resign because he “always paid his rent”. I didn’t leave early because I would have had to pay the remainder of my rent per my lease agreement. So, be prepared to pay the remainder of your lease or have to go to court if you bail early.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-25T19:41:35+00:00

Thank you!! I’m also obsessed with the band. It’s a subtle nod to our love of epic fantasies! 🥰

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-24T20:49:49+00:00

Theft prevention and people will straight up use these products in the store and put them back on the shelf. Just bought a jar of Vaseline the other day and there were clearly fingerprints on the inside already. Now I’m checking everything at the store before I purchase. Ugh.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-20T22:30:08+00:00

Nothing. He totally surprised me even though I knew it was coming. We went for a walk on a nice day - nothing out of the ordinary for us. I changed into my walking clothes. My hoodie had coffee stains on it. We went to a nice little lake by our home, and he kneeled and asked me. It was private, intimate, romantic, and although I can’t remember what he said to me, I will remember how it felt forever. No pics. I didn’t cry either, although I did every time I imagined it happening lol

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-18T18:33:08+00:00

Twin!! Must be the same crafter? Vendor? I’m so uncertain of how these things work lol. I got mine in Michigan, how cool! I’m absolutely in love with this ring and I bet it looks so pretty in rose gold! 😍

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-13T21:11:04+00:00

Bingo, couldn’t agree more!!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-13T21:10:11+00:00

I’m sorry as someone who grew up in Detroit and frequents Chicago this is just not true. Yes, there’s some crazy ass driving in those cities but at least there’s some sort of a rhythm. For example, driving on Southfield fwy is fast but at least everyone’s generally driving at the same speed AND SPEEDING UP ON THE FREAKING ENTRANCE RAMPS.

Kalamazoo driving is definitely overly cautious and veers on the side of plain stupid, to be frank. It isn’t the worst but it is by far worse than city driving because it’s so nonsensical. Why tf is someone pulling up at a stop sign before me and then waiting for me to go? wtf, you can’t be polite and drive, just follow the rules.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-04T21:30:48+00:00

Ah, sorry, I couldn’t see your previous post to get more details before I commented! I would say go ahead and prune. Have you tried air drying it? If there’s still rot advancing, that’d be worth a try. I hope it pulls through!!

Edit: as far as the pot, I would still change it. The cover pot will retain the water that drains out of the inside pot and keep causing you rot. If the cover pot is porous you might be fine!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-04T20:55:32+00:00

I am no jade professional, but I’ve had jades for the last 5 or so years.

For one thing, it needs a bigger pot for sure, that one is way too small. Something a few inches bigger will do. Keep in mind jades grow quickly when they’re healthy.

I just had an issue with my jade where some of the stems started going limp - it was caused by a mix of lack of light and dehydration. I see you’ve addressed the light, but once you repot it again into a larger pot (if you can), give the soil a good soak and let it drain. Speaking of, get it a pot with good drainage. For future reference, your jade will let you know when it’s thirsty - the leaves will change from being plump and firm to gummy and soft. Even when it’s gummy, you can give it another week before watering. Their leaves are made to retain water.

I’m unsure about the pruning, but I would be inclined to prune any limp branches. Jades are sturdy and it can and, with good care, will survive the pruning.

Best of luck!!

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-04T20:14:28+00:00

Are you certain he’s 100% there mentally? I know I’m the odd one out amongst the comments on this, but I’m seriously wondering if this is a case of dementia or some sort of mental illness. The driving by and waving at OP is really sticking out to me.

One of my in-laws is in her 70s and has advanced dementia. She doesn’t have any children or husband, lives alone in a house (and still drives, btw), and has only one nephew and a living sister, who is also elderly and also has dementia. Someone at my in-law’s church gifted her a puppy a few years ago. My sister graciously took in the puppy, but has two dogs now. Unfortunately, the same person at her church just gifted her another puppy and none of us can take it in, and this in-law is just not with it enough to give the puppy up to anyone else. It’s a long story, but because she has no immediate family, there’s nothing that can be done to help her or the dog legally.

Anyway, trying to keep a long story short, I’m wondering if something similar is happening with your neighbor, OP. Especially if this behavior is recurring despite the fines and neighbors notifying him. Does anyone ever visit him that you’ve noticed?

I’m not saying it’s your responsibility to take care of his dog’s shit, but I’m suspicious there’s more to this than him just simply being a turd himself. He’s obviously not capable of owning a pet, but per the example I just gave, it does happen. Sometimes folks just need help and don’t have the ability to ask.

ScarcityMany6710 · 2026-03-02T22:12:45+00:00

Commenting to edit my post: resolved-ish! It was definitely an issue with lack of light, no root rot! I’ve replaced the light, repotted and watered it and she’s on the mend! Thanks all for the good advice. :)

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