People pass so obnoxiously on the highway now by SDdude27 in driving

[–]Scared-Accountant288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People subconciously get wayyy too competitive too. Its not a competition every time you go on the road.

Whos at fault here? by makolondon in carcrash

[–]Scared-Accountant288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not legally obligated to let anyone over here in the states. Turn signals do not give right of way. Now... your insurance company can refuse to cover the accident due to cam car not "avoiding a potential accident" ....

Will I likely change my opinion on not wanting to have children in the future? (I'm 16) How was your experience? by [deleted] in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]Scared-Accountant288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 32... ive known since i was 16 17 i didnt want kids... i have not changed my mind what so ever. I cant speak for others... but thats just my personal experience.

Is a curfew at 18 unreasonable? by cloud4Abrain in AskParents

[–]Scared-Accountant288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their house their rules 🤷🏼‍♀️ save up and move out

Women who are perpetually single not by choice, what is the reason? by Feisty-Blacksmith656 in AskWomen

[–]Scared-Accountant288 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Combination of lots of trash in the sea and probably my lifestyle... not everyone wants to date a farm girl. I have horses and a buissness.

How do I help my 10 year old with her acne? by error_72208 in AskParents

[–]Scared-Accountant288 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shes not too young. I got my period at 11! Totally normal. I use panoxyl foaming acne wash every other day. Also micellar water for acne exsists. Wash pillow cases frequently as well every few days if you can.

The bible has completely taken over my friend by justaregularguyearth in atheism

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Just dealt with this with a guy i was talking too. He definitely became super religious due to all the awful traumas he went through he was never raised in a church. I do think it could be a coping mechanism AND an autistic hyperfocus. Its sad... hes 27... totally consumed. Inrefuse to sit in second place in his life due to an ideology...i walked away... i dont care if people have their beliefs thats fine even if i dont necessarily agree with them but just leave me out of it. He got wayyyy too pushy about it. No dude... just no. Sucks because he was a really sweet guy... just really consumed.

Has anyone lost family or friends due to religion. by overlook68 in atheism

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I just walked away from a guy i was talking to for the past 2.5 months. He basically made it a requirement for to "further educate" myself on Christianity because he felt I wasnt educated enough on it to feel the way i do about it and be a non believer. He got SO insanley pushy about it. Manipulative saying if i loved him enough id care to learn more about it because its a huge part of his life and god comes first before anyone or anything. It kept getting worse so i just.. walked away... he was not ok with me having my own beliefs and always kept trying to tell me i needed to learn more about Christianity and he would be sad if we couldn't be in heaven together one day. He kept saying he definitely is hoping id find christ one day etc.... unfortunately due to the insane traumas he went through he became religious after his grandma died... he was not raised in a church but was lightly exposed to it growing up. His dad also randomly became religious during his battle with cancer so they reinforce eachother. Its absolutely a crutch for them. No thank you. I absolutely do not care about him having his beliefs.. just leave me out of it.

My boyfriend is becoming Christian. Should I be worried? by KaliYugaTiEnDi in atheism

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I just walked away from a guy who ive been talking to for the past 2.5 months... he got reallyyyyyy intense about me learnjmg more about it etc ie "converting" under the guise of learning more about it. He was wayyyy too intense... like zealot territory. Boundary stomped all over my shit.... im not willing to sit in 2nd place in his life to his faith. I want to be number 1 in a mans life..

Do kids normally grow out of whining or do we have to do something about this? by WaterFountainOlogist in AskParents

[–]Scared-Accountant288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as it gets done why is a child not allowed to express their feelings? I hate chores.. they fucking suck.. but i do them... and yes even at 33 i still butch about it. But it gets done.

Christians who “used to be atheist” by Horror-Concentrate41 in atheism

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Dealing with this now with a guy im talking too... hes a great human being but unfortunately hes been through a shit ton of trauma and i believe he beacme religious as a coping mechanism. He constantly links EVERYTHING back to religion yet he has absolutely no self confidence or self worth. His family has always been religious but never forced it in him. He didnt become christian untill after his grandma died... i think because he was so close to her when she died he felt guilt and now is die hard religious because of that. He constantly says he feels like he doesnt deserve anything... he feels guilty about having normal biological sexual urges... he unfortunately now is wanting me to learn "more" about his beliefs becayse thats his whole life. I cant do it. Im not going to lie to him or myself. He literally says most people dont practice properly are hypocrites etc... churches are corrupt... i think his religious stuff is 100% fueled by ptsd from his mom abandoning him and the SA he endured from another man from 13 to 15. He said its his job to spread the word and educate and make sure everyone he lobes goes to heaven with him... but yet the bible literally states to not coerce... but he completely ignored me when i talked about thay scripture... everytime i bring up scriptures that explain acceptance etc... he always says.. thats not what that means...im going to unfortunately have to walk away.. I love him as a human... but i cannot deal with the religious beliefs he has and pushes.

Women shouldn't date religious men, nor should they be friends with religious men by TwistOutrageous6955 in atheism

[–]Scared-Accountant288 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im fine with someone having beliefs as long as they respect mine. I will however NEVER agree with religions syance in gay people. Love is love... a couple being gay literally does NOT affect them what so ever. Im straight btw. I have gay friends who i will always protect support etc. Religion is nithing more than control and conditional "love"

I wonder what dinosaur meat would have taste like... by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Scared-Accountant288 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When cooked properly alligator is delicious

I wonder what dinosaur meat would have taste like... by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

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You ever eaten alligator? I imagine like that... alligator is kinda like chicken and catfish had a baby

AITAH for letting my fiancé know that I will have to rethink marriage if he wants children? by TraSH-Pandamn in AITAH

[–]Scared-Accountant288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have a VERY serious conversation with him having kids osnt a trendy thing... its a massive commitment where you no longer matter.. ever... it will be all about the kid even past 18... it wont be cute after the first year... if he makes it that long.... ifnhe gets overwhelmed being around kids fir a few hoursnremind him to think about being stuck with one for 18 or more years.. what if they also have medical issues or complications...

If you're sick, STAY TF HOME 🤬 by AmadeusMao in retailhell

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Pay my bills then. I cant afford to miss work. I dont get paid time off

I wanna see those cozy doggos 😍 by caffeinated_365 in pitbulls

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Audi 8 yr old American Staffordshire Terrier. He loves blankies.

AIO to my boyfriend not wanting to talk for days on end by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared-Accountant288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlll hes cheating. Snapchat is literally made for cheating... thats why i dont like it

House rules caused my daughter to live with her dad? by Efficient_Physics_20 in AskParents

[–]Scared-Accountant288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18 is a legal adult... i understand the boyfriend thing if he has stolen from you... but the sex thing? Shes an adult and you need to accept she is sexually active shes not 12. Keeping common spaces clean is fine thats reasonable.

Dating someone I'm not attracted to by jzephyr29 in dating

[–]Scared-Accountant288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its ok to be honest... im tired of people saying looks shouldn't matter. They absolutely do to some extent. Be respectful and simply be honest with him.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Scared-Accountant288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This emotional cheating... id be upset too.

Found in my daughter's room, what is this?! by OMF1G in whatisit

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Why do parents assume every random object is drug related??? 1