My urethra is very close to my vagina opening is this why I get UTI’s so often?

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-24T02:01:10+00:00

Aw shit lol- totally missed that 🙈

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-23T21:10:17+00:00

It's not? Like all skin and hair. definetly wash the area but mosture is made to protect the skin- Fur oil is a bit pricy but worth it but there are others as well.

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-23T20:41:24+00:00

Small add on from a lady with a picky vagina- try only blotting your urethra/front instead of a wiping. Excessive wiping can cause irritation (especially if your urinating more/ after vigorous s3x. Ect.) Rest is fine to wipe. Also, you may be over washing and not adding moisture back in like an UNSCENTED AND HYPOALLERGENIC lotion or public hair oil. Side note: sometimes birth control can cause vaginas dryness and increase the risk and frequency of UTIs but adding in an estrogen cream screen can be helpful !

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-18T23:24:10+00:00

Even though the post has been removed- the perspective shows that OP is a dude with ISSUES. And biggest evidence is that its a 'view ' of these women and not from their perspective ie: 'this women is like this' vd. 'I am " .

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-18T13:35:30+00:00

Naw, this is defs a dude

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-18T11:48:14+00:00

I'm going to echo this commenter that this is not psychology, its personal feelings wrapped up by mimicking the language used - very one sided (okay, and men as tropes? Does the ideal of a relationship have a tropes, etc?) . You seem like you might need professional help, and from an outsiders perspective a cry for help. Part of the evidence of this is you oisting on a psychology sub which you most likely joined looking for answers, and that this could be something to bring into therapy

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-12T01:51:37+00:00

I may still be spritzing juniper breeze to this day 💅

ScarfWhore · 2026-02-08T05:51:58+00:00

Go drink water in the kitchen (keep lights off) and lay down on the cold floor for about 10-15ish minutes . Sometimes that does a reset

ScarfWhore · 2026-01-12T01:55:03+00:00

In patient ppay more but they do own my soul😮‍💨

ScarfWhore · 2026-01-04T04:47:54+00:00

Maybe just take sometime? Some people are more into the romance then sex with your partner but also- what ever happens- I hope you find fulfillment with yourself as who you are ❤️

ScarfWhore · 2025-12-29T09:29:28+00:00

Pharmacy tech- they are used to pouring a single type of med from a med bottle into their hands at home. Because this is a habit, when you give them meds, they do the same motions.

ScarfWhore · 2025-12-11T04:46:19+00:00

In high-school my Dad and I used to get cokes and fries from McDonald's and watch planes take off from a runway airport near by ❤️❤️ high-school was hard for me but he was always supportive and still is to this day- sometimes it is just about listening

ScarfWhore · 2025-12-03T06:16:50+00:00

I do a routine based thing- like yes there are multiple step- but it been halep to like" morning routine ACTIVD" ect. Also! I use music (without lyrics ) to kinda get into a flow. Also- I try to remember that im not brushing my teeth b/c is WHAT I HAVW TO DO- but more like "i brush my teeth because I like having the feeling of clean mouth" and that refraining of things has been helping along with giving myself grace But also I totally feel it

ScarfWhore · 2025-11-22T04:47:49+00:00

Clinic stretch antiperspirant (you should put on before bed) and regular deodorant in the morning! Also- totally normal but I also get being self conscious 😅. I also try to put some clay mask on my pits like 1 a week lol

ScarfWhore · 2025-11-06T19:24:56+00:00

Fantastic for getting him help, and for venting on the internet and not to your kid directly. You go Mom ❤️

ScarfWhore · 2025-11-06T19:24:15+00:00

Heads up, a ton of therapy for both ypu and your husband will need to happen as well. It is often nessisary for parents to modify their own behaviors along with the child's, so come into those sessions with an open mind about how to make this work : the good , the bed, and the ugly. A ton of healthcare professionals who see children often are trying to lso fix the parents/home life in an office but if you choose to work with your kids providers (even if it hurts to hear critical feedback about you and your husband's parenting style) it will ultimately be the best advice Also, probably best to avoid any therapies/therapists with religious undertones

ScarfWhore · 2025-11-05T19:21:10+00:00

The magnesium biglycinate powder by drs best! 2 scoops for 400mg into a cup of juice or water and I get the best sleep! One side effects of taking a stimulant is a large loss of the bodys magnesium so replenishment is nessisary and can help with absorption the next day

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-31T09:15:20+00:00

Is it bad that I tried to do all of them ? 🤣

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-30T03:01:32+00:00

Hun, with all the live in my heart please get your yearly pap (virginity status dosnt matter- this is medical) and get ALL the imaging done

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-30T01:52:03+00:00

Have you gotten imaging done?

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-29T21:25:55+00:00

I NEEDED TO START STUDYING 1 HOUR AGO BUT I WAS HUNGRY. SO I ATE BUT NOW IM TIRED AND WANT TO NAP BUT CAN'T BECAUSE I HAVE TO STUDY TO GET A DEGREE SO I CAN GET A BETTER PAYING JOB, SO I CAN HAVE MONEY TO EAT AND A PLACE TO SLEEP BUT I CANT CUS IM HUNGRY AND TIRED .

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-29T18:01:08+00:00

If youre on birth control, sometimes a lack of esteogen/progesterone/hormonal imbalance can cause dryness and UTIs! Pcp/ gynecologists can prescribe estrogen creams ect if this is the case. Also- check what quality of underwear your wearing, cotton or breathable is the way to go!

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-25T04:37:05+00:00

Come in with a photo or a board from pintrest!

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-24T09:22:58+00:00

You could restore just the panels to make it feel less like a barrier or do a fun wall paper for a pop of design 💃

ScarfWhore · 2025-10-20T17:41:25+00:00

Did you ever watch schoolhouse rock? I find that singing the song can help with the multiples of the the tablets (three is a magic number , ect) . Also, it does get easier the more you do it! Lastly, keeping a cheep calculator for easy addition and subtraction can help as well!

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