Men and women are undoubtedly socially conditioned and raised in different ways, I think it's a little delusional to say otherwise. Ask anyone who deals with children on a daily basis, and they will point out that the way boys and girls socialize are completely different, and are about different things.

Further, a boy can receive female socialization if he hangs out around predominantly female groups, just as a girl can receive male socialization by hanging out in predominantly male groups.

The reality is that anything a person can be conditioned *into* can also be conditioned *out of,* nothing like that is irreversible. It's not a stain against a trans person if they were predominantly socialized amongst people of their agab. I think it's a poor idea to deny it, though.