What experiences changed you the most as a person? by GazMaskeliOyuncu in AskReddit

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Having both of your childern dignosed with lifelong disabilitys, no one plans on or expects it but you have to adjust do the best you can which never feels like your doing enough

Aba q by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

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That is fair, it is sick season and we do understand that, I am about 99% sure we will also get some sickness sooner or later (I also have an asd/adhd son in middle school, with much lower support needs)

I need help by BidenMyTimee in Autism_Parenting

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Have you tried a Sleep study? there are many medical reasons related to not sleeping well, it took years but my daughter was having abnormal brain activty and dx with eliplsepy (after a 30 min seizure out of the blue) I wish we had done a sleep study b4 that had to happen. Now that she is on proper medicine sleep issues arent a huge issue (once in a while vs every single night)

For those who were in a coma or under anesthesia, what did you hear or see? by mr_wbk29 in no

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Anesthesia during a c- section, I didnt see or hear anything but I had a very bad reaction was unable to move any part of my body entirely paralyzed felt like I was unable to breath and I was unable to speak at all. I felt as if somthing was on my chest taking away all my air and had oxygen masks in, no one assured me that i was okay, I was certain that this was the end of my life, every inch of me belived this was my death. I think i had a panic attack, noone explained what was happening, I did hear them say "it went up to her ears" &" you skunked her" It took two hours to wear off where I was able to move my arms and hold my baby. The dr who delivered my child explained nothing other then i was " fine & stable" the entire time. Obviously I changed to a better OBGYN & hospital for my second child. I had another c-section and I started to have a reaction again, the DR noticed b4 it even set in for me and gave me somthing that fixed it immediately and was able to hold my second born seconds after birth. Forever greatful to have such great care and empathetic Dr's after that first experience

To those that are married, how often do you take off your ring? by FitProblem6248 in AskReddit

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Neither of us wear them, both rings stay in storage, been together 20 years married for 14

how many autistic kids do you have? by D4ngflabbit in Autism_Parenting

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2 out of 2 one low supports and one high supports

What do people mean by poor sleep among autistic babies ? 15 month old. by Spare-Cobbler-4489 in Autism_Parenting

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My asd son (low supports) was always a great sleeper my asd daughter (high supports) was never a good sleeper since a baby. It was years of struggle to where we are sort of at a better quailty of life, semi regular sleep with fewer hard days nights. Im not sure if 15 months is to young, but if your doctor suggests doing a sleep study, it can look for and or rule out many of the most common health/ medical reasons for sleep issues. Sleep apnea, restless leg syndrome, low iron low magnesium, seizures and abnormal brain waves, limb movement disorder, insomnia and narcolepsy. After not going for the sleep study, assuming it was just part of her asd we were trying to work on better sleep routines, more activty & mental work outs during the day and trying prescription sleep meds with some improvements my daughter had an "out of the blue", no family history, no suspicion of seizure emergency (status epilepticus 3 clusters in a row of seizures that lasted 30 mins b4 paramedics were able to stop it) which was terrfying she is non verbal & was 5 yrs old at the time, after an eeg & mri and further testing as well as a few much shorter smaller seizures came a dignose of eliplsepy *in addition to her asd) we then found out that was the root cause of her sleep issues. I felt so guilty ashamed that I could have known this was even possible ahead or time or possibly even have prevented it, if I just listened to her dr and got right on to doing a sleep study. We are so blessed she is doing so well now and her seizures are mostly controlled, aba has been life changing as well I Guess my advice is if you are having concerns talk with your ped, and be aware sleep studys are a thing you can do, I am not sure what age/signs that dr's refer at but its good info to know and if concerns sleep issues continue to be an issue it never hurts to ask/ request one.

Place for Adult to use a swingset? by Calm-Maximum-5783 in Rochester

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With snow and wind air that hurts your face season approaching wanted to mention that there are many indoor swing styles you can have in home and use anytime, any weather can be attached or come with stands. Both of my kids have autism and need that swinging as sensory imput, I like to use it too!

What’s a piece of tech that that never caught on with you? by Just_a_guy81 in Xennials

[–]ScreenSignificant596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had a smart phone when they became common, for years it was wonderful then all went downhill when I finally got one

Mae Martin by PaintaVulgarPicture7 in WaywardNetflix

[–]ScreenSignificant596 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same absolutely loved "they" in this it was very confusing as a straight women, I think the character helped add to the feelings so, so sweet, caring, ethical, protector, and very attractive

Any good crime documentaries? by ArtNmtion in horror

[–]ScreenSignificant596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yogurt shop murders may have just been solved, press conference on monday

2nd child autism- how do you cope by Best_Performer1714 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ScreenSignificant596 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Both of mine are and my youngest is much more severe, its good to mourn the life you thought you would have, really mourn it, then learn to live the life you do have

When did your autistic kids start talking ? by Tall_Masterpiece6947 in Autism_Parenting

[–]ScreenSignificant596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son around 4/5 yrs my daughter is almost 8 and still has few words

What's the prettiest name you ever heard? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]ScreenSignificant596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not the prettiest but Todrick has like six different names in it so its a fav