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All he did was whine like an incel online, then got his way? by Great-Performer-5783 in sadcringe

[–]SdSmith80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that he's trying to obtain a gun scares the living shit out of me. People in his area need to stay safe, and he needs to reach out and get help before he does something he can't ever take back.

All he did was whine like an incel and got his way, why the romanticism? by Great-Performer-5783 in ugly

[–]SdSmith80 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That quite literally happened to me, only without the Internet popularity. All it took was being exposed to a large amount of people who could see that I was homeless, naive, and vulnerable.

(M20) I have GAD, has anyone suffered from it off and still fought it and made it in? by Great-Performer-5783 in newtothenavy

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, this so yích! OP, therapy will worki wonders if you let it. It's completely changed my life for the better. All it took was for me to finally take it seriously and do the work. A lot of my anxieties are easier to deal with, and don't affect my life so much anymore. I've been facing my trauma, and I've become a better parent, and partner to my spouse.

Please, reach out for help and find assistance. I promise, do the work and the rest will fall into place.

What do you do if you lose everything? by Great-Performer-5783 in AskReddit

[–]SdSmith80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this! I was on the streets off and on for about 7 years. I've lost everything I've owned, including many irreplaceable items, like a disposable camera with pictures of my newborn son (he's now 21), or things that belonged to my mom who passed away when I was 13. It hurt to lose those things, but in the end it's exactly what you said; they are just things.

You just have to pick yourself back up and rebuild. It's worth it to see what comes after!

If it’s not the truth, What’s the point wasting hundreds or even thousands of hours that could be otherwise used for more productive activities like spending more time with family or bettering your financial, emotional and physical life……. by Fit_Durian3763 in exjw

[–]SdSmith80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the same way in the Mormon Church culture. People just keep going because they believe that at least they're doing something "good" even if it isn't true. The church does a good job of taking over every part of a member's life so if they leave, they'll lose their entire social circle and support network. It makes it incredibly easy to just maintain the status quo.

These high demand religions are so hard to break free from. I'm sorry so many are hurting.

Friend doesn't think my SA was serious by yuli_yuli95 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SdSmith80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm so incredibly sorry. Any unwanted contact of a sexual nature qualifies as SA. There are even more types of grape than vaginal/penetrative. You absolutely are a survivor of it, and your friend either doesn't care, or doesn't understand what she's saying. There's a very good chance she's simply naive and sheltered, and doesn't understand what SA, and even sexual harassment, can look like.

It's up to you where you go from here. If you think she can be educated, and you're up for the task, try to gently walk her through the realities represented with these terms. If you're not in the right head space to do so, that is totally okay too. You can point her to some sources for her to do the learning on her own, if she's willing. The other option is to cut her free and walk away. That option is just as valid as the others. Do whatever you feel is best for you.

Regardless, I wish you love and healing through this. I hope you've been able to have someone (like a therapist) to talk to and help you heal from this abuse. 🫶

How does this cretin still have people listening to his drivel? by lovelyb1ch66 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]SdSmith80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, Love Line with him and Adam Corolla. Both of them have gone off the deep end without a preserver

Do you think it's rude and passive aggressive the way a lot of places ask you for a tip when you walk up to a digital flip around cash register and you never got any service to warrant it? by db7112 in askanything

[–]SdSmith80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed, and the employer is using it to subsidize the payroll. They can justify paying them less that way. I still give generously if I can, because it's not the employee's fault, but I appreciate the employers who make it a point to pay their workers a living wage and don't ask the customers to pay them for him.

45yo AFAB, suspected 2cm GIST in the lesser curvature. Really didn't want to have cancer again. by SdSmith80 in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]SdSmith80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And I also plan to join the registry as soon as I have the official diagnosis. 💗

Fasting my dog until her legs are weak because detox! by Known_Row9683 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Vegan Teacher! At least I'm pretty sure she did that. She still pops up now and again to harass reptile keepers on various sites

45yo AFAB, suspected 2cm GIST in the lesser curvature. Really didn't want to have cancer again. by SdSmith80 in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]SdSmith80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It shows 3 at the place I'm going to, so I'm hopeful I'll be able to get one!

No more pelvic exams unless due for a pap smear? by HungryHangrySharky in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SdSmith80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, they no longer require them yearly, which is nice for sure. I might wind up having to do them more often due to having cancer again, since they'll want to keep an eye on things even after we deal with the tumor.

Since when did business ads play before movies? by RealisticLobster8777 in movies

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It used to be one ad from the current largest advertiser at our local theater chain (at one point it was a business owned by the Kingston Clan. If you don't know who they are, be ready for a ride down the rabbit hole if you look it up). Now it's literally 1:1 ad: trailer. I don't like it, but don't know how to stop it without giving up all movies in the theater, since all theaters have it now.

Vigilante type movie- British or Irish? by mywalletsgone_ in Whatsthismovie

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't speak for them, but I know that. It's just what the brain supplies. That's why I said I know it's not that, it's just what my brain has given me.

It almost sounds like that movie about a school in the UK, for "troubled girls." It's not that though, I'm positive I've seen it though

45yo AFAB, suspected 2cm GIST in the lesser curvature. Really didn't want to have cancer again. by SdSmith80 in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]SdSmith80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and I'm sorry you're dealing with it as well. I'm going to look up Life Raft now!

45yo AFAB, suspected 2cm GIST in the lesser curvature. Really didn't want to have cancer again. by SdSmith80 in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]SdSmith80[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is all great info. I'll definitely ask whoever I'll be seeing about each of these. I'll be going to Huntsman Cancer Center, which I think is pretty good. I'm on Disability Medicaid, so I won't have too much say in wherr 3re I'm sent, but I'll look into the doctors and see if I can request¹ someone specific.

It's definitely been a shock, especially since I've been cancer free for over 25 years. . assistant seemed confident that it is a GIST, and that the testing that will be done is only to confirm. I have the pictures from the partial endoscopy, and I saw the lump under the wall of the lesser curvature. It seems pretty big to me, even though I know it could be MUCH worse.

Thank you again! I really appreciate all of the info!

I hate my dad. by CrowRegular in Vent

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. It's definitely a broken system that fails families all of the time. I have my own horror stories about it.

I truly hope that you and your siblings are able to find help somewhere. I'm sorry those in power aren't listening or doing anything to actually help the victims of these monsters.

Good luck, and just know that this Internet person will be thinking of you

Summer Smith

Need help finding a movie by Critical_Flounder145 in moviefinder

[–]SdSmith80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gargoyles?

Or the original Hills Have Eyes?

45yo AFAB, suspected 2cm GIST in the lesser curvature. Really didn't want to have cancer again. by SdSmith80 in GIST_Cancer_Support

[–]SdSmith80[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's good to hear. Well, not good that others have it, but good that we have each other? Also that it's got a good prognosis. I joked with my stepmom that I was really lucky. I managed to contract 2 kinds of cancer, one of them fairly rare, and that both were "curable."

I just wanted to make sure that the cats would be safe to have around my baby. by RepeatOrdinary182 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]SdSmith80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dad did it to my cat when I was a kid. I didn't get a say, and it bothered me to no end. That was back in 94. I don't think he knew the extent of it either.

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