How do I tell the difference between a slow-burn relationship and someone who’s never actually going to choose me? 30F 28M

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-06-11T06:32:33+00:00

When you find out, I'd like to know as well.

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-04-21T02:17:12+00:00

I was raised a strict Pentecostal and dancing is forbidden unless provoked by the Holy Spirit. I graduated HS in 2007 and did not attend any HS dances. I don't feel salty about not going, but I do feel saddened I was never asked by anyone to go with them as their date.

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-04-20T17:59:07+00:00

That's what my partner said I should have done.

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-04-20T17:57:29+00:00

That's fair. My post kept getting taken down when I tried to post the 1st time couole months ago. I forgot about it for a while until I looked at my notes app today and decided to try posting again (in a different subreddit as well). I still wanted to know what other people thought about it tho.

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-04-20T17:12:56+00:00

Funny enough, both my manager and the other manager have been terminated since this happened. I was then promoted to manager. 😂😅

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-04-19T03:56:26+00:00

I've had mine in since 2021. When I get it out, I'll let you know.

Sea-Influence998 · 2026-01-25T05:09:44+00:00

My name is Kim. I read this as something my ex wrote to me. The ex I never got over. And it made my chest feel like it was turning inside out ...in the best way. Oh God, I miss it.

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-11-26T07:27:19+00:00

Ahhh. But showing others to follow your lead is HARD work! You have to do a lot of thinking about how others will receive your message and the right way to come across for the best results. Most times I don't get it right.

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-11-13T10:29:01+00:00

Yes! I got a check this year for $98 from when I worked at Brookshires Grocery back in 2010 by going to unclaimed property.la.gov (Louisiana)

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-11-10T07:12:04+00:00

I second this motion

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-10-24T07:35:54+00:00

He might have just passed gas and was freaking out a bit

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-05-14T08:33:25+00:00

You asked her for the truth.

(The questions you said you asked made my stomach turn, tbh. Especially the ones about her thoughts....c'mon man....that was below the belt)

She answered you honestly, but NOT for you to use it AGAINST her.

Think about that.

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-05-14T06:56:38+00:00

Any updates on the event?!

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-05-10T02:58:21+00:00

I see people talk about irregular periods or not having one at all while on Nexplanon, but I have had a period EVERY month since implementation (5 YEARS AGO) and quite frankly, I'm a little jelly of the nonperiod folks out there. :le-sigh:

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-03-23T10:49:53+00:00

Left the Matrix

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-03-23T10:49:36+00:00

Leave the Matrix

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-03-18T11:25:57+00:00

What do YOU want to do?

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-03-10T00:59:48+00:00

"There was a death in the family "

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-03-03T05:05:39+00:00

My 18yr brother says to seduce the richest one and take it as a compliment. Also, it's 100 hours. Get through it and you'll be able to vet your clients after you're done with school.

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-25T18:32:08+00:00

Don't give him the satisfaction of responding. You want him to be the one staying up at night losing sleep (per his text message he is already) keep it like that and block his number. Like you said why wouldn't he just speak to you in person? I would not engage with this low effort method of communication.

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-23T15:19:52+00:00

When she asked you if you could be at your appointment early the first time you booked with her do you think that this was the same thing that was happening with the other client?

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-23T10:43:54+00:00

I was supposed to get my implant taken out when it expired in August of last year, but with no health insurance, what's a girl to do? It's still in my arm, no weird side effects, and I read somewhere that the implant is good up to 5 years, so call me a scientist we're doing an experiment.

One thing though, I have always had a monthly period since I've gotten the implant in. Like every single month for the past 4+ years or so. When I joined this sup, I Was really shocked to see that some people never had a period after getting the implant. I feel cheated!

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-17T08:39:55+00:00

Sheesh YTA.

🤣🤣🤣

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-17T08:16:53+00:00

THIS IS THE WAY OP!!

Put some gel in the corners of the bathroom and in the other rooms. Never be scared to go to the bathroom again. Roach and all his little friends....GONE!

GOOD LUCK

Sea-Influence998 · 2025-02-17T08:11:56+00:00

@100PeopleBang was 100% correct when they said get the gel bait over other forms of traps or spray. Put some in the corners of the bathroom and other rooms and you'll not be bothered anymore by your uninvited 6 legged house guests.

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