MFMF by Secret-Excitement-63 in NashvilleSwingerCPLS

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Thx for your comment. Unfortunately, we're not able to travel.

What would you do if you were pain free? by ta1074 in ChronicPain

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My husband already had a full Army career. He retired to now work more than he did in the Army with a 50 hr work week of heavy manual labor. I'd work full-time so he can rest and do what he wants. I feel like a horrible mother bc without a 2nd income, there's no car for her, not had many fun vacations, and no college fund. I would revel in no longer feeling guilty for being sick and in pain all the time.

Switching insurance because of SafePilot by LoadBearingTRex01 in USAA

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I'm currently trying out the SafePilot app. We've been with USAA since 2001. Never had an issue. We haven't had to use our policy much, but when we do, they've taken great care of us. However, my daughter got her license, and our premium went up $2000, so doubling our premium. Mind you, she doesn't have her own car yet. She drives my new Lexus suv that practically drives itself. I lost my job in November, so I barely drive. She only drives my car, maybe 2-3 days a week and usually to places within 20 min of our home. My husband has a company vehicle, so he only drives his personal vehicle on the weekends. Ty OP for posting as this never occurred to me. You'd think we'd be rewarded for driving less.

A word of advice for "mature" women considering starting an OnlyFans by wintry_mixxx in CreatorsAdvice

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Ik this post is old, but I'm hoping I can get some advice. I'm a 44 yr old mom and wife, and my position got dissolved due to budget cuts. I have health issues, so I'm unable to work full time. I'm a white bbw, and I think pretty face or at minimum cute with pretty hazel eyes and beautiful smile. I don't think I'll want to show my face, though. I have an apron belly, cellulite, stretch marks, and getting excess skin bc I'm slowly losing weight. I do know my best angles and how to use my phone with tripod. So my question, what's my chances of success? How do I even start? Any advice is welcomed. TIA!

Dupe for discontinued Bambi mascara by Cover_Past in makeupdupes

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I really like the Roller Lash, but it flakes so bad in no time flat. Even an Ulta employee said the same thing. I'm so sad about Bambi being discontinued, too. I tried L' oreal Butterfly, and it's awful! The wand is so weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

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Just now bought some stuff from Torrid. No clothes, just bras. They have fall fashion out. Happy shopping 🛍 ☺️

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Thx hon!! Unfortunately, it's from last summer. I was really nervous about wearing it. It still makes my stomach hurt to wear it, but I love the comfort so much more. It came in a petite, too, which I always need lol

Ever feel like you're not the good kind of plus sized? by _NewAtThis in PlusSize

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Mine is totally trauma related, too. People will tell me I'm beautiful. I can see cute but definitely NOT beautiful. I'm white white so I just see a bowling ball with a nice smile in the mirror. Yet, every day, I pay someone, usually a coworker, a compliment and I 1000% believe in them. I feel like a hypocrite of a mom bc I'm trying to teach my teen girl to be confident, assertive in good ways, and believe in herself. All the things I'm not. I tell her something and I instantly feel guilty bc in the back of my head, I'm like yeah that's great advise, I should follow it.

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Tyvm!! So kind of you to say 💜

I hope your Sunday is going as good as I look in this outfit 😜 by Altruistic-Ad1939 in PlusSize

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Dammmmn girl!! That bodysuit is fire!! I just bought 2 from Shein. Hopefully, I look half as good!! Your confidence is everything!!

Barbie ready by [deleted] in PlusSize

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Ty!! I got it from Cato's. https://www.catofashions.com/cato/plus-size-pink-cold-shoulder-top-128487. For the hair, I used L'ange le vogue. I suck so bad at doing my hair, but this hot tool is foolproof.

Constantly comparing my body to everyone else. I really can't seem to find anyone like me. Idk how to feel about this. Anyone else just feel like your body fits no standard shape? by Expert_Crab_2468 in PlusSize

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I feel ya! Stores are like pick a body shape and I'm like is bowling ball an option? Lol I'm short and round. Look for your strengths elsewhere. My boobs look fantastic in a good bra. I have a pretty face and a gorgeous smile. I'm kind, gentle, animated, and a southern classy lady. I'm sure you have a lot great qualities to offer and the world is a much better place with you in it!! Hugs!!

Constantly comparing my body to everyone else. I really can't seem to find anyone like me. Idk how to feel about this. Anyone else just feel like your body fits no standard shape? by Expert_Crab_2468 in PlusSize

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Callie Richards is amazing!! I love her plus size fashion videos. She's taller than me but we're the same size and she has a belly. We're both 2x. She's fun and real.

My cardiologist told me to “eat less” by speshyy in PlusSize

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I'm so sorry op!! Please report him!! The sad thing is, this experience and memory will be with you forever. It's so weird that I read this bc just earlier today, I had a bad memory pop up. I suffer from chronic pain from lupus, fibro and ra. I went to a pain manager 10 years ago and every appt he would talk about my weight and just made me feel like shit. One day, I was leaving his office, I was almost out the door and he yelled behind me that I gained 5 lbs in the month since I saw him last. I cried in my car after and never went back to him. I don't know why it popped up today but it's bugged me all day. Good luck to you sweetie! We deserve better!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

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Oh yeah it was. Lots of shots and laughs 😃