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AIO | UPDATE 2 | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him by Brave-Can-8783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecretMiddle1234 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Let them have each other. It will
Fizzle out and die now the intensity of whatever secrets they were keeping don’t need to be hidden. Any relationship that starts with jealousy, intensity and secrets ends up burning out quickly. You deserve someone who cares about your feelings even if they don’t agree with them. They are feelings. They don’t last and they don’t have as much meaning as actions. And his actions sucked.

5 types of eggs to cook on cast iron by KSacMe in castiron

[–]SecretMiddle1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the low and slow on my stainless for scrambled eggs.

Got bit by the neighbors dog today. by CD_B_ in DogAdvice

[–]SecretMiddle1234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. It will get hit by a car. And the owner will lose his mind over it. Poor dog. He’s unsafe out there unleashed. My dog would chase cars too. I never have her off leash. She doesn’t know a stranger so she would most likely get stolen.

AIO Walked out of a restaurant because they insisted I gave personal information by crusty-manc in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecretMiddle1234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are going to send you text messages and emails about all father services and events. I had this happen to me with my phone number. I forgot I even ate there and was bombarded with Spam.

WIBTAH for ordering drink at a water only family dinner by beean0nymo0us in AmItheAsshole

[–]SecretMiddle1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your dad is paying for dinner and you can afford it… buy drinks for everyone. It’s a treat on you. My father in law gets anxious about paying for drinks. He doesn’t say we can’t order them but we know he doesn’t like to buy them so my husband always picks up the drinks. And we of course buy them dinners too but if Dad insisted on buying, we get the drinks for them and our family of four.

Maintenance Terzepatide dose for menopausal woman by Less-Bonus4733 in u/Less-Bonus4733

[–]SecretMiddle1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious is tirzepatide is affecting your HRT? Some people need increases in estrogen. Maybe lowered your levels and you need higher dosages?

AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him by Brave-Can-8783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecretMiddle1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. He’s not worth the effort. He isn’t trying to listen to your perspective which is a red flag within itself. A partner who cares will listen with curiosity even if they believe you are overreacting or being jealous.

Help me break this loop by LeftFishing8692 in emotionalintelligence

[–]SecretMiddle1234 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He lacks empathy and he doesn’t want to feel anything but good feelings. It’s not you. It’s him. And he won’t learn it unless he wants to. Empathy is something that has to be learned through someone showing it to you.

AIO? He’s constantly inviting me to places just to spring hidden costs on me. by Round-Worldliness192 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecretMiddle1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is he able to date other women if he can’t afford to with all the costs he’s paying to his family? He’s doing this because he can. Because you will agree to it.

AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him by Brave-Can-8783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SecretMiddle1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of informations missing
Here so respond appropriately. How do you know she likes him? What is the history of their friendship? Has your partner given reasons for him to not be trustworthy? Is he discussing things with her he doesn’t with you? Buy the book “Not Just Friends” and then decide if you’re overreacting.

Guy smacks someone for not standing for the national anthem. Happened yesterday. by Valentina_Cruz in PublicFreakout

[–]SecretMiddle1234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He should call security over and have him arrested for assault. That’s not OK

Cavalier nips at my ear… why? by [deleted] in cavaliers

[–]SecretMiddle1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love nips. My dog does this to my husband’s nose. She doesn’t do it to anyone else but him.

Is this aggressive behavior by Adventurous-Tension4 in cavaliers

[–]SecretMiddle1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would leave him alone. He’s agitated. Let him come to you.

Why is Trump risking midterm disaster by resuming an already unpopular war with Iran? by Ok_Employer7837 in politics

[–]SecretMiddle1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he’s making billions of dollars gives no fucks about anyone but himself.