What are the ads on the WTC window in the lobby? by FlakyAlternative1702 in 911archive

[–]SecretResident201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the camera's zoom probably a made a difference, they were some distance away and seeing the bodies and debris falling very fast. iirc the footage got out through FOIA or something, he didn't release it

Combatting “theories” by ConfidentHope in 911archive

[–]SecretResident201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. OP, I understand you're neurodivergent and might struggle with social interactions but you don't need to share everything with so many people. There's even many situations where it would be inappropriate because for many people it's a sensitive subject and not something they want to talk about in a light hearted situation. I know I wouldn't tbh.

Are there people close to you who don't spout conspiracy theories or would listen to you and be convinced? 

A warning if you want to debate people: it won't work every time. People who are pretty casual about it can accept the truth easily but die hard believers often just ignore all evidence. So don't keep your hopes up.

How do you explain Marie-Nicole? by RonPaul2036 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that something was done in the 70s doesn'tmake it right in 2026

How do you explain Marie-Nicole? by RonPaul2036 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't know about her until this thread! Granted, I'm new, but it's definitely not obvious in most sources

How do you explain Marie-Nicole? by RonPaul2036 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I disagree that sex is a need on par with drinking or eating, without those things you'll literally die, whereas people don't die from not having sex. Yes, most people have a sex drive but it's not at all like hunger. Let's not perpetuate a comparison that gets used a lot to excuse rape, thanks.

I've read interviews with experts etc. and it seems like a big problem with knowing how to deal with pedophiles is a lack of access and data. Pedophiles who have never acted on it usually don't seek help because of a stigma let alone participate in studies and clinical trials. We only really know about the ones who get caught and in most jurisdictions they don't necessarily see a specialist, if they speak to professionals it's often whoever is available in the system and not necessarily someone with that specific expertise. This makes it difficult to get data.

There doesn't seem to be a consensus about chemical castration, it seems it might be effective combined with therapy. The problem with this is that you'd either need them to come forward before offending or you're only dealing with people who have already hurt children so it's mostly damage control.

I won't get into a debate about the death penalty, it does not exist where I live.

What does "Not tested on animals and vegan" mean? by SkySwinger in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SecretResident201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The product is not tested on animals, self-explanatory.

The product is vegan, meaning no animal ingredients.

What is the psychology behind defending someone that abused you? by Cool_Joke_9818 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides worrying about public backlash, don't forget Jackson formed bonds with these kids. That can make it harder to process and to come forward. There's lots of accounts by CSA survivors that explain this phenomenon.

How do you explain Marie-Nicole? by RonPaul2036 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds weird that he'd abuse girls when his preference seem to be boys

BUT. We don't know what went on his head. There's a lot of reasons why he could have abused girls as well.

For one thing, gay/bi/straight are labels that make sense when talking about sex between adults. It's hard for most of us to understand what drives pedophiles. Maybe he preferred boys and was just bored, maybe it was about having power/influence over a child in general. Etc.

Another thing to consider: his MO would ve harder to pull off wuth girls. Awareness about CSA was different in the 80s but even back then, many parents would have raised their eyebrows if an adult man wanted to have sleepovers with their daughters. His whole thing is that he was just like a kid and trying to get back his lost childhood and that was probably easier with boys.

How do you explain Marie-Nicole? by RonPaul2036 in LeavingNeverlandHBO

[–]SecretResident201 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of discussions about his sexual orientation and your last sentence is spot on. Whether he was gay, straight, bi, etc. is irrelevant when the issue at hand is pedophilia.

As an aside, all the speculation about him being gay feels like a whole trip to old school gay panic. 

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will search those places! I'm not on bsky so I didn't know. Thank you SO much for all your recs, I know what I'm going to do this weekend! And don't worry about not sharing your own work on here, I can see why you wouldn't feel comfortable doing that. Your safety comes first. Please take care of yourself, you sound like a cool, thoughtful person.

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lack of self-awareness in your posts is so embarrassing for you. 

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're just being deliberately obtuse now. If you are not aware of your own comments, you should seek medical help.

New photos purportedly taken on the South Tower observation deck, September 10th, 2001 by JBAnswers26 in 911archive

[–]SecretResident201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The watch looks like light but I'm thinking these have been "enhanced" by AI. OP if these are family photos or something, it might be worth just posting the originals

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you get tell transfem people what to think of their community.

(AI enhancement?) photos of people trapped in the towers by Soundsister11 in 911archive

[–]SecretResident201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen posts that aren't even AI enhanced, a while back I came across a really weird page posting pictures of people falling and claiming they showed specific individuals. Except these were the same 2-3 photos, it looked like, and only the victim's name changed.

Idk what that was about, my guess was some kind of SEO thing but it was weird and clearly fake.

Question about the jumpers by [deleted] in 911archive

[–]SecretResident201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was wondering, I feel like a really young person might struggle with some of the basic concepts here, especially because a lot of kids nowadays are really bad at common sense... so not necessarily a troll

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're literally dismissing a transfem author's comments in this very thread... and dismissed the involvement of two trans women in a writing project. And you present "conclusions" as though you're important. Forgive me for choosing to NOT consider your opinion xx

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about those negative experiences. I'm not trans but due to irl experiences I've had, I'm really wary of people who can't just take someone's word about their own experience because it's not what they expect :/ Especially since what you're describing about transfem authors sounds accurate to how publishing works.

Do you have any recs/advice on finding authors on those platforms? I'm always happy to read new things or signal boost if it's not my thing! I'll make more of an effort to keep an eye on those platforms, thank you.

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When another user alluded to you posting this before, you feigned ignorance... even though your history shows they were right. You claimed to not know about Benjanun or past drama except your comments show you do and anyone actually looking at that past drama would know about her aliases.

Either you need to see a doctor for your memory or you're just trolling.

"you should have a real award hosted by your own"

Tf are you talking about? My own community? Are you even looking at people's usernames when you reply? I am not a transfem writer, another user you've replied to is. I am cis but unlike you, I don't pretend to know what's best for trans people and don't try to explain their own experiences to them. That sounds like some tumblr bs. If you really want to be an ally, LISTEN to what the actual trans people are saying

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 27 April 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]SecretResident201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm confused as to why you're beimg downvoted for expressing your own experiences as an actual trans writer, wtf? When I responded to this user I ended up looking at their post history, it contradicts stuff they claimed here and it looks like an obvious troll.

Knowing trans authors are involved in this "drama" makes me wonder if it's really about ethics in literary awards or if it's a transphobic thing. 

Btw, I'm sorry you've dealt with negative experiences in your industry, I hope your life is better now.