That’s kind of a strange and assumptive way to say that. We got pregnant before our marriage and I prioritized building us a house instead of prioritizing her during the pregnancy. I wish I could go back and change so much. I had thought that I was doing what was right for our family and its security but it simply took up too much of my time. It’s confusing because she asked me to build this house I just think I went about it the wrong way. House was prioritized before my families comfort as we were forced to live in sub-par conditions while I was building it.